"You. You and your crazy life. You and your geographic anomaly. You and your drunken lesbianic ways and terrible navigational skills." - ProfArt and her holy baby
We still have Lucy. We reintroduced her to SS last night and she was crying and whining with happiness. G still isn't allowed around her much, but they have had supervised interactions in which she cried and whined with happiness and wouldn't stop licking his face.
We are still taking it day to day but she isn't going anywhere.
Are you getting her training to deal with her biting? How is your nephew doing? (was it nephew? The 19 year old)
My DH had a follow up with his oncologist. He's been in chemotherapy since July and they said he has to do another three months and they'll reevaluate at that time.
He isn't doing well. He said that he feels like every day, every action, every thing he does requires major effort and he doesn't know how much time he has. I hope and pray he's being overly dramatic (as he sometimes tends to be) but he's different this time.
I can't think about this.
Hugs his. My DH makes comments like this too. I know exactly what it feels like. <3
My DH had a follow up with his oncologist. He's been in chemotherapy since July and they said he has to do another three months and they'll reevaluate at that time.
He isn't doing well. He said that he feels like every day, every action, every thing he does requires major effort and he doesn't know how much time he has. I hope and pray he's being overly dramatic (as he sometimes tends to be) but he's different this time.
I can't think about this.
Hugs his. My DH makes comments like this too. I know exactly what it feels like. <3
Hugs to you both. You are some seriously strong ladies.
OK fine - I'm assuming it's ooglie that you are all judging. As someone who stayed with a cheating husband for WAY too long, and truly felt like I had to "fight to save my marriage," I will not judge her. Until you are in the situation, you don't know what you will do. Cheating is a major mindfuck, and looking back on my own situation, in hindsight I would do things a lot differently. So I'm just going to wish her luck and hope for the best.
"You. You and your crazy life. You and your geographic anomaly. You and your drunken lesbianic ways and terrible navigational skills." - ProfArt and her holy baby
schitzengiggles I've gone through the same thing as your DH minus the lesion. Optic neuritis, tests, MRIs, lumbar punctures, etc. All inconclusive. I hate the waiting game. FWIW, my dr. recommended I take Vit. D in the meantime, apparently research shows it may help.
The waiting game sucks. Sorry you are having to deal with it, too! It is just so frustrating to NOT KNOW.
Marriage is much better, but obviously with all of the crap this year it will take time to feel stable again. Dh has shown me that I really am his top priority, which is great.
Just had a CT scan today and will get the results on Friday. I plan to ask my doctor about my mood swings and weird anxious reactions, and my unpleasant reactions to alcohol. I miss drinkiiiiing!
Post by simplyinpenguin on Dec 17, 2014 22:59:02 GMT -5
Well, I moved up two tiers at my job since this time last year, too bad it didn't come with pay. Or alcohol.
I gained a lot of weight over the summer but I'm slowly losing it again, thanks to the crippling depression. Haven't been able to eat much the past couple months. I spend a lot of my time crying these days.
I finally, finally got all my benefits squared away. Now I need to hunt for a therapist.
I applied to a very promising job that would double my salary, provided that I had reliable transportation. As of a couple days ago, my car completely shit the bed and will not start.
No comment on the H department. I just can't handle the flames right now.
Post by lightyears on Dec 17, 2014 23:14:44 GMT -5
i left my verbally/emotionally abusive husband last year and our divorce is final. i am coming to terms with a lot of the conditioning from the marriage, and trying to break out of the behaviors i keep catching myself in. for example, needing to load groceries on the belt a certain way to avoid being scolded, etc. i'm seeing a therapist, and she has been ridiculously helpful. i'm also remembering a lot of shit that i dealt with because i thought it was all normal at the time.
also helpful - my SO is super patient and understanding. he is kind, generous, an amazing listener, and really the best co-parent ever. i sure love that dude.
baby j is doing marvelously, growing perfectly, and with the exception of her RSV battle, she has been a champ in every other aspect.
this has been a really hard year for me, and although i am not here a lot lately, i am always thankful for the support of you all.
eta: also, i was the AE whose husband was hurting their dogs. so, update on that - ellie went to live with my mother, and she is doing incredibly there. she is no longer immediately submissive towards male figures. she has really thrived there, and it was the best decision i could have made.
rigby is doing well as well, and has really bonded with my SO. he prefers him to me now, haha.
I'm gonna bury this here on the 15th app page just so I can get it out.
We are so motherfucking broke right now, it's not even funny. The last half of 2014 has been so fucking difficult on us financially and I feel horrible because the hub has been working his ass off and shit that's beyond his control just keeps going awry. I keep the house together and make sure the girls are good and don't know what's up, but fuck. Luckily it's not affecting our marriage, we're good on that front, but I just want the holidays to be over already. 2015 has got to be better, it just has to.