I'm so sorry that you are going through all of this. I think your emotions are right on track because it's a lot to process all at once. It's ok to be conflicted- it's great that it was all caught and the bleeding stopped but devastating news about the state of your tubes and everything. I hope you physically recover quickly and can enjoy the holidays with your family and that you and your doctors can have a good discussion in a few weeks.
I'm so sorry you're going through that. I'm sure it's very normal to have very mixed feelings about the blessing of preserving your health at the same time as suffering a loss.
Oh, I'm so sorry. What a horrible experience, although I'm so glad they caught it in time and you are doing okay. I can't imagine all the grief you must be dealing with. Try to remember that this is not necessarily the end of the journey for you. Take your time to heal and grieve as you need to. So many hugs to you.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. That is a lot to process all at once. Take as much time as you need to grieve and in any way you want, there is no wrong way. You are always welcome to post these things here, there are lots of us that have had losses. Many hugs to you.
I am so sorry roseflower. My heart is so heavy for you. I'm still grieving from my miscarriage earlier this year, but to compound that pain with the news you received must be additionally crushing. As others have said, take all the time you need to be sad, angry, hurt, whatever. None of what you feel is wrong.
Through the Heart is a wonderful organization and it helped me to read that others felt what I had felt. Please know what we are all here to listen and help however we can.
Post by explorer2001 on Dec 24, 2014 10:20:49 GMT -5
I'm so sorry. Hugs. Please feel free to use this board for support. They have been so amazing and found ways to come through for and support members in all kinds of ways from the internet to in real life.
Post by badtzmaru22 on Dec 24, 2014 10:25:53 GMT -5
::hugs:: I'm so sorry for your loss, and everything else as well. I had a m/c in 2011, and it still sucks, but it has gotten better over time. Please take care of yourself in whatever way you need, and feel free to talk about it here as well.
Post by barefootcontessa on Dec 24, 2014 10:59:22 GMT -5
I am so sorry. Hopefully the surgeon did a good job and cleared things up. I had organs fuse together after my first c-s (also had a lot of complications which I think contributed to so much scar tissue) but I was very fortunate that it did not affect my reproductive organs. Once things settle maybe get another opinion from another RE. I wish you the best and am sorry for all you have endured.
Post by asoctoberfalls on Dec 24, 2014 12:12:37 GMT -5
Big hugs. You're in my prayers. This is not a surprise to God, and he holds you in his hand. Your tears are in his bottle. Have you ever heard the song Before the Throne of God Above? I find it very comforting when I'm feeling devastatingly sad.