so sorry about your loss roseflower. Every loss is Just so, so sad. Please PM me anytime if you have any questions about fertility treatments - I've also had a loss and am now 35 weeks after IVF.
Post by roseflower on Dec 27, 2014 22:14:28 GMT -5
Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers. Recovery has been horrible. Christmas night I had to go to the ER because I was having extreme pain. There is nothing majorly wrong, but when I was sent home the doctors had only given me tylenol with codeine. The ER sent me home with Percocet which didn't do anything either. The next morning I went and saw my surgeons and they said there was nothing they could do, but they gave me a valium to calm me down. I am just feeling so overwhelmed and when I am in extreme pain that is what I am focused on, and then in moments when I have a reprieve from the pain, my heartbreak comes to the surface. I'm sorry for the rambling, I literally have no idea what to do right now.
Post by HoneySpider on Dec 28, 2014 12:59:18 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss and that you are having a difficult recovery, sending so many healing thoughts your way! I know it doesn't make it any better, but know that feeling overwhelmed, emotional, and just unsure of how to move forward is unfortunately very common. But it's ok to not have it all figured out right now, you just need to focus on yourself and don't be afraid to lean on others (your H, family, friends, this board)
A few of the ladies mentioned Through the Heart (thank you!) which is a small nonprofit organization that I run that my husband and I started after our loss last year. Some people find it helpful just to read the site to know they're not alone, others choose to share their story or post on our blog. The healing process is so individual and I hope that over time you'll find what works for you. If you have a moment, I encourage you to check out our site - www.throughtheheart.org
Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help!