She is coo coo crazy pants and admitted to fucking with us for drama....and said we called her names. She's going to stick to asking people IRL for help because we didn't tell her what she wanted to hear.
She wanted to have a commitment ceremony (not a wedding or a marriage) and all the legal aspects of marriage but not be married....and when people asked why she didn't want to get married she would just keep saying "the non-benefits of marriage".
She wanted to have a commitment ceremony (not a wedding or a marriage) and all the legal aspects of marriage but not be married....and when people asked why she didn't want to get married she would just keep saying "the non-benefits of marriage".
Which basically means divorce because all marriages are unsuccessful. But LTRs are not. Except when they are, but they're easier to get out of. But then sometimes they're not. But that doesn't matter because that's not how she sees it in her eyes. Down with marriage.
She wanted to have a commitment ceremony (not a wedding or a marriage) and all the legal aspects of marriage but not be married....and when people asked why she didn't want to get married she would just keep saying "the non-benefits of marriage".
Which basically means divorce because all marriages are unsuccessful. But LTRs are not. Except when they are, but they're easier to get out of. But then sometimes they're not. But that doesn't matter because that's not how she sees it in her eyes. Down with marriage.
In 2 months time (give or take) she went from single, to dating him, to getting poems written for her, to falling in love, to him telling her that he's gotta know where she's at at all times cuz she's so good at blow jobs, to non-benefits!!
In 2 months time (give or take) she went from single, to dating him, to getting poems written for her, to falling in love, to him telling her that he's gotta know where she's at at all times cuz she's so good at blow jobs, to non-benefits!!
Fucking awesome!!
Wait, wait, wait....I missed the blow jobs statement. Is that for real?
In 2 months time (give or take) she went from single, to dating him, to getting poems written for her, to falling in love, to him telling her that he's gotta know where she's at at all times cuz she's so good at blow jobs, to non-benefits!!
Oh and he's the guy who told her that he need to tell her something but wouldn't tell her what it was for days, then she said she didn't like when people did that but he didn't care. Then she thought he was going to say he luuurves her and she would have said it back but then he just said he wanted more sleepovers. She freaked out over nothing and it was all rainbows and puppies and shit. Drama llamas feed each other.
Yup. And when I suggested that if she was that worked up then maybe she wasn't ready to be dating yet. She got upset with me and said that she really wasn't that upset and that she was just portraying that she was really upset.
Still waiting for my linky, BTW. I NEED to see this one.
OMFG either she has always had trouble communicating or she is a liar and my bet is it is a combination. It went from : "He writes me poetry and gets upset when I don't include him in my future" to: "He joked about writing about me, so I asked him what he WOULD write about me if he did and we were totally joking/flirting about the future plans." It also went from "My gut is saying too fast and I am paranoid and scared" to "Oh no, I love the attention and don't get a creepy vibe."
Dammit when I read the title of this I was hoping it was you finally forging a plan to stop stuffing yourself with cheese curds and wine everynight...along with getting off your ass and start running again. Oh well.
Dammit when I read the title of this I was hoping it was you finally forging a plan to stop stuffing yourself with cheese curds and wine everynight...along with getting off your ass and start running again. Oh well.