You start putting stipulations on who can and can't attent your party then be prepared to have some guests turn down the invite. These people sound like huge douchebags to begin with so I say cut your line and move on.
H replied "None of that really matters. If I say I can't be somewhere and that we will not be attending because of a game/babysitting or any other reason, that is the end of it".
I still don't get kid free showers. I've never been to one. I mean, if H is home then great, otherwise, I won't be attending. I'm not finding childcare for a fucking baby shower. I think that's ridiculous.
They said kid free, that's fine but don't get your knickers in a twist if people with kids DON'T COME. WTF cause your responsibility to their party is more important than what??? Grandma giving up her Sunday??
I still don't get kid free showers. I've never been to one. I mean, if H is home then great, otherwise, I won't be attending. I'm not finding childcare for a fucking baby shower. I think that's ridiculous.
Well I hate showers anyway so...
But we go to a ton of kid free events, showers or otherwise. We either get a sitter or one of us goes or we turn it down. Three options. Its not a big deal.
Why is that "fucking ridiculous?" I hate showers but I prefer kid free events. I love my kids, but the idea of schleping them to an adult party is my own personal hell.
I still don't get kid free showers. I've never been to one. I mean, if H is home then great, otherwise, I won't be attending. I'm not finding childcare for a fucking baby shower. I think that's ridiculous.
Well I hate showers anyway so...
But we go to a ton of kid free events, showers or otherwise. We either get a sitter or one of us goes or we turn it down. Three options. Its not a big deal.
Why is that "fucking ridiculous?" I hate showers but I prefer kid free events. I love my kids, but the idea of schleping them to an adult party is my own personal hell.
Okay, cool! Awesome. *I* am not paying someone to watch David to go to a baby shower. Because I think it's fucking ridiculous. That's just me. I have no issue with someone else thinking it's fine and hiring a sitter for a baby shower. You do you! I would not attend.
But we go to a ton of kid free events, showers or otherwise. We either get a sitter or one of us goes or we turn it down. Three options. Its not a big deal.
Why is that "fucking ridiculous?" I hate showers but I prefer kid free events. I love my kids, but the idea of schleping them to an adult party is my own personal hell.
Okay, cool! Awesome. *I* am not paying someone to watch David to go to a baby shower. Because I think it's fucking ridiculous. That's just me. I have no issue with someone else thinking it's fine and hiring a sitter for a baby shower. You do you! I would not attend.
Right which is why option 3 is not going at all? There are three options lol. We've done all three. You said you don't get child free showers. I said there are three options and you don't have to go. I also think its fucking ridiculous to pay someone to watch the kids at a shower. We've done it once because we were hosting the couples shower but I fucking hated it.
Okay, cool! Awesome. *I* am not paying someone to watch David to go to a baby shower. Because I think it's fucking ridiculous. That's just me. I have no issue with someone else thinking it's fine and hiring a sitter for a baby shower. You do you! I would not attend.
Right which is why option 3 is not going at all? There are three options lol. We've done all three. You said you don't get child free showers. I said there are three options and you don't have to go. I also think its fucking ridiculous to pay someone to watch the kids at a shower. We've done it once because we were hosting the couples shower but I fucking hated it.