Nope. I stopped letting him look at the scale when I was pregnant and about to outweigh him (he is super skinny, the jerk!). No one but my doctor and trainer know what I weigh and it stays that way
He does, but sort of by accident. When we first met (10 years ago), I had just finished losing 75 lbs., so my weight had been a topic of conversation and somewhere down the line I had mentioned how much I weighed when we met (b/c I gained like 10 lbs. soon after we started hanging out). Now he has that as a base number, so he'll be like oh, you weigh X (like to the actual lb.). It's annoying, but he doesn't mean anything by it. And he tells me how much he weighs.
Don't be so hard on yourself, but I think it's okay that you haven't told him - I get it.
Also, to answer your other question, it's totally fine not to want to tell him. And he seems like he took it well, so don't stress. Also again, don't beat yourself up. You might think you're a chub, but I've met you and it wouldn't occur to me to describe you that way at all. I was actually pretty envious of your figure in that dress. Rowr.
Aww! Thank you. I need to be mindful of not being hard on myself. I think my insecurities are getting the best of me.
He knows. Only because I've gained a decent amount of weight since January and I burst out in tears lamenting about the actual number to him after weighing myself this morning.
That said, he's surprised too by how much I weigh/gained since I don't really LOOK that much different....
If asked he would be a gentleman and say 10 lbs lower lol. But yes I am sure he knows my number. I pretty much stay at the same weight forever and ever.
We actually had a conversation about this in the car over the weekend (why I don't know) and I made home guess. He was within a few lbs so I told him. I don't weigh myself often so it's not something we talk about regularly. We actually talk about his weight more than we talk about mine.
H knew in May when I had to retake me driving test (because no good deed goes unpunished). I had to get a whole new license 13 years after I got the first one so H was there for moral support and to take me for ice cream afterwards. Anyways, he's most likely forgotten my weight since then. It doesn't matter to me if he knows. He's my biggest boost of confidence because he tells me I look sexy/hot/beautiful daily. (heart)
I don't know. He's very weird about it lol. If I asked him his answer would likely be, "don't care" because whenever I mention what I weigh he says, "don't care" loudly and over top of me.
I know what he weighs because we share a very small bathroom. If he ever sees my number on the scale he says, "eat a sandwich".
Oh hell no! He loves me the way I am and we could both stand to lose some weight. I can ballpark and I'm usually not too far off, but I don't claim to be a fabulous judge a weight because people do carry it differently. I think we probably weigh a similar amount (or I could possibly outweigh him a little). He's less than 2 inches taller than me, but he carries his chub in his gut and his solid/fit legs. My chub is pretty well distributed. I'll never tell him! Lol
Post by liverandonions on Jun 29, 2015 17:52:10 GMT -5
He didn't but went to my prenatal appointment last week and saw the scale. I think he was shocked. It's not good right now so I would have been shocked too. :/
He knew how much I weighed when I was about to give birth. That's because my asshole dad waltzed in the hospital room, looked at the computer next to my bed, and yelled "HOLY SHIT, YOU WEIGH 2XX!? THATS ABOUT HOW MUCH IIIIIII WEIGH! JESUS CHRIST!"
I died a little inside that day because at that point H had never known my weight much less the extra 40lbs I gained with each kid.
Post by fuckyourcouch on Jun 29, 2015 18:16:33 GMT -5
Yes, at least within 5 lbs anyway. He knows because he's taken me to the ER or doctor many times, and we were dating during my ED/recovery. He does hide the scale from me sometimes bc I'm obsessive about it. He says he doesn't care. He also is aware that since I'm 5'11" I'm not gonna weigh 100 lbs.
I totally get not wanting to weigh more than your boyfriend, but don't be so hard on yourself Vicky! You're fabulous.
He knows exactly what I weigh, but that's only because we had a good laugh the other day, when I thought the scale was broken. Turns out it somehow changed itself to kilograms & we can't figure out how to change it back. So technically he knows kilograms, but he's a smart guy. It's not difficult math. Lol
Before that, he could probably guess within 5 pounds.
I don't really understand the big deal of him knowing the number, I guess. When he looks at me I still look the same. I don't look bigger or smaller with a number assigned.
Hahahahahaha, no. Obviously, we all know it's too much, especially after this weekend. lol
I've told the story about how I lied about my weight on our honeymoon before, but it's a good one. We were in the car and I was on the phone scheduling the hot air balloon ride, I was caught off guard when they asked for our weights. I lied by like 50 pounds, then snuck away, called the lady back and told her the truth. I didn't want to be the cause of a crash. LOL. I envisioned the balloon rapidly going down in my corner and everyone yelling at me.
LOL!
When H and I went on a helicopter ride, they weighed us when figuring out the groups. However, it was a special scale where only they could see the number. That was appreciated by everyone, I'm sure!
When H and I went on a helicopter ride, they weighed us when figuring out the groups. However, it was a special scale where only they could see the number. That was appreciated by everyone, I'm sure!
I'd die!!!
They didn't announce the numbers, silly! Only the people figuring out the groups knew.
Yes. We train and meal plan together, so it just came naturally. Im overweight. He knows that. I know that. Anyone with eyes can see it. So the number doesnt matter. I also happen to weigh a lot when thin (heavy bones? Big head? Lol) at 150lbs im a 6.