Mine happened at 21 weeks too, and my would-be EDD is in 3 days. I hate that our stories have to be put out there so people don't think we're monsters and see the need for choice, but people suck. I didn't just wake up at 21 weeks and decide to get an abortion for shits and giggles. I'd much rather be preparing for a newborn right now.
Huge hugs to you. I found the anticipation of my EDD with V was worse than the day itself. I hope you have a peaceful day.
I second this, Velar Fricative. Thinking about it as it approached was really hard. The actual day wasn't as awful as I had anticipated. I hope that is true for you as well, but if it's not, you know where to come for support. Hugs.