I need hair pats

[TrickyBob]

This divorce thing is hard.

He is already talking to other women, cannot even wait until it is legally over.

I wish he would have showed one act of decency and waited until this was all just over but I don't know why I would have expected that. Considering his wandering wye is the reason this failed.


I cannot wait to get this shit filed and be done.

(Scared of being alone)

And I am so scared.

[RamblingRose]

Hugs and hair pats from me, divorce is scary. But you are strong, and will get through it.

[onetruething]

I'm so sorry. Fuck him. He does not deserve you. I'm so sorry you're hurting.

Deep Breaths. This too shall pass.

[flex]

I know it's scary but I guarantee you your life will be better once this is over.

[Deleted]

I am so sorry.

Fuck him. He's such a scum bag. I'm just so sorry your going through this.

[rosiebear]

You will get through this. He doesn't deserve you, and he's showing that you right now. Believe what an ass he is and how much better you are without him. Hugs.

[dexteroni]

I'm sorry. You will be so much better off without him. You'll discover strength you didn't know you had. (((((hugs))))

[TrickyBob]

In his words "you lost the right to be mad when you asked for a divorce"

And I am all "cause lying to you and saying I was in love with you when I am not would have been best? I didn't do this to be an asshole, I did this so we can both move on"

I just didn't mean within the fucking week!!

[tevagirl]

My XH was talking to other women immediately and probably before he asked for the divorce. It sucks! (Hugs)

[So_Fetch]

I'm sorry. He's a dick. ::hugs::

[pantsparty]

I'm so sorry

[Deleted]

I guess now you have confirmation you were right to move on. I'm sorry he couldn't have at least been less obvious about it.


(((Hugs))))

[iamali]

So many (((hugs)))

<3 <3 <3

[isabel]

Fuck him. You deserve so much better. Take comfort in knowing that you're getting away from that mess.

[youhadmycuriosity]

Your update makes me rage. He's being a huge asshole. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

[juliachild]

What an asshole. (hugs).

[Jalapeñomel]

Oh girl, you're life is going to be sooooo much better without him. The world is your oyster!

[amandakisser]

No, he's gas lighting you and being a manipulative douche canoe. I know it's hard and hurts so bad, but just know that he's showing his true colors and proving to you that you are making the right choice. I'm so sorry.

[whiskeyandwine]

Just keep telling yourself that his latest shitty behavior is proof positive that you have made the right decision.

Sending love and positive thoughts your way. You'll get though this, and life will be so so much better w/o him bringing you down.

[miniroller]

W&W has it exactly right. He's just proving to you how right your decision is.
Life is about to get so much better, & I promise you'll see that very soon! Something that has helped me in past situations is internally repeating, "He doesn't deserve any more of my time or mental energy. New thoughts, new thoughts, new thoughts."

I promise a better future is very near, MBL!

[Monica Geller]

I'm so sorry. You deserve so much better. ((Hugs))

[honeychai]

Onward and upward.

[DotAndBuzz]

((((hugs))))

[knx9211]

I'm so sorry. You deserve so much better <3

[sassycat]

Hugs to you first off. Look at his actions and realize you don't have to live like this till death do you part!. You will be fine, dust yourself off and see how much better you are without that douche holding you back.

You got this, we are all here for you.

[mrsukyankee]

I'm so sorry he's such a douche. You will be fine. You are a wonderful person who deserves the best. Hair pats and hugs!

[housewife]

(Hugs)

I'm going threw the same thing. It took stbxh about 4 seconds to announce on social media he was single.

[cuddlyevil]

This is all the proof you need that you're doing the right thing by divorcing him. I know it's scary and hard, but it is worth it when you get to the other side.

My stbx started an online profile on okc 10 days after we agreed to split. Had his first date three weeks after. But he also had another woman's number listed as a work contact in his phone since late Spring/early Summer. And yet somehow I was the bad guy.

{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}

[cabbagecabbage]

I'm really sorry you're hurting. I agree with everyone who says this just confirms how right you've been in your decision. But that doesn't mean it won't hurt you or suck so hard for now.

[karmasabiotch]

Being alone is scary but make a list of things that are fun and can keep you busy. Stock up on books you've been waning to read, find some new tv shows, some man hating Lifetime movies, buy wine and bubble bath, and lean on us. YOu don't have him nut you have hundreds of women that are here for you.

Many hugs...