Your H, man. He needs to fucking go somewhere, coming on to you after your last talk and with all you have going on think just shows he doesn't get it. What's his first degree in? I think we need to stick his head in the toilet and flush until he gets it.
Your sister is just nuts, clearly.
Is your dad still going to sign for a car?
Anything you need, let me know. Do you have my number? You can call and vent anytime, even those three times you are up. Chances are I am too at this point. I'm just short trip over the bridge so seriously anything we'll be over in a jiffy.
I think Eagles' "cut his head off and drive around with it on your antenna" plan is sounding better every day. And maybe you can hang one of Stephanie's ears from your rearview mirror or something, while you're at it.
^Probably officially the creepiest sentences I've ever typed, sorry.
I am so sorry you're going through all of this. I'm not sure how old Lucy is but have you and her seen the movie 'Inside out'? I watched it yesterday and it may help your daughter. It's about these characters that are your emotions and the little girl has her world changed with a move. It's a cute little movie but she may be able to identify with some of it.
Oh, Lucy I hate that you are both struggling so much. And I want to join the junk-punching party because your H, man. He needs to grow up and fast. I'm sorry that you are bearing the sole weight of all these responsibilities and burdens. It's not fair and it's not right and it's not okay. If we can help, in any way, please let us know!
I am so sorry you're going through all of this. I'm not sure how old Lucy is but have you and her seen the movie 'Inside out'? I watched it yesterday and it may help your daughter. It's about these characters that are your emotions and the little girl has her world changed with a move. It's a cute little movie but she may be able to identify with some of it.
Peace, love and light to you.
You know, she saw it like the day after we brought David home. I bought it on DVD for her at Christmas time. Maybe I'll ask her to watch it with me. Thanks.
Oh and she's seven, but turning eight in 24 days (she would want you to know that)
I'm so sorry. This is so much for one person. I want to punch your sister and H in the face.
If you come here we can do it together. Like a ninja squad.
Punch her H in the junk while you're at it, so he stops thinking with that head. Make sure you punch hard enough so it becomes embedded in his abdominal cavity.
I wish I could fly you out to MN to give you a break from ::waves arms around:: all of that. You need a break. For just you, no one else's needs to deal with, just yours.
ETA: Actually, I wish I could fly you and the kids (since I just saw your later comment about L) here. Get all of you away from everything going on.
"He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." - Unknown
I can't stop seething at "wants to go back to school for animation."
Not "wants to", already started, ran out of financial aid/money and took a leave of absence. Which is wholly not unusual at all for the school he was going to, ProfessorArtNerd. Even if he wants to figure something out, he shouldn't go back there.
I can't stop seething at "wants to go back to school for animation."
Not "wants to", already started, ran out of financial aid/money and took a leave of absence. Which is wholly not unusual at all for the school he was going to, ProfessorArtNerd. Even if he wants to figure something out, he shouldn't go back there.
Not "wants to", already started, ran out of financial aid/money and took a leave of absence. Which is wholly not unusual at all for the school he was going to, ProfessorArtNerd . Even if he wants to figure something out, he shouldn't go back there.
I told him not to in the first place!
Well, you can tell him someone who used to work there says run far, far away.
I can't stop seething at "wants to go back to school for animation."
Not "wants to", already started, ran out of financial aid/money and took a leave of absence. Which is wholly not unusual at all for the school he was going to, ProfessorArtNerd . Even if he wants to figure something out, he shouldn't go back there.
Post by karmasabiotch on May 5, 2016 11:35:05 GMT -5
I haven't read the responses, so if I'm asking something out of line or it's been answered feel free to ignore. You know what I've been through, and what I do for career so when I see the words hanging by a thread I want to make sure that you aren't thinking of self harm or suicide. The wording on your post scares me and I'm concerned about you.
I haven't read the responses, so if I'm asking something out of line or it's been answered feel free to ignore. You know what I've been through, and what I do for career so when I see the words hanging by a thread I want to make sure that you aren't thinking of self harm or suicide. The wording on your post scares me and I'm concerned about you.
Oh no no no, I'm ok in that regard. I really can't imagine ever trying to leave my babies and my mom and my nephew. They need me too much. But I do appreciate your concern. I hope I didn't bring up anything too painful for you, though
I'm sorry about your Mom. As far as your sister, it really is time you told her to stfu. Does she have any clue about how much shit is on your plate? Has your therapist given you any insight into handling her?
Take care of yourself, your DD, your DS, and the rest of the adults can deal with their own shit. Make it not your problem if your sister is bothered she missed lunch or your H can't figure how to get his own stuff done. Easier said than done, but you can't change them.
Have you considered just telling everyone to fuck off? Because that seems like the next logical step.
ProfessorArtNerd, I will even do it for you. This could be a service I offer. Like a cottage industry. I show up at people's houses and tell them politely to go fuck themselves, then give a cheery wave and ride off in my Subaru.
Have you considered just telling everyone to fuck off? Because that seems like the next logical step.
ProfessorArtNerd , I will even do it for you. This could be a service I offer. Like a cottage industry. I show up at people's houses and tell them politely to go fuck themselves, then give a cheery wave and ride off in my Subaru.
I will do this with you. I will need to listen to good music beforehand to pump me up for the old "fuck off!". So fun!