Post by charlielove on Sept 26, 2016 10:42:29 GMT -5
Just take today second by second and minute by minute. We are all right there with you in spirit. I only wish we could be there to support you in person. Please PM me if there is something specific you need done. I will help in any way I can. May our love surround you today and in the days ahead, M.
I'm so sorry honey. My dear friend's husband passed way tragically almost 5 years ago, days before Christmas. Their kids were 2.5 and 6 yrs. old at the time. There is no right or wrong way to be or to grieve during a time like this. Emotions and feelings will hit you like a brick wall and someone will be there to pick you up. Sometimes you will choose to fall. And that's ok, it's ok to just be whatever the moment makes you be. Vent, scream, cry, hide, whatever you need to do in the moment.......it's ok . You and your boys are constantly in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm so sorry. I wish we could make this go away. I'm just so sorry. It's unfair. If there are any immediate needs that you or the boys have - food, etc. Please let us know.
Oh honey, we love you and your sweet boys so very much. This is devastating and unfair, and my heart is breaking for you. Please use us however you need, we will be with you whenever you need - to talk, cry, vent, grieve about anything. Lean on us. Sending you so much love and hugs.
I've been thinking about you constantly and wishing you could wake up from this bad dream and we could somehow make it all better. It's just so unfair. We love you and will be there with whatever you need in the minutes, hours, days ahead.
Post by nilex0102 on Sept 26, 2016 12:13:21 GMT -5
I am so so sorry for this unimaginable loss you and your family are experiencing. I just heard since I don't usually come here much. just know that you don't have to be or do anything right now. Take things one breath at at time and allow yourself to feel whatever it is you feel. This will take time to fully process and you are allowed to go through this any way you want. Let this community lift you up or be by yourself just know that there a so many women who are here for you. And know that you will come out the other side of this and still be you. Sending lots of love and hugs from afar.
I'm so sorry. It's so unfair, isn't it? It's really, really, really awful and unfair - for you, for your boys, to everyone who loved him. And I'm so sorry that it happened. You don't need to do anything right now other than get through each moment. We are all here for you.
Post by LiveLoveLearn on Sept 26, 2016 13:50:54 GMT -5
It is so heartbreaking and as it has been said by all I wish there was a way to make the pain better. You are a strong wonderful mother to those boys, sending so many hugs to you. Life is so unfair, please feel free to vent, scream, cry whatever you need to here.
Post by gamecockgirl74 on Sept 26, 2016 14:44:44 GMT -5
God, M. This is so unfair and so freaking horrible. I am so, so sorry. I have not stopped thinking about you, A and J. So much love, friend. SO MUCH. One minute, one second at a time.
I just wanted to chime in with the others that you and the boys have been in my thoughts all day. I can't even begin to imagine the depth of your pain.
You and the boys have been on my heart and mind since last night. Nothing about this is fair and words seem painfully inadequate. As usual, cream said it best. Whatever you need from us, we're here.
Oh, honey, I'm so sorry. You do whatever you need to right now. The only thing you need to do is love your babies. If you need anything, anything, please let us know.
Post by lolaburns on Sept 26, 2016 19:34:12 GMT -5
I would do anything for us all to be with you... taking care of you... taking care of the boys when you needed us.... I can't stop thinking about you and the boys and how I wish we could take this away from you. We are here for you when and if you need us, M. In whatever ways you need. Hundreds strong all over the world holding your hands and hugging you so close. We love you.