Post by creamsiclechica on Sept 26, 2016 3:18:38 GMT -5
Sweetheart, I'm so sorry that this is a nightmare, and all you want to do is wake up. I wish more than anything we could give that to you. It is such a shock to process, I cannot begin to imagine how you heart and your head start to do it, but you don't have to do it right now. It's okay to string along the seconds to survive a minute. I wish we could run interference for you. To keep things at bay until you can manage. Just know that this place for you is whatever you need it to be, in any of the moments. To scream, to shout, to escape and process like a journal, to talk about how every bit unfair it is and how you hate the world. We will listen, we will hold you up and make this space whatever you need. And you can yell at us and tell us to be quiet, anything at all.
claralou and I were talking about how awful it was that we're all so far from you, but she mentioned how because we're spread out, everywhere, there will always be one of us in so many time zones to be there for you. We love you so dearly and so fiercely.
I know there is no solace to be found anywhere in this terrible tragedy. But we are here, and we can give you space at the same time. I just love you so much and this is so, so unfair.
Post by Dorothy Zbornak on Sept 26, 2016 3:36:59 GMT -5
M, we're here. I wish we could all be there in person to hold you up. Everything Cream wrote is true: We are all over the world for you. We will help you and support you any way we can. We love you.
Post by orriskitten on Sept 26, 2016 4:08:08 GMT -5
Oh M. Cream said it so much better than I could.
It sucks. So bad. And I am so sorry.
It is okay to hide and to tell people not right now or just let the phone go to voicemail.
Know that even in your hardest times you are an amazing mom and you will be everything your boys will need growing up. They will be loved and cherished and that is so important and I know you will absolutely do that.
Please let us know if there's anything we can do. Another board member checking in from the earlier time zones.
Post by lauranicole91 on Sept 26, 2016 4:18:19 GMT -5
My heart is breaking for you. I am so so sorry. We are all here for you. I wish we could all physically be with you and give you actual hugs. I am so sorry and will continue to keep you and the boys in my thoughts. You are an amazing mother.
Post by imimahoney on Sept 26, 2016 4:20:19 GMT -5
M, we are here for you now and always. I know that's not what you what but in this moment just know that we are here to offer you comfort, love and strength.
I am so so sorry M. We are here for you. Like cream said, whatever you need, we're here. We love you and the boys so much. I know it's not enough because it's not him, but anything you need, we're here for you. Love you!
Post by TrudyCampbell on Sept 26, 2016 5:45:23 GMT -5
I am so, so sorry, M. We all love you and we are all here for you. I wish I could ease this unimaginable pain. I am always here to talk and listen and I've been thinking of you and your boys constantly. This is so unfair and I am so sorry that it's happening.
Oh M, it breaks my heart that we can't be there in person to give you all the love and support in the world. We're thinking of you always and will be here for you in any way that we can. I love you so much.
As usual, everything creamsiclechica wrote is spot on. I know I'm not right next door (sadly none of us are) but ANYTHING you need- it's yours. We are all here for you, in all capacities.
I cannot begin to imagine the indescribable feeling of loss you're experiencing. I wish I could take it all away from you:(
I'm glad you have family there (and it sounds like more on the way) to help. You are so loved, M. So so loved. You and the boys have been in the forefront of my mind. I am sending you three so much love. And again- if you need anything, please do not hesitate to ask.
Post by ivegotthemunchkins on Sept 26, 2016 6:14:51 GMT -5
Oh, my heart is just breaking for you. I cannot even begin to understand the pain you're in. Whatever you need, just let us know. We're here for you. <3
It is horrific. It is so unfair. I wish I could do something to help you. Nothing is expected of you now, just to survive each moment even though just being is the hardest thing you've ever had to do. You don't have to answer the phone or the door right now. I'm so very sorry. I can't imagine your pain. We love you and are here for you whenever whatever you need.
Post by rubber pants on Sept 26, 2016 6:20:45 GMT -5
We are all here for you, although that seems so generic to write at a time like this, it's the truth. The last 5 years has made us a sisterhood. We are all family. One that fights and doesn't see eye to eye at times but when something as tragic as this happens...We all band together. Please know that you can always lean on us. All time zones. All hours of the night.
Post by ashleydl83 on Sept 26, 2016 6:24:01 GMT -5
M, I'm so, so sorry. It doesn't even feel right or worth saying, but I don't know what else to say. I wish I could take away all of your pain. My heart is broken for you and your sweet boys. I love you so much, and if you need anything, I'm here as well.
Post by The Foozzler on Sept 26, 2016 6:31:54 GMT -5
I wish I had words that could help. Just know that you are so loved here and if we could do anything to help ease this pain, we would do it in a second. You are in my thoughts.
I'm just so sorry. I wish I could be there to answer your phone, get the door, give you some quiet for a little while. It is so unfair that you have to go through this. We love you. We are here for you.
Post by PatBenatar on Sept 26, 2016 6:49:01 GMT -5
Hon you have been in my thoughts. I know people say 1 day at a time but in this case 1 second at a time is more appropriate. I know nothing can take away your pain right now, there's no magic words here. We are here to listen anytime. You and your boys are so loved
I don't have the right words but I just wanted to say I am thinking of you and your boys. I am so sorry. Don't worry about what you are going to do in the future, just focus on taking it one day/hour/minute at a time.
Post by EmmieB1025 on Sept 26, 2016 7:04:28 GMT -5
I am so sorry that your family has suffered this enormous loss. My heart is breaking for you and the boys. I've been praying for you to find comfort and solace at this time. I wish there was more I could say or do for you. ((Hugs))
We are here for you in any way you need us to be. I wish we could be there in person to hold you through your pain. I am praying for all of you in this difficult time.