AAM: I ghosted my Ex. Now she's my new boss

[CallingAllAngels]

What goes around, comes around.

[Nightlight]

Fuck this dude. Enjoy karma.

Also, she dodged a bullet. I think there's something genuinely wrong with his ability to feel.

[cookiemdough]

What an asshole.

[Vespasia]

How the fuck do you ghost someone you lived with for 2 years?! What a spineless asshole.

[SKP82]

Whattajerk

[vicky]

What a tool.

[mcsangel2]

Oh, HELL no. What the fuck is wrong with this guy?

[penguingrrl]

Sucks to be the letter writer. Maybe you shouldn't live with someone for years then fucking disappear. Especially since they're seemingly in related fields.

[sakoro]

Even in our new age of Tinder dating and ghosting, this is extreme. 3 years of dating and you can't even leave a note?!? What a coward!

If he's so good at ghosting and moving on, he should just ghost this current job before she starts.

[Dumbledork]

Aug 22, 2017 12:24:53 GMT -5 1234FIF! said:

Aug 22, 2017 12:24:53 GMT -5 1234FIF! said:

I simply wanted to avoid being untangled in a break-up drama.
be a chicken shit of a person and not deal with anything requiring basic courage or dignity.

FTFY.

[leeba25]

I loooooove that his first letter is all, look I know y'all are usually tough on a guy like me, but I'm really just looking for constructive advice here. HAHAHAHHA ASSHOLE.

[juliej]

"Sylvia was rather emotional and became obsessed with the relationship, tracking me down, even causing various scenes with my parents and friends."

[ESF]

At first I was like, "meh, just be an adult about it." Then I saw that the relationship lasted years, not weeks. WHO GHOSTS SOMEONE THEY FUCKING LIVED WITH?!?!?!??!?!!?!?

This person does not even seem to have remorse about it or appreciate just how reprehensible his actions were and what kind of emotional toll they could have had on this woman. He needs to quit, not just because it would be cruel to this woman but because he doesn't seem to have the emotional capacity to be working with children.

[meshaliuknits]

He wrote that letter trying to make her sound nuts that she tried to hunt him down. OF COURSE SHE DID. That poor woman thought her BF had been abducted or murdered or something. Good lord. The absolute least he could do is stop telling the story the way he does. HE is the nutjob in this scenario.

[meshaliuknits]

Aug 22, 2017 12:48:59 GMT -5 ESF said:

At first I was like, "meh, just be an adult about it." Then I saw that the relationship lasted years, not weeks. WHO GHOSTS SOMEONE THEY FUCKING LIVED WITH?!?!?!??!?!!?!?

It shouldn't even be called ghosting! There's gotta be a more accurate term for what this dickbag did.

[iammalcolmx]

My face right now.

[mcsangel2]

Aug 22, 2017 12:50:45 GMT -5 meshaliuknits said:

Aug 22, 2017 12:48:59 GMT -5 ESF said:

At first I was like, "meh, just be an adult about it." Then I saw that the relationship lasted years, not weeks. WHO GHOSTS SOMEONE THEY FUCKING LIVED WITH?!?!?!??!?!!?!?

It shouldn't even be called ghosting! There's gotta be a more accurate term for what this dickbag did.

Abandonment.

[ESF]

Aug 22, 2017 12:49:46 GMT -5 meshaliuknits said:

He wrote that letter trying to make her sound nuts that she tried to hunt him down. OF COURSE SHE DID. That poor woman thought her BF had been abducted or murdered or something. Good lord. The absolute least he could do is stop telling the story the way he does. HE is the nutjob in this scenario.

AGREED. The fact that he can't even put himself in her shoes is disturbing. 

[ufcasey]

"Sylvia was rather emotional and became obsessed with the relationship, tracking me down, even causing various scenes with my parents and friends."

AYFKM?!?! THREE years and you think SHE was "rather emotional"? FUCK YOU DUDE

[al320]

Dude's never heard of karma?

Asshole. This is why you act like a mature adult and dont ghost people.

[miso]

Not even a Post-It.

[juliej]

Aug 22, 2017 12:58:02 GMT -5 ufcasey said:

"Sylvia was rather emotional and became obsessed with the relationship, tracking me down, even causing various scenes with my parents and friends."

AYFKM?!?! THREE years and you think SHE was "rather emotional"? FUCK YOU DUDE

And she wanted to "settle down." Because you'd LIVED TOGETHER FOR TWO YEARS, knobface! 

[clairedunphy]

I don't think you can "ghost" someone after 3 years. If H decided to leave me he can't just move out and ignore me. I would think he was dead. Of course she "tracked him down." If they lived together, she probably, at minimum, wanted to know he was ok. And they might have shared rent, bills, personal property. What a nutjob.
This guy is getting what he deserves.

[bex]

Aug 22, 2017 12:50:45 GMT -5 meshaliuknits said:

Aug 22, 2017 12:48:59 GMT -5 ESF said:

At first I was like, "meh, just be an adult about it." Then I saw that the relationship lasted years, not weeks. WHO GHOSTS SOMEONE THEY FUCKING LIVED WITH?!?!?!??!?!!?!?

It shouldn't even be called ghosting! There's gotta be a more accurate term for what this dickbag did.

Right??? he deliberately wrote that first letter to make it sound like she was crazy and they had been together for a month or something.

Three years. THREE.YEARS. Of course she freaked out, of course she was worried, and of course she probably still thinks you are scum.

[mcsangel2]

Not believing this one.

[wawa]

Aug 22, 2017 13:05:27 GMT -5 bex said:

Aug 22, 2017 12:50:45 GMT -5 meshaliuknits said:

It shouldn't even be called ghosting! There's gotta be a more accurate term for what this dickbag did.

Right??? he deliberately wrote that first letter to make it sound like she was crazy and they had been together for a month or something.

Three years. THREE.YEARS. Of course she freaked out, of course she was worried, and of course she probably still thinks you are scum.

BECAUSE YOU ARE SCUM. 

And the way he wrote that initial letter makes it clear that he's some sort of emotionally stunted assbag because he doesn't even think that he was really that wrong.  Like...he was kinda wrong.  but not like...that wrong.  DUDE.  NO.

[Captain Catnip]

I'm not even sure how to reply. Damn, that person sucks.

For some reason I assumed the letter writer was a woman, when I don't see a gender at all. Just wondering if I'm missing it saying it's a guy?

Eta: it doesn't matter, I'm just wondering.

[Deleted]

I hope Sylvia gives him hell professionally. Karma is real and the train is pulling into this jerk's station.

[jigsy]

Fuck. This. Guy.

[iammalcolmx]

Aug 22, 2017 12:59:16 GMT -5 miso said:

Not even a Post-It.

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