You're fucking with us, right?? This is just MUD, yes??
Eh, I am done with her.
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Doris, I hope you had a good night with Ryan
I want to poke the bear a little....is that bad??
I ended up watching What to Expect When You're Expecting with the kid....it was ehhhh, but she wanted to watch a movie with me and I figured Ryan wasn't really appropriate! See, I don't always suck as a mom!
I ended up watching What to Expect When You're Expecting with the kid....it was ehhhh, but she wanted to watch a movie with me and I figured Ryan wasn't really appropriate! See, I don't always suck as a mom!
I want something to poke me....is that bad???
I actually liked that movie! It was really cute! I had a ton of fun at the party.....although MM brought pineapple soaked in rum....and he forgot to tell people what it was. Needless to say, my friend's 5 year old ate a few pieces before we could stop him!!
I just want him to act like I matter to him we have been together for 8 years. it just hurts me so bad that he wont even talk to me I want to treat me like I am his gf which he has up until me going on vacation and then bam he doesn't act like I exisit.
People treat you like you allow them to treat you. This doesn't seem like new or unusual behavior for him either, so I'm not surprised he's not responding to you. But like I said even if this wasn't how he's always treated you, ignoring you would be how I would respond too. It's what I did with my XH when he was spouting off his craziness. And I'm not a horrible person, just someone who was at the end of her rope that knew that any response would elicit a long string of unintelligible text messages that would just get crazier and crazier sounding and after so many years I couldn't take it anymore. Which may be the case with your BF here.
Listen to everyone in the rest of this thread, DTMFA AND GET YOUR ASS INTO THERAPY PRONTO!!!
I feel bad for sending all those text messages yes but I also feel if he would just spend time with me call me I would be like this either. I just want him to love me and be nice to like he was before vacation, everything was great with us before I went on vacation. I just dont understand how he can do complete 360 while I was on vacation. I didnt nag him or call except for like two calls a night which he usually didnt answer.
I ended up watching What to Expect When You're Expecting with the kid....it was ehhhh, but she wanted to watch a movie with me and I figured Ryan wasn't really appropriate! See, I don't always suck as a mom!
I want something to poke me....is that bad???
I actually liked that movie! It was really cute! I had a ton of fun at the party.....although MM brought pineapple soaked in rum....and he forgot to tell people what it was. Needless to say, my friend's 5 year old ate a few pieces before we could stop him!!
Duuuudddeee.....all day long I have been thinking about sex. What is that??? I'm far from attractive today and yet I just keep thinking "maybe getting laid would chill me out a little"! I need that shit delivered and then I want it gone!
I actually liked that movie! It was really cute! I had a ton of fun at the party.....although MM brought pineapple soaked in rum....and he forgot to tell people what it was. Needless to say, my friend's 5 year old ate a few pieces before we could stop him!!
Duuuudddeee.....all day long I have been thinking about sex. What is that??? I'm far from attractive today and yet I just keep thinking "maybe getting laid would chill me out a little"! I need that shit delivered and then I want it gone!
lmfao....whoops!! I assume the kid was okay, yes?
Mmmm...I love when it is delivered, lol!!! I need some more of that!
The hilarious thing was this: his mother didn't know it was spiked so she told him he had to eat 2 pieces before he could have a cookie. He was all "Mommy, this tastes funny" and she was all "stop making excuses and eat the fruit!!" LOL. He was fine, thank god.
Duuuudddeee.....all day long I have been thinking about sex. What is that??? I'm far from attractive today and yet I just keep thinking "maybe getting laid would chill me out a little"! I need that shit delivered and then I want it gone!
lmfao....whoops!! I assume the kid was okay, yes?
Mmmm...I love when it is delivered, lol!!! I need some more of that!
The hilarious thing was this: his mother didn't know it was spiked so she told him he had to eat 2 pieces before he could have a cookie. He was all "Mommy, this tastes funny" and she was all "stop making excuses and eat the fruit!!" LOL. He was fine, thank god.
lmfao...I would have done the same thing...."quit your bitching and eat it!!!"
And how do I get it delivered??? Maybe I could turn this into a business plan?? I mean, can't just be us that would subscribe to that, right?
Mmmm...I love when it is delivered, lol!!! I need some more of that!
The hilarious thing was this: his mother didn't know it was spiked so she told him he had to eat 2 pieces before he could have a cookie. He was all "Mommy, this tastes funny" and she was all "stop making excuses and eat the fruit!!" LOL. He was fine, thank god.
I actually did laugh out loud at that!! But only because he was ok, otherwise that's not funny.
If he wasn't okay, I wouldn't be laughing. Especially seeing as I am a mandated reporter for CPS and shit. It was funny though
Mmmm...I love when it is delivered, lol!!! I need some more of that!
The hilarious thing was this: his mother didn't know it was spiked so she told him he had to eat 2 pieces before he could have a cookie. He was all "Mommy, this tastes funny" and she was all "stop making excuses and eat the fruit!!" LOL. He was fine, thank god.
lmfao...I would have done the same thing...."quit your bitching and eat it!!!"
And how do I get it delivered??? Maybe I could turn this into a business plan?? I mean, can't just be us that would subscribe to that, right?
I am sure we can't be the only ones. But I want a dinner out along with it. LOL. I am a demanding bitch!
lmfao...I would have done the same thing...."quit your bitching and eat it!!!"
And how do I get it delivered??? Maybe I could turn this into a business plan?? I mean, can't just be us that would subscribe to that, right?
I am sure we can't be the only ones. But I want a dinner out along with it. LOL. I am a demanding bitch!
Well if he's bringing dinner, he might as well bring some dessert as well. And then he can clean my bathroom and then he's got to the get the flock out! Oh, and maybe take the garbage out while he's heading outside!
If he wasn't okay, I wouldn't be laughing. Especially seeing as I am a mandated reporter for CPS and shit. It was funny though
My family once gave me wine when I was really small, like 4 or so, because they thought it would be funny. They didn't think it was so funny when I projectile spit/sprayed it out of my mouth all over the white table cloth and many of them.
See, now I think that is hilarious!
The best part of tonight was, I said to the guy who brought it, "did you tell people it was soaked in rum?" and he says "No, why would I do that".
My response: "Um....SO THE KIDS DON'T EAT IT!". LOL.
I just want him to act like I matter to him we have been together for 8 years. it just hurts me so bad that he wont even talk to me I want to treat me like I am his gf which he has up until me going on vacation and then bam he doesn't act like I exisit.
He doesn't want to talk to you. He doesn't want you to be his girlfriend. You don't matter to him. Get it through your head.
Then why can't he just be a man and tell me this??? I would accept it I have before. I have gotten over him before but he always comes back in a few months and the whole thing starts again. I just want him to be striaght to me and not leave me in the dark.
I am sure we can't be the only ones. But I want a dinner out along with it. LOL. I am a demanding bitch!
Well if he's bringing dinner, he might as well bring some dessert as well. And then he can clean my bathroom and then he's got to the get the flock out! Oh, and maybe take the garbage out while he's heading outside!
OMG...I love this whole answer. But you forgot that he has to rub my feet too. Mmm....
He doesn't want to talk to you. He doesn't want you to be his girlfriend. You don't matter to him. Get it through your head.
Then why can't he just be a man and tell me this??? I would accept it I have before. I have gotten over him before but he always comes back in a few months and the whole thing starts again. I just want him to be striaght to me and not leave me in the dark.
This is my last response.
Again: are you a moron? Why would he tell you that? You are a puppet on a string. He says "jump". You ask "How high?". He will not tell you this because he will USE you in anyway that he can. He has you exactly where he wants you. He can use and abuse you over and over and over and he knows you will take it.
Well if he's bringing dinner, he might as well bring some dessert as well. And then he can clean my bathroom and then he's got to the get the flock out! Oh, and maybe take the garbage out while he's heading outside!
OMG...I love this whole answer. But you forgot that he has to rub my feet too. Mmm....
Ohhh, yes....that would be lovely!! Think he could be on call for the odd shit I don't want to do, also? You know, picking up corpses, fixing broken shit, lifting heavy stuff?
OMG...I love this whole answer. But you forgot that he has to rub my feet too. Mmm....
Ohhh, yes....that would be lovely!! Think he could be on call for the odd shit I don't want to do, also? You know, picking up corpses, fixing broken shit, lifting heavy stuff?
Ohhh, yes....that would be lovely!! Think he could be on call for the odd shit I don't want to do, also? You know, picking up corpses, fixing broken shit, lifting heavy stuff?
Post by starryfish on Sept 15, 2012 22:41:28 GMT -5
1. Dump this douchebag 2. Get a JOB, stop relying on everyone else 3. Drive yourself/get ur license 4. Get your own apt 5. Go to therapy since you have issues relying on everyone else
He doesn't want to talk to you. He doesn't want you to be his girlfriend. You don't matter to him. Get it through your head.
Then why can't he just be a man and tell me this??? I would accept it I have before. I have gotten over him before but he always comes back in a few months and the whole thing starts again. I just want him to be striaght to me and not leave me in the dark.
You allow him to come back again and again!? Seriously grow a set of balls and tell this bitch to hit the sidewalk. Have you thought about what would happen to you if something would happen to your mother? And she could no longer take care if you?
Sorry for the freakout yesterday. I am better today after talking to my best friend and getting some sleep (sleep always helps me alot). I realized that he is not worth all the crying and being sad because if he really loved me he would choose me. There's a way better guy for me out there but I need to get myself together first. So thank you for all the words harsh as I thought they were last night, they weren't harsh it was what I needed. Geeka
Post by marigoldgirl on Sept 16, 2012 10:56:00 GMT -5
8 years of this kind of relationship. The pattern is already set. It will never change. He will never change. You must change. Only you can change the pattern. Only you can get out. Tell him goodbye and then stop talking to him.
Seek counseling. Read the book. "Women who love to much" when you keep wishing and hoping he'll change. It might be an eye opener for you. You have to accept that you do not deserve this kind of treatment. You need counseling to help yourself understand this and to make better choices in the future.