Update on my mom; it's Alzheimer's.

[cleo29]

I took her for her MRI last week. She kept asking me what cancer they were looking for and I had to explain that was not why we were there. The MRI shows it is Alzheimer's. We had suspected this and in some ways it is nice to finally know, if that makes sense.  She has been having more issues lately; getting into arguments with people, very emotional and crying, etc. so we are going to have a meeting to discuss moving her to memory care. I am also going to check the prices for similar care at other places since this will be above her monthly income. 

 The other night she apologized to me (and my sister) for mistakes she made and that this is why this is happening, which broke my heart. 

 I know you all have been helpful and supportive, more than I can ever repay.  My mom deserves better than this. 

[rosiebear]

Oh man. I’m so sorry; I hope you feel better with a definite diagnosis so you can look forward and plan accordingly. I’m sorry you’re all going through this.

[Patsy Baloney]

Oh I’m so sorry. That’s really tough. I’m wishing a smooth journey for you all.

[winecat]

I'm so sorry. I wish I had wise words but I'm sending you good thoughts.

[redheadk]

I'm so sorry, cleo29. I hope you are able to enjoy some happy moments with her still and that you have success in finding a caring place that is affordable for her.

[sadlebred]

I am so sorry.

[jackie011]

I’m sorry to hear this. We’re going through this with my MIL and it just sucks. Here for support, venting, and everything in between.

[pumpkin]

I’m so sorry.
And can definitely understand the feeling of “relief” for finally knowing.

[Deleted]

I am so sorry.

[Alex]

I'm so sorry. I know that tiny bit of relief you must be feeling now.

[goldengirlz]

I’m so, so sorry.

[al dente]

Oh I'm so sorry. I hope you're able to find a place that you like within her price range. Alzheimer's is such a heartbreaking disease ❤️

[mcmel]

I’m so sorry.

[starburst604]

I’m so sorry Cleo. I’m glad it’s helping you to have answers. I know it must be heartbreaking to have to go down this road. She’s lucky to have you.

[cricketwife]

My mom has Alzheimer’s as well. I’m so sorry.

[Jalapeñomel]

I’m so sorry.

[Gato]

I’m so sorry. If it helps, once we put my MIL in memory care, and we knew she was safe from wandering/driving, it was such a relief. She made friends (and found two boyfriends!) very quickly and I think it was a load off everyone’s mind — hers as well.

[underwaterrhymes]

I’m so sorry cleo29

It’s a lot to take in, getting that diagnosis. When you’re ready, the Alzheimer’s Association can connect you with a ton of resources. 1-800-272-3900.

[onetruething]

Very sorry to hear this. Sending hugs.

[brooke77]

I’m so sorry. My mom also has Alzheimer’s, so I know how heartbreaking it can be. I hope you find a memory care solution that works for you.

[mags]

I'm very sorry

[mofongo]

Oh Cleo, I’m so sorry. It’s heartbreaking. ((Hugs))

[Monica Geller]

I’m so sorry. I hope you’re able to get her in somewhere affordable.

[maudefindlay]

Your local hospital and/or library can give you info on local support groups. My Mom has found it helpful in her relationship with one of her older brothers who was diagnosed 5 yrs ago. Prayers to you.

[huskymom]

I’m so sorry. My mom has FTD (another form of dementia) and it’s been a heartbreaking journey.

[blondemoment123]

I’m so sorry. We’re going through something similar with my grandma right now. Sending you so much love 💜

[elefun]

I'm so sorry

[Bernadine]

I’m so sorry, Cleo. Such a horrible disease.

[lilafowler]

I’m so sorry. This must be so hard for you given everything your family has gone through. You’re a good person for helping her so much and I hope you guys can get to a good place with this new normal.

((((❤️))))

[jinkies]

Sending love to you and your family. I'm sorry.