When is the last time you said "f*ck you" to someone?

[TR]

Censored for the subject line because idk people might be on at work? Anyway, my mom and I were talking and I told her about a dream I had where I told a coworker, "You know what? Fuck you." and then immediately apologized and she said she didn't think she'd ever said that to someone.

So I was thinking about it and I have said it a LOT here lol and I've definitely yelled it in my car at other drivers, but I can't really recall a time I've said it (seriously, in anger) to someone's face.

I was curious if others have more angry conversations lol

[Patsy Baloney]

Oh…

Listen, we’ve had it rough in my house these past few years…

[Deleted]

To someone's face? I can't remember. But I say it to my H behind his back quite frequently.

[pixy0stix]

Uh... yesterday?

[arielroux]

Ooof, probably to my exH as we were going through our divorce, so 7+ years now.

[HRH Queen Dick I, Orphan]

Go fuck yourself is my personal favorite.

[dancingirl21]

I don’t think I ever have. I’ve said things like, “what the fuck?!” directed at someone, but never “fuck you”.

[sofamonkey]

More than I should, but not as many they deserve.

[agnes]

Idk 🤷‍♀️ Since before I started Zoloft?

[ECB]

TO someone, in the true meaning of "Fuck you"... I honestly don't know that I ever have! And I cuss. So... I'm not angel. I just don't think I really cuss AT people.

[bcv513]

In my head? Multiple times per day.

Under my breath? Last week.

To someone's face? It's been five years. I remember vividly saying it to my now XH during a fight when C was an infant.

[TR]

Jul 20, 2022 14:00:47 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

Uh... yesterday?

To who? I'm so curious. I would have guessed I said it a lot, but when I really thought about it, I'm not that aggressive in person apparently lol

[TR]

Jul 20, 2022 14:05:26 GMT -5 ECB said:

TO someone, in the true meaning of "Fuck you"... I honestly don't know that I ever have! And I cuss. So... I'm not angel. I just don't think I really cuss AT people.

This was my revelation! I curse a LOT.

[al dente]

I honestly don't think I've ever said it to someone's face.

I did an internship in Italy working in kitchens, and this was one of the few phrases the whole kitchen knew in English. I dont think they realized how aggressive it is? Lol. I would walk in and everyone would yell it like a greeting.

[pixy0stix]

Jul 20, 2022 14:06:16 GMT -5 TR said:

Jul 20, 2022 14:00:47 GMT -5 pixy0stix said:

Uh... yesterday?

To who? I'm so curious. I would have guessed I said it a lot, but when I really thought about it, I'm not that aggressive in person apparently lol

Random dude in another car who was giving me the finger. No clue what I did, but I enunciated it slowly so he could see what I was saying. Truly random, and I know this makes it seem like I have a lot of road rage, but I don't.

[HRH Queen Dick I, Orphan]

Jul 20, 2022 14:11:27 GMT -5 al dente said:

I did an internship in Italy working in kitchens, and this was one of the few phrases the whole kitchen knew in English. I dont think they realized how aggressive it is? Lol. I would walk in and everyone would yell it like a greeting.

This has absolutely made my day. 5 stars, will read again.

[sometimesrunner]

Jul 20, 2022 14:04:21 GMT -5 dancingirl21 said:

I don’t think I ever have. I’ve said things like, “what the fuck?!” directed at someone, but never “fuck you”.

Me, too. I say "you asshole/fucker" a lot to H in jest...like when he eats the last of something. 

[pinkdutchtulips]

I may have said it under my breath to Miss R … we’ve had a ROUGH few years in this house.

[Roc A Bee]

I’ve said “fuck off” to my bf in the heat of an argument. It’s been months. I yell “what the fuck” to lots of cars while driving. I drop “fuck” and “fucking” in a lot of convo at home and work. But a “fuck you” ? It’s been a long long time.

[winecat]

When I was working in kitchens? All the time. I'm sure the most recent time has been driving. Also, please see why pixy0stix and I are friends. lol

[HRH Queen Dick I, Orphan]

Why so much parsing and pearl clutching? Calling someone a fucker or telling them to fuck off is hardly that different from a direct fuck you. Just lean into it, people.

[Patsy Baloney]

Jul 20, 2022 14:25:24 GMT -5 HRH Queen Dick I, Orphan said:

Why so much parsing and pearl clutching? Calling someone a fucker or telling them to fuck off is hardly that different from a direct fuck you. Just lean into it, people.

This board also has issues with yelling, so I’m not surprised to see people being very delicate about fuck you, fuck off, what the fuck, etc.

I’m a hothead, so gentleness of words is not my lane.

[sunshineluv]

Probably never but, recently I burnt the shit out of my hand (like thought we may need to go to urgent care burnt), my DH comes to check on me and tells me to calm down. I shouted “are you fucking kidding me?”.

Turns out he had googled what to do, and google told him I needed to keep calm to prevent shock, note…. He now knows to never ever ever tell me to calm down.

[marie]

Out loud to someone's face? I am not positive that I ever have, but if I did it would have been to my college ex-boyfriend. I am such a prude, haha.... I probably would have said F-you and not the full saying.

[Deleted]

Sometimes a good fuck you is exactly what that other person needs to hear!

[waverly]

Several weeks ago, someone who shall remain nameless, knocked over a cornhole board in my garage to the point that I literally drove over it with my car. There were swearwords. I had them remove the game to the basement because I had only had it out after a party, and apologized. But I was pissed to be driving over random crap perhaps ruining it and my car/ garage at the same time. Because it was a weird angle, the wheel got stuck on it, and it was a whole thing. Luckily besides some scraps on the board, everything was fine ish.

Oh and more recently I flicked DH off when he was being annoying and condescending.  He asked me where something was and then made fun of me when I gestured/ pointed.  So I gave him another gesture.  He laughed.

[plutosmoon]

Directly to someone? Likely my exh about 2.5 years ago, last time we communicated. I said it to him a lot during the divorce. I still sayfuck you asshole when something involving him comes to mind.
I say it a lot after getting off the phone with a difficult person at work, but that's not to them directly. I'm sure I've yelled it at random people in traffic.

[beerlover]

My H and I say this to each other in jest a lot. I don't know that I've ever said it to someone's face in anger.

[wildrice]

Sometimes I say it jokingly to H, but never seriously.

I said it many times to my XH when we were arguing, but usually in response to something awful he said first - I wasn't the aggressor.

I feel like I was really angry about something unrelated to marriage at some point in recent years and had words with them, but I can't remember. Maybe I'll come back and update. I am generally polite and nice to a fault so don't often get into arguments with random strangers. I probably should more. (I've definitely said it to people who have no chance of hearing me say it, though)

[followyourarrow]

Over text last week. Men from dating apps are idiots.