Post by thoseareradishes on Oct 19, 2012 19:54:34 GMT -5
Anyone up to anything interesting? We went to dinner at Outback and now we're bumming on the couch. I hope I can sleep tonight - I was so tired when I got home from work that I took a little nap. I hardly ever do that!
I'm testing in the morning, once again expecting a BFN, but would really like something to happen so we can start on cycle 2. Tomorrow will be CD 43 already!!!
Post by thoseareradishes on Oct 19, 2012 20:38:49 GMT -5
What did you want to use it on Nama? I feel like I never by anything very expensive-- I usually want to get paper- and I almost feel silly using a coupon!
Post by mkesweetie on Oct 19, 2012 20:43:39 GMT -5
I just got home from vacation. I am feeling bittersweet about this. lol.
I scheduled my Day 1-5 blood work for Monday, I'm waiting to hear back for my HSG appointment, and I scheduled my H's SA all while I was on vacation. It's going to be a busy month around here.
Oh! And I'm going to the Bears v Lions game on Monday night with my dad and I am SOOOOO excited about that!
Post by littlemisschatty on Oct 19, 2012 20:50:36 GMT -5
Radishes - yeah thirty one is a catalog type party. It was my first one, I got a cute insulated lunch bag and a big tote bag. Here is the site: www.thirtyonegifts.com/
I think a big part of it for me is that I feel like he doesn't believe me about not feeling well. That I should just suck it up. I think he's annoyed that I didn't go with him to the events each evening this week. And I'm hurt that he doesn't seem to care about how I feel. I want him to be a little extra nice to me right now and instead he's doing the exact opposite.
Post by winecheery on Oct 19, 2012 21:07:52 GMT -5
Berbles that sounds terrible I'm so sorry. Is there anything causing his behavior?? It sounds like there is an underlying issue...I know you are in pain and probably under stress from all of it too, do you think he's like, "acting out" because of the struggles you're dealing with? (no excuse really but still) poor berbs
Post by winecheery on Oct 19, 2012 21:11:20 GMT -5
And to respond to the original intent of this thread...the fact that I'm sitting here at my laptop means I'm doing nothing. And not too happy about it. I was able to relax after all today; I made myself sit on my ass and decompress (yay!!!) but now I am bored...
I didn't go to my moms. 1. I didn't want to go by myself, and I told him that. He claims to have heard the opposite. 2. Now I'm upset and really don't want to vent to my mom and sister, because ill regret that for sure. Also, I was planning using him as an excuse not to stay there too long. Andolusalso, I don't feel like driving.
Anyone up to anything interesting? We went to dinner at Outback and now we're bumming on the couch. I hope I can sleep tonight - I was so tired when I got home from work that I took a little nap. I hardly ever do that!
Good for you! I wish I napped. I literally only do it when I'm in tech week for a show that's about to go up. And then I remember how awesome it can be and wonder why I never do it...I promptly forget this however
Post by winecheery on Oct 19, 2012 21:20:58 GMT -5
Oh berbles. FWIW, I'm sure that once you get over this next hurdle, and your body is feeling better, that will help immensely. I also think that sometime (not tonight) you guys need to have a heart to heart. You married a man, you know? People cope with things in their own way, but right now, you need him to step up and be the strong partner. You're the one that needs to be able to feel like they're being supported.
Sorry if I'm off base, I'm just commenting based on what you're shared with us. Do something nice for yourself tonight; it's still early!
Anyone up to anything interesting? We went to dinner at Outback and now we're bumming on the couch. I hope I can sleep tonight - I was so tired when I got home from work that I took a little nap. I hardly ever do that!
Good for you! I wish I napped. I literally only do it when I'm in tech week for a show that's about to go up. And then I remember how awesome it can be and wonder why I never do it...I promptly forget this however
I started another part time job, and I'm still adjusting. H tried to come up and talk and I was like, no, seriously, I'm napping!!
Good for you! I wish I napped. I literally only do it when I'm in tech week for a show that's about to go up. And then I remember how awesome it can be and wonder why I never do it...I promptly forget this however
I started another part time job, and I'm still adjusting. H tried to come up and talk and I was like, no, seriously, I'm napping!!
Mke, I know. I know. He has moments when he's really great. But I think he's an avoider. So am I. When I'm stressed/anxious, I avoid things that I don't want to do, even if I know they will make me feel better. Unfortunately, he's the same way.
I don't know. I feel like something's been off with us for a while. I don't know what it is, so I don't know how to fix it.
Post by mkesweetie on Oct 19, 2012 21:27:26 GMT -5
Ugh, I'm so sorry. And I really hope I didn't come across as bitchy. I just think the stress you're under right now is hard on a relationship - even a rock solid relationship.
I hope the two of you can figure things out, sooner rather than later.
I'm going to delete my post, since I know you saw it. ((Hugs))