xh has moved an entire family into the house

[Bernadine]

I shit you not. A couple that we were friends with and their 3 kids. I stopped by to check on the house this afternoon, and they have completely moved in. No one was there. My lawyer's office was already closed, I'm calling first thing in the morning.

I'm speechless. The wife had posted on fb recently about money problems. I can't even believe it. I'm wondering what he's told them about the situation. I exchanged a few nice fb messages with the wife 2 months ago, so I'm guessing they don't know that I still own the house and am paying the mortgage.

[Deleted]

Holy shit.

[Deleted]

OMFG!

[lemondrop]

I would be fucking livid! That dude has some major balls.

[hisno1girl]

As owner of the house, can't you evict them or tell them they're trespassing?

(If you wanted to get into all that dramz)

[demofea01]

The fuck?! My head just exploded into flames on your behalf.

[dcannie]

omg. i don't even know what to say. wtf! what. the. fuck.

[Bernadine]

Yes, I imagine I can kick them out. And I'll flip the fuck out if he's collecting rent from them.

[lucky513]

you need to make sure they are not paying him the rent

[Deleted]

My mind is blown away with rage.

[Kore]

God damn!

[janiejones]

He never ceases to amaze me with the tricks he pulls.

[Deleted]

Dec 20, 2012 18:23:14 GMT -5 @bettyhomewrecker33 said:

My mind is blown away with rage.

I know, every time I try to write something other than "omfg" I just scoff and shake my head and have to exit out of the post.

Because OMFG.

[Bernadine]

Dec 20, 2012 18:22:47 GMT -5 mekiakoo said:

I'm confused, I must have missed the backstory, but whose house is this? Where was he living before? Or was he living there then decided to allow a different family to move in?

It's our house. We had to have a one year separation before I could file for divorce. He refused to move out, and also refused to pay the mortgage. So I've been paying the mortgage for the past year while he's been living there. It looks like he's still living there too, in the basement.

[drrn04]

Holy Fuck. That is.....no words. None.

[jane6672]

Bloody hell.

[Muddled]

Holy shit. He really does have balls of steel.

Counting down the days...

[sunflower22]

:@

[Bonita]

This makes even ME angry!! :@ :@ :@ :@

I was MIA for a little bit, so I missed any recent updates...you were finally able to file in/around November, right? How long until things would be final and he has to move out of your house?

[pantsparty]

You are a SAINT because this would be me right fucking now.

[Bernadine]

Oh, I was screaming and shaking in the car after I left. I filed last month, his 30 days to respond is up tomorrow.

[ProfessorArtNerd]

I'm afraid to ask but... What happens if he gives no response?

[lemondrop]

Dec 20, 2012 18:30:50 GMT -5 Bernadine said:

Oh, I was screaming and shaking in the car after I left. I filed last month, his 30 days to respond is up tomorrow.

So what happens next? What if he doesn't respond?

You are planning to figuratively rape him in this divorce, right?

[amberlyrose]

Can you message the wife and ask her if they are paying rent? Are you close enough to her to do that?

[Bernadine]

Dec 20, 2012 18:32:40 GMT -5 ProfessorArtNerd said:

I'm afraid to ask but... What happens if he gives no response?

That would be the best thing. Then we can just go before a judge and I pretty much get what I'm asking for, as long as it's not crazy unfair. And it's not.

[poppyseed]

Jesus Christ he's such as asshole!

[sewpinkgal]

I know none of the backstory, but OMFG. Fingers crossed that he just doesn't respond. I had a friend whose husband never did and it ultimately worked out for the best for her. I hope it is the same for you.

[Deleted]

OMFG. Rage. Raaaage.

[onomatopoeia]

Holy god. I don't know the story, but it sounds like he's not doing this out of the goodness of his heart (and even then it would be inappropriate) but more likely to (a) collect rent and (b) screw you? And now it's on you to evict a family friend with 3 little kids right before Christmas. How nice of him.

[ProfessorArtNerd]

Kevin would love to beat his ass, just say the word dude