You deserve a partner who worships the ground you walk on, because you are a wonderful human being. And the great thing is, you have plenty of time to start over and find that person.
I am so sorry you are hurting right now. You'll get through this.
Bon, I am so sorry. But the way he handled things speaks volume about who he is. When xH left, he had been planning it for a while. He was just waiting for a job offer OOT to leave. He was extremely nice to me the weeks prior, even insisted on going to a really good restaurant for our 6th wedding anniversary a week before he left...while he had already secured an appartment and the such.
I know it's scary but take it one day at a time. Go see a lawyer tomorrow ASAP. Be proactive, fight! And remember, things will be much better. It might take a while but they will get better. And remember, the best revenge is to live a wonderful life.
Post by PinkSquirrel on Jan 6, 2013 18:35:38 GMT -5
I have a sinking suspicion that a year or two from know you're going to look back on today as the best thing that ever happened to you. He's a worthless piece of shit and you deserve better.
I mainly lurk on this board, but I think I remember you posting that you live in the town next to me. If you need anything...a bottle of vodka, someone to key his car...just PM me! This is a beginning more than an ending, and one day it will be a good thing and not the devastating thing it is today. Hugs.
You deserve a partner who worships the ground you walk on, because you are a wonderful human being. And the great thing is, you have plenty of time to start over and find that person.
I am so sorry you are hurting right now. You'll get through this.
I hope he gets a raging case of hemorrhoids and the most painful testicular torsion ever. Fuck him. You are awesome and deserve someone who isn't a sack of turds like he is.
I'm so sorry, and wish I had something helpful to add. You deserve to be married to someone who treats you with respect and honors his vows. Grieve the loss of the hopes and dreams you had for your future with him, but know you deserve so much more than this.
I'm so sorry Bon. Other ladies have already said the things I'm thinking, so I'll just leave it at huge huge ((hugs)). Take care of yourself, please, you are worth it.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Fuck him. My stomach dropped when I read this. I've been there. I know how you feel and I'm so sorry. You will rise up from this. In time. One day you will be walking down the street and see a guy you are attracted to. You might not even talk to him but you'll get that spark. Then you'll realize that the POS that is your ex is NOT the only man out there. God I hate him for doing this to you.
Oh Bon. I am so very sorry. I wish there was something else I could say. We're all here for you and we all love you. (((((((((((((((((BON)))))))))))))))))
Oh my gosh, bqq, I'm so sorry. Know that we're all here for you. I know it doesn't feel like it right now, but you're going to be so much better off without him. He doesn't deserve you. You're truly a gift to this world.