Thank you everyone. The out pouring of support has been amazing. I love you all. My best friend came over and talked to me for a bit. She said I could come stay there, but i just can't leave right now.
I looked at our bank account just to see where he was, and it seems he book an extended stay hotel room. The charge was for a week's stay, so he really is serious.
All I can do is sit here and sob, and i haven't eaten today. I know i won't be able to sleep tonight either.
I honestly never thought I would be in this situation.
I will be going through all of the pm's too, so thank you from the bottom of my heart. It means more to me than you will ever know.
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
Wasn't there a nestie whose husband just up and left one day saying he didn't want to be married anymore? And he came back, like, a day later and it turned out that he was bipolar or something? Maybe he's having some kind of mental breakdown or something for this to be so out of the blue.
wut??
Bonquiqui, You come lay your head on my bosom and I will feed you liquor and cake while we talk smack about randoms and plot general mischief. I'm so very sorry. I wish there was something that could be said to make it better, something could be done to fix it all up. But I have nothing so I'm just gonna sit here and tell you I love you and that I won't order anything complicated, okay?
In the meantime, Imma need saCURity to come get that man, if only to save his life.
Post by somersault72 on Jan 6, 2013 21:34:38 GMT -5
Lurker here, but I just wanted to say I am sorry. I went through the same thing almost 3 years ago. It was the hardest time of my life (had been together 11 years), but I have survived. Big (((hugs)))
Post by balletofangels on Jan 6, 2013 21:37:55 GMT -5
I know I don't post much, but I wanted to say how sorry I am. I'm always impressed with your excellent attitude and know you don't deserve a fucker who would have the indecency to treat you like this.
I'm so sorry BQQ. Huge creepy internet hugs to you. I agree with everyone else, lean on your friend and loved ones now. Go places with them even if you don't want to (even if it's only Red Robin/Chili's/etc.). Be with only people who love and support you.
I would gladly join the husband-hurting party because that disgrace of a man doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to go to jail for harming him yourself. It's completely his loss. What an asshole.
I hope you realize that while it may hurt now, and you cannot stop sobbing...it WILL get better later, and it will be better than you ever could have imagined. I didn't believe everyone when they told me that, and I thought they were just trying to make me feel better at the time...but it's true {{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}