Just entered to repeat: You are an awesome, AWESOME lady, Bon. I know it doesn't seem like it rt now, & maybe reading from a total stranger doesn't help (@ least immed). But you are; there are ppl who think/ KNOW that you are awesome on this board. Ack. Sucky awful times that I know I can't imagine, but just know/ remember, Bon, that you can do this.
I know you don't know me, but my heart is aching for you. I can't even imagine being blindsided with something like this.
You will get through this, one day at a time, until it's nothing but an unpleasant memory. I hope you'll let someone come sit with you. The company might be nice.
I'm so sorry. I've been in your exact position and know how it feels like the world is ending. But you will get up tomorrow, and the day after that, and you will feel a little bit better. If you can't shake the panicked feeling you may need something short term like Xanax. Don't be ashamed to ask for help.
Post by juliagoulia on Jan 6, 2013 20:20:25 GMT -5
I know you probably don't "know" me on here but you are one of my absolute favorite people on here. You're funny and sweet and intelligent and anyone would be lucky to have you in their life. Fuck that guy. You deserve so much better than someone who will turn their back on you because of a diagnosis... Please don't feel alone. I know there's a lot of people here who care about you & I will be thinking of you. I'm so sorry this is happening. <3
Post by margotmacomber on Jan 6, 2013 20:27:38 GMT -5
Omg bonbon this sucks so much. I am so sorry for you. One million hugs to you. PM me if you ever want to talk, you can have my cell # and everything. ({) (})
You are beautiful and fucking hilarious. You deserve so much more than this.
i'm momentarily delurking to say i'm so sorry, and i wish you the best. i cannot fathom why he'd be such an ass, but clearly you deserve better. good luck and lean on your family.
He is all ive ever known. I have been with him for 15 years
Sent from my # 6
This is how I felt after my XH came home and said the same thing to me. You will come out of this and find better. You will know so much better than him. You deserve so much better. Hugs for you. Wishing you strength.