Here is my flameful. I think people with attitudes like that have no business having kids.
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Stay out of my uterus! You people hate that!
That's where you're wrong. I fully support laws against stupid and ignorant people reproducing. I want the government as far up your uterus as possible.
That's where you're wrong. I fully support laws against stupid and ignorant people reproducing. I want the government as far up your uterus as possible.
You are gross. How old is this child of yours that you've already decided his sexual preferences for him?
Oh, I am speaking in future terms.
Well in that case I'm just going to hope with all of my atheist hope that when and if you have a son you will love him no matter what he wants to wear or who he wants to sleep with when he's older.
Well in that case I'm just going to hope with all of my atheist hope that when and if you have a son you will love him no matter what he wants to wear or who he wants to sleep with when he's older.
I will. And I can assure you that he will always wear boy clothes and be attracted to girls. Thanks for your warm wishes!
Well in that case I'm just going to hope with all of my atheist hope that when and if you have a son you will love him no matter what he wants to wear or who he wants to sleep with when he's older.
I will. And I can assure you that he will always wear boy clothes and be attracted to girls. Thanks for your warm wishes!
Humor me. How do you plan to enforce this? You can't provide that assurance.
We're not sending my son to kindergarten this fall. I'm a lot more upset about it than I should be. It's in his best interest to wait a year, but the goal for us has always been to send him on time. Years of therapy, hours of working with him daily, and it still wasn't enough. All his friends are going and he's not.
And I really just want to tell a friend of mine to STFU every time she starts bragging about what a genius her kid is and how kindergarten just can't come soon enough.
Obviously, this is all very selfish on my part. I'm still sad and it's dumb.
You can't win on this. I wish I had held DD back, and in a world of perfect information, I might have, but at the same time, if I had she would still be in the same boat she is in now, just a year later because most of her problems are school related, and no one would listen to me until she had been in school a year and they had the chance to "appear". Doing the right thing for YOUR kid based on what you know is the right thing, even if doesn't apply to a single other child. I am considering moving to put DD back in first grade next year, since she has basically missed this year.
It is neither sad, nor dumb to want your child to be happy and successful.
I will. And I can assure you that he will always wear boy clothes and be attracted to girls. Thanks for your warm wishes!
Humor me. How do you plan to enforce this? You can't provide that assurance.
How will I enforce what? I don't think I will have to force him into anything. I will tell him what is right and what is wrong and we will teach him as he grows up.
Humor me. How do you plan to enforce this? You can't provide that assurance.
How will I enforce what? I don't think I will have to force him into anything. I will tell him what is right and what is wrong and we will teach him as he grows up.
How will I enforce what? I don't think I will have to force him into anything. I will tell him what is right and what is wrong and we will teach him as he grows up.
LOL! This always works out as planned!
If you could choose, would you choose to have a gay son?
Humor me. How do you plan to enforce this? You can't provide that assurance.
How will I enforce what? I don't think I will have to force him into anything. I will tell him what is right and what is wrong and we will teach him as he grows up.
Right and wrong? You going to send him videos from the exstreme southern baptist convention on how to changes his evil ways? I have been to parties where we drink and gay men kiss every time they say "you can change". Of course, my son proudly carried his pink, princess umbrella everywhere today, and when people commented on how much they liked it, he proudly said, "thank you, my friend Shaun gave it to me.".
How will I enforce what? I don't think I will have to force him into anything. I will tell him what is right and what is wrong and we will teach him as he grows up.
Right and wrong? You going to send him videos from the exstreme southern baptist convention on how to changes his evil ways? I have been to parties where we drink and gay men kiss every time they say "you can change". Of course, my son proudly carried his pink, princess umbrella everywhere today, and when people commented on how much they liked it, he proudly said, "thank you, my friend Shaun gave it to me.".
Nope, just going to raise him with the values that my husband and I share.
My UO: I like Valentine's Day. Everyone here seems to be on the "we don't do it" train. But I'm down with any reason to eat chocolate, tell people I love them, get presents and bone.
This reminds me of my gay boyfriend who so desperately did not want to be gay because his mother would disown him. I tried to help him, I didnt want him to be gay either because he was really hot (and funny and nice). but damn, somethings you just cant change.