Your SIL (the not skinny with tiny boobs I assume) is also acting like she's in high school. She refuses to socialize with someone, who is family, because she ruined a party.
I dunno, there were plenty of times on the knot that people got tons of sympathy for the same situation you SIL (tits Magee) was in. Did she handle it well...no, obviously, but we all fuck up sometimes, and family -especially ones as close as you claim yours to be- should forgive mistakes.
It is such a tough situation when the in-laws don't support a couple. My SIL is hated by her new DH's parents. She has chosen for now to stay out of their way. Her DH goes to visit once every few weeks for lunch or something. She hopes as they fix the relationship with their son that they will be better towards her.
You mentioned how they brought up you being mad that your DH went over to visit his parents while you were away. Does that mean you are not open to him having a relationship with them at all. Maybe I read that wrong but if not, why the need for therapy?
She is hated because they are jewish and she is catholic. What does one have to do with the other?
Your SIL (the not skinny with tiny boobs I assume) is also acting like she's in high school. She refuses to socialize with someone, who is family, because she ruined a party.
I dunno, there were plenty of times on the knot that people got tons of sympathy for the same situation you SIL (tits Magee) was in. Did she handle it well...no, obviously, but we all fuck up sometimes, and family -especially ones as close as you claim yours to be- should forgive mistakes.
There were a lot of other little things that SIL is made about. BIL's wife refused to come to her shower (it was planned for after their wedding, 2 weeks after they got back from the honeymoon). The girl claims she was sick but was perfectly fine later in the night. She did lots of other stuff too but they were silly but SIL is really just done trying to be friends.
She is hated because they are jewish and she is catholic. What does one have to do with the other?
It seems you husbands entire family has one common theme....conflict with everyone else.....and it's NEVER their fault
SIL's husband is wonderful. He is sweet and funny and loves SIL so much. No one cared that he came from a different religion. His parents care a great deal about it. There isn't much that anyone can do about that.
I am being sacrastic. I said a few posts back. Even though I know DH's sister will not socialize with her outside of family functions I will make a point to get a coffee (no alcohol) with her. Actually I think I will just make dinner plans for the 4 of us (with Dh and BIL). I will start there and see how things go. I really don't feel comfortable alone with her since she changes what is said into something bad. I know DH misses his brother. They are only 13 months apart and have always been super close.
Dinner is a good start but I think you have to actually change your attitude before you will make any headway with her. She saw you and SIL being good friends and wanted to be included. From her perspective, you guys basically said no, we don't want to be friends with you by excluding her from stuff. She threw some tantrums and it sounds like you still hold it against her. Drop your past feelings and move on. Acknowledge that you actually hurt her feelings in the past and try to forge a new friendship.
I think the SIL BBF for 10 years is the one feeding the flames on this drama. She is hated by her in laws and she is crying to the family and then is crying to the family about big boob SIL.
OP is just an idiot hearing all this from BFF SIL and MIL and isn't helping or getting to know big boob SIL.
Your SIL (the not skinny with tiny boobs I assume) is also acting like she's in high school. She refuses to socialize with someone, who is family, because she ruined a party.
I dunno, there were plenty of times on the knot that people got tons of sympathy for the same situation you SIL (tits Magee) was in. Did she handle it well...no, obviously, but we all fuck up sometimes, and family -especially ones as close as you claim yours to be- should forgive mistakes.
There were a lot of other little things that SIL is made about. BIL's wife refused to come to her shower (it was planned for after their wedding, 2 weeks after they got back from the honeymoon). The girl claims she was sick but was perfectly fine later in the night. She did lots of other stuff too but they were silly but SIL is really just done trying to be friends.
I don't understand. You and BFF SIL don't want to hang out with Big Boobs SIL but now you say you're upset because she (Big Boobs) didn't attend an event you guys invited her to...I'm lost.
There were a lot of other little things that SIL is made about. BIL's wife refused to come to her shower (it was planned for after their wedding, 2 weeks after they got back from the honeymoon). The girl claims she was sick but was perfectly fine later in the night. She did lots of other stuff too but they were silly but SIL is really just done trying to be friends.
I don't understand. You and BFF SIL don't want to hang out with Big Boobs SIL but now you say you're upset because she (Big Boobs) didn't attend an event you guys invited her to...I'm lost.
Yes, I thought you would invite her if you thought she wouldn't come and were annoyed that she always comes. But even when she doesn't come, she is still the annoying bitch.