I'm on the same Autumn's behavior is odd train. She reminds me of a teenage girl who is trying to fit in with the popular crowd by trying to flame people/start shit all the time. Most of the time, it seems like she's in some sort of one person competition to come out as the top dog. That's all I can think of whenever she posts something snarky or picks apart someone for little shit.
I have my ranking order for folks around here, people like Tamb, Lucy, Toledo, Miso, etc are all on a higher level (not that it's a bad thing, it's mostly the people who have been around a long time/post a ton) and it feels like Autumn has this grand need to be one of them.
When in reality, all I can think of her as is the girl who whined about soldiers, changed names, and waltzed back in like nothing happened.
I've been wanting to tell this story for a while, but didn't have a place for it.
I have a little jar on the sink next to the toilet with tweezers, small scissors, and a needle in it. Its my body hair jar. H has never touched anything in my special jar. I never told him what I used it for because he never asked. Friday night my scissors were sitting on his desk. I asked him what he was using them for and he replies "I've been cutting my pills in half with them, they're the perfect size." My eyes got huge and he asks WHAT WHAT!?! and I say "Those are my pube scissors..." He screamed like a girl and threw them across the room! Then Sunday night he's sitting on the couch plucking his nose hairs (YUCK!) and I said "Were those out of my little jar?" he says yes and I just start laughing. He got so mad and said "THESE ARE PUBE TWEEZERS?!? OMIGOD!!" and stomped up the stairs and slammed them down into my little jar. He'll never touch anything in my little jar again. lololol
Just own your shit already. You've GBCN'd twice in like three months. If you can't handle confrontation, you might just want to try ivillage.
Maybe.
It just gets ridiculous. I know I'm young. I might say some stupid shit but fuck. Ill just resort to likes and lol posts from now on.
Like I said. I'm trying to work on it.
Its not that you say stupid shit. We all say stupid shit sometimes. Just think before you post, learn to own your mistakes, say you're sorry then move on.
ETA: and stop SAYING you'll try harder/do better/work on it. Just DO it.
It just gets ridiculous. I know I'm young. I might say some stupid shit but fuck. Ill just resort to likes and lol posts from now on.
Like I said. I'm trying to work on it.
Its not that you say stupid shit. We all say stupid shit sometimes. Just think before you post, learn to own your mistakes, say you're sorry then move on.
ETA: and stop SAYING you'll try harder/do better/work on it. Just DO it.
Will do.
Like I said, I'm working on the whole think before post and a lot of other things.
Bohemia is WAY out though. Your H's commute to the Bronx would be like 2 hours by mass transit
Bleech!
And thanks for the rec about Nassau County; I will definitely keep that in mind!
I was going to suggest north shore LI like Port Washington, but then I remembered you guys aren't planning to have a car right? If this is the case, stick with the city. You need a car on Long Island.
Its not that you say stupid shit. We all say stupid shit sometimes. Just think before you post, learn to own your mistakes, say you're sorry then move on.
ETA: and stop SAYING you'll try harder/do better/work on it. Just DO it.
Will do.
Like I said, I'm working on the whole think before post and a lot of other things.
lol.
I still don't know what nama did. Or maybe I do and I forgot. Probably that one.
I wish people would mind their own business about handicapped parking tags. I had to call the cops on someone today because he blocked me in and was lecturing me for using my tag. I told him it was in my name, and asked him to move his car. He said no. It was a waste of the police officer's time to come verify the the tag is in my name, it was a waste of my time, and it was a waste of the asshole who blocked me in's time. Although I did get to listen in on the lecture the police officer gave him.
I may be young and look healthy, but I'm not. I wish the people who judge me for using my tags could realize that sometimes we aren't as healthy as we look.
I wish people would mind their own business about handicapped parking tags. I had to call the cops on someone today because he blocked me in and was lecturing me for using my tag. I told him it was in my name, and asked him to move his car. He said no. It was a waste of the police officer's time to come verify the the tag is in my name, it was a waste of my time, and it was a waste of the asshole who blocked me in's time. Although I did get to listen in on the lecture the police officer gave him.
I may be young and look healthy, but I'm not. I wish the people who judge me for using my tags could realize that sometimes we aren't as healthy as we look.
Holy shit. I would be livid. I would press charges for harassment or some shit. Like get his name and call a lawyer.