I just am not buying into this. Does everything always come back to women being victims? And it may cause others to flame me, but I'm beginning to think that some folks can't help but see things that way.
Can I have a seat next to you? I brought marshmallows.
Those who are uncomfortable with two men in a sexual relationship don't approve because it's two men, and they are having sex with men, "feminizing" themselves. They are devaluing their positions as men by doing something that usually a woman does. Because societally, women are seen as less than men, it means that these men have given up their superior status and are doing something against the natural order.