It was basically not existent until after baby, so we're trying to have sex every other day. We both traveled a lot, and my drive plummeted to zero when I was depressed.
We already missed our designated sex day earlier this week.
We've been together 6 years and married for three. We didn't start having sex until marriage (but fooled around beforehand). Like I said in the sexless marriage poll, we've probably had sex 10 times in the last three years. I just don't enjoy it at all. DH initiates, but most of the time, I end up too stressed/anxious to do anything about it.
Post by nightandday on Oct 2, 2013 19:45:34 GMT -5
9.5 years. We get it on 3-4 times a month. It's not that we don't want to, but our schedules are often opposite and we don't have the time together to make it happen. We initiate an equal amount, I think.
Together 15 years, married 7. 2 kids. Prob 2x/mo. And those are like two days apart. It's like we remember, oh yeah, we should do this. Then another month goes by.
Nearly 11 years, we probably average about twice a week? Some weeks it's 4 or 5 times, others not at all if we're super busy or one of us is OOT. I think we initiate equally.
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
We've been together almost 10 years. It was 2x a week before baby with 50/50 initiation. After baby its once a week except ovulation week I get super horny so its 3x that week. I initiate 95% of the time. I feel like he thinks I'm gross post baby even though he swears its not true. I have zero confidence lately.
Married 3.5 years. Anywhere from 2-5x a week. I'm okay on the 2x side, H would like it every day. I try to do every other night but sometimes I'm just really not in the mood.
We're in the once a month camp. "Lazy and prefers oral" would also describe H, so we fool around more often than that but don't have sex all that much. I'd like it more and we are working on it, but it's been this way for a long time now.
We're in the once a month camp. "Lazy and prefers oral" would also describe H, so we fool around more often than that but don't have sex all that much. I'd like it more and we are working on it, but it's been this way for a long time now.
You are the first person I've ever had this in common with.