Post by partiallysunny on Mar 5, 2014 9:29:11 GMT -5
You asked for it.
I can't tell if I'm sick or my allergies are acting up.
Daycare is more expensive than I thought. I can't afford it, plain and simple. I don't know what to do.
Separate sleeping arrangements has been nice. My emotional wellbeing is improving. It's also given me time to step back, reflect and realize I'm not completely blameless in this situation.
Not that my resolve has changed. I'm still sticking to my plan, as best I can.
partiallysunny I'm glad to hear the separate sleeping arrangements are helping. Sorry to hear about the daycare issue though. Are there any groups/organizations that might provide assistance?
partiallysunny, I am glad you're getting some clarity. I hope the daycare stuff works out.
I am getting in touch with a friend who is an attorney today. I thought he only practiced in Kentucky, but he practices here too. I'm hoping he can cut me a deal in terms of fees and such.
Post by partiallysunny on Mar 5, 2014 9:57:31 GMT -5
I make too much for child care assistance ($100 a month too much, lol).
If H and I separate, I assume he'd move in with his parents. 2.5 hours away. There is no way it would be feasible to drive back and forth ever day. Money wise, he doesn't have a job.
I *might* be able to get kid into a preschool when he turns 3.
When talking to H about it, he says it's not necessary to look because he's going to do what he has to... I explained I thought that in January and yet here we are. Now I need to be prepared.
I'm glad you would get to keep the house, PS, and I'm glad that creating some distance at home has been giving you the peace and clarity that you need. Big hugs, lady.
My pms hormones acted up hardcore last night and I cried in front of brewery guy over something kind of stupid that I blew out of proportion in my head. He felt bad and I feel dumb. And didn't sleep well last night and now I feel like a zombie.
I can blame all this on the cysts and ER visit, right?
My pms hormones acted up hardcore last night and I cried in front of brewery guy over something kind of stupid that I blew out of proportion in my head. He felt bad and I feel dumb. And didn't sleep well last night and now I feel like a zombie.
I can blame all this on the cysts and ER visit, right?
My pms hormones acted up hardcore last night and I cried in front of brewery guy over something kind of stupid that I blew out of proportion in my head. He felt bad and I feel dumb. And didn't sleep well last night and now I feel like a zombie.
I can blame all this on the cysts and ER visit, right?
Post by starrieskies on Mar 5, 2014 12:41:03 GMT -5
Something is wrong at work... I'm not sure what it is, but I can feel the stress and tension in the air... no one is talking... it's making me very uneasy. I've worked with these people for long enough to know when something's up and they usually at least give me the short version...
Post by starrieskies on Mar 5, 2014 13:00:40 GMT -5
Ugh! That's awful!!
Well I got one piece of the puzzle... I know there's more though. One of my lead guys had a heart attack yesterday. I knew he wasn't here but no one was saying why...
Post by starrieskies on Mar 5, 2014 13:37:54 GMT -5
He tried to keep working yesterday... he's here today, but we're keeping him in the office where we can keep an eye on him... he refuses to go home and rest...
Post by starrieskies on Mar 5, 2014 13:49:41 GMT -5
He apparently didn't know it was a heart attack until he went to the Dr later. He was at home when it happened and came into work after. The only reason he went to the Dr at all is my boss told him he could go on his own, or we were calling an ambulance for him.