I have a few questions: First, @gypsy, your friend who named his daughter after his boyfriend, what is the male counterpart to Allison?
Alastair? Ali? (I don't know the long version of Ali but my husband works with a couple middle eastern guys named Ali.
Good answers! I didn't think of either of those. Thank you. I realize this is tangental to the op, but really, I needed to know the male counterpart to Allison!
I'm guessing he may have been verbally abusive in part due to his confusion/dissatisfaction with being gay and married to a woman. Not that this excuses his behavior, but he may have had a lot going on and it sounds like he's in a good place now, so I'd leave it all alone.
I'm guessing he may have been verbally abusive in part due to his confusion/dissatisfaction with being gay and married to a woman. Not that this excuses his behavior, but he may have had a lot going on and it sounds like he's in a good place now, so I'd leave it all alone.
I absolutely believe this is true. We were friends for 5 years after we separated and he never once said anything that was mean spirited. He was a terrible husband but a really good friend.
Wait, how old are you wowhead? He's been with someone else for 15 years and you two were married PRIOR to that? I'm confused.
I've heard rumors that there are people here among us who are...gulp...over 40. We really need to crack down on that. Acting like they fit right in or something.
LOL, *I* was married to someone else 13 years ago! For some reason I thought I remembered OP saying she was in her 20? I could be wrong (I hope lol)
I've heard rumors that there are people here among us who are...gulp...over 40. We really need to crack down on that. Acting like they fit right in or something.
LOL, *I* was married to someone else 13 years ago! For some reason I thought I remembered OP saying she was in her 20? I could be wrong (I hope lol)
I have a few questions: First, @gypsy, your friend who named his daughter after his boyfriend, what is the male counterpart to Allison? Second, are there two women on ML whose husbands had longterm gay affairs? Because I think I must have op mixed up with another poster whose husband only recently left (recently being in the last 6 months or so) to be with his lt bf. And finally, wowhead, was your h's current bf an affair during the time you were married? I can sort of see that as something that would change who I am on a very fundamental level, so there would really be no "getting over it" although your OP doesn't sound like that to me; it sounds more like you want to thumb your nose at your xh and wave a cute guy at him and say "Ha ha. You can't have this!"
His name was Al. She was Alison, named after him. I do not know what "Al" was short for.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."