i just tried to troll a completely non-gbcn/TN/TB related mommy board. i thought the mean/snarky/crazy act would be fun and i'd get to say all the mean-spirited-zingers i think of all day and never say. dude. it wasn't fun. i was a nervous wreck the whole time. LOL!
Remember when I was the hated bitch on the BF board? I enjoyed it.
Was this before my time? Why don't I remember this? Was frkls on BF?
Post by PeonyParty on Apr 21, 2014 22:43:36 GMT -5
I want my work to DIAF. I asked off for about 8 days and the plan was to fly out to St. Louis, one way, and stay with my BFF who just moved to MO earlier this year and spend her birthday with her. Then on Wed or Thurs, drive to KY to visit my family. My parents are flying my grandparents in from NJ to meet the great grandkids. My boss just told me instead of having Sun-Mon off, I work Sun and can have Mon and Tues off, work Wed-Sat and can have Sun and Mon off. WTF? How the fuck am I supposed to make that work? I am not spending $260 on a round trip flight for a 48 hour trip, working 4 days and then driving 16 hours round trip for another 48 hour visit.
There is some shady ass shit going on in the parking lot next to my building. Like, not just the standard little drug deal.
Say whaaat. What is happening? Have you called the cops?
Not sure, H was watching for a while and I think he's calling now. Basically a car pulls up, people in another car get out and are shown something in the trunk then they leave, a different car circles around, pulls up, those people check out the thing in the trunk, they all leave. The three cars are still sitting there but no one is around. Maybe the guy got a new sub or something? Seemed shady but now they've been gone for a while and nothing changed hands (they all left a few minutes before my last post) so who knows.
ETA- I should add there are often small shady things happening in the lot but this was really weird.
Not sure, H was watching for a while and I think he's calling now. Basically a car pulls up, people in another car get out and are shown something in the trunk then they leave, a different car circles around, pulls up, those people check out the thing in the trunk, they all leave. The three cars are still sitting there but no one is around. Maybe the guy got a new sub or something? Seemed shady but now they've been gone for a while and nothing changed hands (they all left a few minutes before my last post) so who knows.
Weeeird. Ooh OOH! I know the answer to this. Break a window!!!
I'm going with peering out the window with the lights off for now but that's definitely plan B.
Say whaaat. What is happening? Have you called the cops?
Not sure, H was watching for a while and I think he's calling now. Basically a car pulls up, people in another car get out and are shown something in the trunk then they leave, a different car circles around, pulls up, those people check out the thing in the trunk, they all leave. The three cars are still sitting there but no one is around. Maybe the guy got a new sub or something? Seemed shady but now they've been gone for a while and nothing changed hands (they all left a few minutes before my last post) so who knows.
ETA- I should add there are often small shady things happening in the lot but this was really weird.
New theory - there's a body in the trunk and not one of those shady effers knows a good way to dispose of it.
Not sure, H was watching for a while and I think he's calling now. Basically a car pulls up, people in another car get out and are shown something in the trunk then they leave, a different car circles around, pulls up, those people check out the thing in the trunk, they all leave. The three cars are still sitting there but no one is around. Maybe the guy got a new sub or something? Seemed shady but now they've been gone for a while and nothing changed hands (they all left a few minutes before my last post) so who knows.
ETA- I should add there are often small shady things happening in the lot but this was really weird.
New theory - there's a body in the trunk and not one of those shady effers knows a good way to dispose of it.
If it ends up outside my building I'm going to be pissed!
Bitches make me crazy. I (don't ask me why, this is my first baby) stayed on my bump board and bitches be crazy. Everyone is all butt hurt about EVERYTHING! People asking to start Facebook groups, people go yeah fucking right, and they get all sad and cry. And this gem? "I just got my BFP and we are trying to decide on names. Jazmyne Xhrystyne or something spelling similarly idiotic. Actually got sad that people were like who the hell are you and why are you asking this? They are even arguing over what their badge should say. "That trivializes our babies." "It should be a holiday theme!" "Our babies are unique little snowflakes."
I literally want to puke. I get 1000% why GBCN exists and I love y'all.
Tonight my sil went on and on about how terrible water births are. I told her I was fully planning on having a water home birth next time. She was all like :-# Lol.
My H found out tonight that insurance approved him for fusion surgery on his spine. (W/C related from 5 years ago.) I am equal parts terrified and excited.
I'm terrified that this surgery (last option) will not work or go horribly wrong. I'm excited because if it works, the pain in his lower back should be greatly reduced. I'm not hoping for miracles, but it would be so very nice to have him able to help with the yard work, or even go walking/hiking when the weather is nice. I am being smart and staying the hell away from Dr. Google.
I have 4 days left at my current job, and felt like crap telling new job that I would already need 2 days due to H's surgery. They didn't seem to mind much, and told me again how excited they are to have me joining their team.
Remember when I was the hated bitch on the BF board? I enjoyed it.
Was this before my time? Why don't I remember this? Was frkls on BF?
I was accused of being a troll because I would say that kids should come first and most of the new Step Moms especially J&K hated me. I gave her a really hard time. This was before she was divorced. It was when the board first got started. Maybe before your time?
My H found out tonight that insurance approved him for fusion surgery on his spine. (W/C related from 5 years ago.) I am equal parts terrified and excited.
I'm terrified that this surgery (last option) will not work or go horribly wrong. I'm excited because if it works, the pain in his lower back should be greatly reduced. I'm not hoping for miracles, but it would be so very nice to have him able to help with the yard work, or even go walking/hiking when the weather is nice. I am being smart and staying the hell away from Dr. Google.
I have 4 days left at my current job, and felt like crap telling new job that I would already need 2 days due to H's surgery. They didn't seem to mind much, and told me again how excited they are to have me joining their team.
Drove to Wenatchee (about 2 and a half hours). It was a windy, 2 lane road with no lights in the middle of the woods, and it was rainy and foggy. WHITE KNUCKLE.
I got pulled over for speeding! WTF! No ticket, though, I STILL GOT IT!
A deer almost ran in front of my car.
A rabbit ran in front of my car and I hit it
I got to my hotel and they said they were out of rooms because they overbooked. I kept my shit together and they decided to bump someone that hadn't arrived yet.
I don't ask questions - I learned a long time not to ask a question you don't want the answer to. I gave consequences (and stuck to them) but now the little jerk has figured out he can get away with I don't see. It's stupid stuff, stuff he wouldn't even get in trouble for, like spilling a drink. Then he blames it on DD or says the dog jumped on him and honestly that could have been what happened, but I know damn well it doesn't happen 100% of the time. Do I send him to time out when i have no idea what happened besides there's juice on my tablecloth?
Oh, and his other line is that he forgets. He "didn't remember" he had to flush the toilet (this one is his obvious lie by the way he mumbles through it) WHY ARE YOU LYING ABOUT THAT KID? I'm not even mad at you, I'm trying to save you years of your future spouse yelling you for being gross!
No, don't send him to time out on, say, the spilled drink. Don't ask who did it, don't ask how it happened. It doesn't matter. ask him to get the paper towels, and to carry the table cloth to the laundry basket. "Here, Jonah, let's clean this up; get me some paper towels/take this to the laundry room". Brightly. As far as 'forgetting'? Don't ask him about why the toilet isn't flushed. Just tell him to come back and flush it. "Jonah, dear, come flush the toilet please". "I didn't do it/I forgot/whatever the hell". Say, I get that, sometimes people forget, and tell him to flush it . This is part of the he's lying to keep you from being mad at him. Try really hard to look at this from the viewpoint that he's saying these things to keep you from being mad at him. This is natural at this age, and you just have to hustle along through it, don't make a huge deal out of all these 'lies'.
Can you help me raise my DD when she gets a little older? I love all this advice.