mp- I'm glad DH didn't think my name being the same as his sisters was a reason to never see each other again.
That is a weird reason to never see a woman again. Why did he even go on a first date with you?
Poor decision, we all make them LMAO!!! I kid, I kid...
Seriously? I thought most people were overreacting in their dislike for you and wanted to be more welcoming. Now you have brought a parade of creeps in here to attack members or enlighten 'us ladies'. I have no issues with new members men or women but you are all here for the express purpose of bullying mp. You and all your Audi buddies need to GTFO. I see I was wrong in giving you the benefit of the doubt.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
flex, don't ban him! How else will us ladies learn about logic, and critical thinking, and how to not be bitches to the helpful ganders who spend some of their precious time with us?
**bats eyelashes**
I will tell you you won't learn it from The View. Or teenagers.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Post by MixedBerryJam on Apr 26, 2014 20:11:01 GMT -5
Haven't read the whole thread, but I think soooooomeone's compensating, and mp it ain't you. And really, people can use that word if they want, but it's not going to do anything to bolster their credibility.
Oh come on! The last line in mp's post says it all, and why I even bothered with this silly, shallow thread. "It really sounded like he'd written me off based on my name, and maybe I don't put enough weight into names, but this seriously cracks me up."
That's what I commented on in my very first post. what mp stated wasn't even the meaningful reason, but it's the one everyone is latching on to like a baby to a tit. Please. Who's being lame and shallow? If that's what she walked away with from that discourse, then tell me who really is being lame.
I was coming in to joke that you clearly have never breastfed or you'd know this is not the analogy you were looking for.
Then I read further where you say mp is being a bitch and cuntish. I am trying to come up with words to describe how I'm feeling having read those comments but I'm coming up short. I'm feeling intensely uncomfortable and I really want you to understand how powerful and disrespectful those comments are, especially when used by a man to describe a woman. I don't know how to convey that to you but I hope you consider that it really isn't ok. If you have any respect for women, which I hope that you do, please reconsider using that language, even in your own unspoken thoughts.
Thank you for addressing this. Those comments were seriously uncomfortable to read.
This whole thing is incredibly creepy. Why use those words to describe MP and her thought process in the OP, and then suggest that dude's awkward over-sharing honesty was at least better than him "leading her on" just to have sex with her, as if those were the only two possible outcomes? masterpens, you seem emotionally unstable… among other things.
JFC that was the weirdest fucking thing on the internet. (Hi SO, I haven't been around much, but when I heard small-dicked assholes were trying to mess with mp I had to come in and breathe my bad breath on someone!)
While you fixate on the issue of names being the same as a reason to make fun of the guys epiphany, did you ignore the second point, that additionally he reminded you of his sister because your personalities were similar too? As you noted, there was no spark in the date, now you probably know why. At least he was honest instead of hanging around for a quick lay, and maybe a bit creepier, vicariously screwing his sister by getting in the sack with you.
Hmmm? Let's look a little deeper, instead of making his honesty a punch line. The name similarity wasn't really the main excuse, just the icing.
Guys! We are overlooking how great it is that he didn't lie his way into " getting in the sack" with OP. Honesty! HE HAS Honesty!
Look deeper!! He could have been all about screwing her at all costs ... But instead he GAVE THAT GREAT REASON ABOUT HIS SISTER'S NAME ... AND AND AND ... THAT PERSONALITY THING !!!
Do you want him to commit INSEST??? Because this is such a super great guy who wants to avoid INSEST !
Why are you 'fixating' while this super great Dude is being so HONEST and great and non-incestual?? Guys! He's not going for the quick lay!! Isn't he AMAZING in his honesty??? And not the least bit stupid and creepy !!
While you fixate on the issue of names being the same as a reason to make fun of the guys epiphany, did you ignore the second point, that additionally he reminded you of his sister because your personalities were similar too? As you noted, there was no spark in the date, now you probably know why. At least he was honest instead of hanging around for a quick lay, and maybe a bit creepier, vicariously screwing his sister by getting in the sack with you.
Hmmm? Let's look a little deeper, instead of making his honesty a punch line. The name similarity wasn't really the main excuse, just the icing.
Guys! We are overlooking how great it is that he didn't lie his way into " getting in the sack" with OP. Honesty! HE HAS Honesty!
Look deeper!! He could have been all about screwing her at all costs ... But instead he GAVE THAT GREAT REASON ABOUT HIS SISTER'S NAME ... AND AND AND ... THAT PERSONALITY THING !!!
Do you want him to commit INSEST??? Because this is such a super great guy who wants to avoid INSEST !
Why are you 'fixating' while this super great Dude is being so HONEST and great and non-incestual?? Guys! He's not going for the quick lay!! Isn't he AMAZING in his honesty??? And not the least bit stupid and creepy !!
I'm sincing a little sarcasm in your post. But maybe I'm just being sincitive. Sence I could be on the rag, y'know?
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Wow, that was seriously disturbing. Daktor, just so you know, there really were a good number of us who were suspending judgment, and if you had continued to participate like a normal human being, we would have accepted you. But instead, you called in a bunch of your buddies to call a poster misogynistic names just because she wasn't as welcoming to you as you would have liked. In the process, you've offended and insulted the rest of us. Evaluate yourself.
Wow. That was seriously fucked up and totally uncalled for. I was initially looking forward to having another guy on the board, but my mind quickly changed after he called in his reinforcements.
I didn't realize all the excitement that actually happened until just a few minutes ago. The BJ thread- really? Then they crashed the party on ML (obvs). Fucking creepers!
Post by verycontrary247 on Apr 27, 2014 0:16:53 GMT -5
Aaaaaand this is why I didn't reply to homeboy's introduction thread. I feel like internet dudes show their crazy pretty soon.
Also, for the record, my theory? mp really was a lot like that guys sister, meaning super fun and fabulous, and dude is still struggling from a lifetime of feeling inadequate next to her. /hair pats for no chemistry guy
Aaaaaand this is why I didn't reply to homeboy's introduction thread. I feel like internet dudes show their crazy pretty soon.
Also, for the record, my theory? mp really was a lot like that guys sister, meaning super fun and fabulous, and dude is still struggling from a lifetime of feeling inadequate next to her. /hair pats for no chemistry guy
I agree he was way too eager, and I also stayed away. It was a big red flag that seemed to not be noticed by some. I hope this helps prevent things like this in the future.
Aaaaaand this is why I didn't reply to homeboy's introduction thread. I feel like internet dudes show their crazy pretty soon.
Also, for the record, my theory? mp really was a lot like that guys sister, meaning super fun and fabulous, and dude is still struggling from a lifetime of feeling inadequate next to her. /hair pats for no chemistry guy
4th (?) indian here...the original dude gave me the creeps from the start. What a bunch of losers.
Wow... and guys talk about girls being sensitive! A dude makes a lame excuse for not wanting to go on another date, people remark on the lameness and the boys get butthurt.
LOL, sure there was probably more behind the decision to not go out again, but that doesn't mean the excuse he actually verbalized was any less LAME.