You're pregnant, so in my book you get a pass to be annoyed about anything. Or anyone. But it seems like your friend IS rather informed, she just hasn't pulled the trigger on her choices. The cute stuff is easy, she seems to have hard time with the big stuff. And if she's super strict with her PG diet and unable to feel comfortable with the nuances of a few foods choices ... it's consistent to overthink her baby stuff options and be unable to decide.
The good news is that she doesn't have to decide where to sleep the baby. We changed it a few times after baby arrived. It didn't matter what we planned at 30+ weeks. Babies are funny like that.