S/O the Duggar thread: Sex on your wedding night

[Deleted]

So did you do it?

I personally barely got my dress off before I passed out, there was no hanky panky that night.

[elenetxu]

Due to distance, we hadn't been alone for over a month.

[wambam]

No. I was starving (went through the BK drive through in out wedding wear), exhausted, and emotionally over stimulated. We did the next day though.

[ZoeHart]

Nope. I wanted food, sleep, and sex in that order.

[amandakisser]

I was ready to go, but while taking out all my bobby pins, my drunk husband passed out. So I sat on the couch in the hotel suite in my wedding-night lingerie, eating buffalo wings and drank all the champagne we ordered. It was pretty fantastic.

We did it the next several nights to make up for it, though. We had lived together for over a year before our wedding night, and had already gotten legally married before my H deployed, so there wasn't any pressure to do it that night.

[elenetxu]

Jun 22, 2014 5:32:03 GMT -5 amandakisser said:

I was ready to go, but while taking out all my bobby pins, my drunk husband passed out. So I sat on the couch in the hotel suite in my wedding-night lingerie, eating buffalo wings and drank all the champagne we ordered. It was pretty fantastic.

We did it the next several nights to make up for it, though. We had lived together for over a year before our wedding night, and had already gotten legally married before my H deployed, so there wasn't any pressure to do it that night.

This is awesome. Strong work!

[kaybee85]

Like stellas mentioned in the other post, we had sex, but it wasn't our best performance. lol

[mrsukyankee]

Nope. We didn't get into our room until 3am and had to be up and ready for a breakfast at 7am the next day.

[underwaterrhymes]

Yes, we did.

It wasn't the best sex we have ever had since we took after hours photos with our photographer and returned to champagne and a carpet picnic our coordinators had set up in our hotel room. I hadn't eaten much during the wedding and snarfing down crab cakes took priority.

So we were exhausted by the time we got around to it, but sex was indeed had.

[rupertpenny]

Yes, but it was the worst sex we've ever had.

No one would leave me alone long enough for me to poop all day and my stomach hurt so bad.

[isabel]

We did, but we were so close to just going to bed. The lights were off, we had decided it wasn't happening. DH changed his mind. It was actually pretty good, but, man, I was tired.

[Jalapeñomel]

Yep. We were at the pool after the reception, told our friends to meet us back at the honeymoon suite in 15 minutes so we could change, had a fun quickie, and then everyone came over and we partied into the dawn.

[VillainV]

Yes, we did. It was short and sweet. Then we passed out.

[dirtyred]

Yes, we did.  I would have much preferred to just go to sleep, but it was important to DH that we have sex on our wedding night.  I kept saying something like "Would you please hurry up and get this over with?!"  Very romantic.

[Deleted]

Yes. We stopped having sex when we got engaged. We ripped each others clothes off as soon as we got into the room. It was pretty great. However, the best sex we have ever had was the next morning.

[shepoz]

Nope - we had a bunch of people in our room hanging out and eating cake. Once they all left, we were exhausted and just went to sleep.

[ErinExpat]

I find other people's weddings to be an aphrodisiac, but not my own.

We did have sex, it was fine. Middle of the road. We were exhausted.

[wambam]

Jun 22, 2014 6:56:35 GMT -5 ErinExpat said:

I find other people's weddings to be an aphrodisiac, but not my own.

We did have sex, it was fine. Middle of the road. We were exhausted.

Yes! Other people's weddings make me super randy.

[georgiagal1221]

We did. It wasn't romantic or satisfying in any sort of way. But we felt like it was something we had to do. I, honestly, would have preferred to wait until the next day. I just wanted sleep. Lol

[meganew]

Jun 22, 2014 6:56:35 GMT -5 ErinExpat said:

I find other people's weddings to be an aphrodisiac, but not my own.

We did have sex, it was fine. Middle of the road. We were exhausted.

This is so true! Other peoples weddings are fun, relaxed, and include lots of alcohol. Our wedding, while fun, was exhausting. Plus I had a killer migraine from how tightly my hair was pulled back.

We did have sex immediately upon arrival at our honeymoon the next morning though : )

[joshlyman]

Jun 22, 2014 5:26:15 GMT -5 wambam said:

No. I was starving (went through the BK drive through in out wedding wear), exhausted, and emotionally over stimulated. We did the next day though.

This, word for word, including BK lol

We did find energy to open our cards though

[sewf]

Nope. We stopped at Wendy's on our way home in our wedding gear. Three of my H's friends from out of town came over after H helped get me out of my dress (H asked me if it was ok for them to come over, since they were leaving the next morning). Three of them played cards, and the fourth, not my husband, rubbed my sore feet. It was the best way the night could have ended considering how tired I was.

We did have sex in the morning.

[rupertpenny]

Oh, I agree about other people's weddings. Other people's weddings are like the only time I'm guaranteed to want to have sex.

[partiallysunny]

Nope. We were exhausted and stayed the night at the ILs before we went on our honeymoon.

[McGavin]

We did not but we were sleeping in a tent surrounded by friends and family also sleeping in tents and some people were still up sitting around the fire.

[Deleted]

Yes.

That's when we got this boy.

[BaliHai]

Yes, but we're another "but we shouldn't have" story. It was... not good. lol. Should have waited until the next morning!

[Deleted]

Jun 22, 2014 7:37:06 GMT -5 @lazerus24 said:

Yes.

That's when we got this boy.

What an awesome wedding gift!!!

[candreco]

Yes, we watched the end of a 1pm baseball game, had sex, took a nap, then went to the hotel everyone was staying at for the unofficial after party.

[CurlyQ284]

Yep. We were exhausted though.