Monday Randoms

[pantsoffdanceoff]

How's everyone feeling today?

I had a BUSY weekend and it was a lot of fun, but now I'm tired and it's only Monday.

[verycontrary247]

I had an insane weekend boy-wise.

Thursday night went and saw the meteor shower at the beach with a new boy I'm seeing. Anyone who knows me knows I despise the beach/sand, but I had a surprisingly good time.

Friday during the day I had coffee with the super-ripped ex, then coworker came over to have dinner/watch movies/bang.

Saturday I had a first date with someone off Tinder, which sucked. Conversation with dude himself was generally ok but he was completely inconsiderate when it came to time. I told him I needed to be somewhere at 6 but I'd be happy to get guac and margaritas with him. Dude showed up late, we ordered guac and margaritas. At 5:50 I go to the bathroom, then come back and start trying to wind things down, except apparently in the 3 minutes I was gone he ordered another beer and food and I didn't get to leave until like 6:30. Will probably never speak to him again.

And then last night guy #1 came over to hang out/watch Netflix/bang (for the first time). I swear he had the widest peen I've ever seen in person, which was a little intimidating, but the sex was good.

And that's not including all the other fuckery from the weekend! I'm exhausted!

[bl]

My weekends was very busy as well, but it was overall really good.

I had my first instance of feeling super judged by a guy for something sex related, sucks to feel that way but clearly this guy and I have differing opinions on things, so good to know that now.

We are doing a big IT upgrade that is being implemented today, lots of bugs and glitches already. Yay!

[pantsoffdanceoff]

bl - I was thinking about that guy this morning and I'm still pissed.

[glitzyglow]

Going to the gym shortly, then clothes shopping. I hate hate hate trying to find clothes and it's raining, so I'm not looking forward to it. Laundry later, and a mellow evening at home.

[Deleted]

I had horrible cramps starting early morning so now I'm exhausted. My best friend/boss is in town and I'm so excited to spend time with him. Gonna try and make myself without this morning though!

[sweetchix]

Back to work after vacay It sucks, but the boss isn't here so that makes me feel better, lol.

It's close to 90 today with high humidity and we have a track workout tonight. I'll probably go still but I may just do a run/walk around the track.

I cleaned out a LOT more of the basement yesterday after XH picked up DDs. I want to work on it a bit more tonight and get it more organized. Almost there.

[jojoandleo]

My weekend was good. Saturday was one of my best friend's birthday. I have known her since she was 18, she turned 30 this weekend. CRAZY! I carpooled with two of my other best friends up to her place, which is where I will be living in a few weeks. We had a fun road trip. The party was a blast. We played flip cup and my team won 3 out of 4 games. I'm not going to say it was all because of me, buuuut, it probably was.

Sunday we went to brunch. Then I had a road trip back with just one of my friends (the others husband met us at the party and he road home with him). It was good because this friend and I had been growing apart. We got to talk about our relationships and stuff without any judgment because we both are kind of in that weird phase. It was really nice.

Then, Sunday MH and I talked. I made a mini update about it, but I feel a lot better about my life right now.

[jojoandleo]

mp-I saw photos and I have the same onesie! LOL. It looked like fun. I also approve of the flirting. Sorry he is missing out on your hotness today.

[jigsy]

Weekend was great! As mp said, we had a blast at a "slumber party". Sunday was spent lounging around.

And here is where I admit something that I haven't even told mp about...

uh....this belongs in the FFFC thread...

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Ugh. I talked to Vegas yesterday. After 2 months of no talking, I broke down...yesterday was the one year mark from when we met - Thanks facebook for that reminder, lol - And I wasn't going to say anything, I even texted mp instead, trying to avoid it, but then I did, because I am a glutton for punishment. So yeah...that was my weekend. :hangs head in shame:

[calle28]

I had a great weekend, which makes it even harder to come back to work. Blah

Friday I went to dinner with 2 old friends. Saturday was the sleepover/movie event with mp, jigsy and their friends. I went to breakfast then napped. I went to the beach with my best friend later in the afternoon. It was so hot this weekend, the beach was the perfect was to wrap it up.

[pantsoffdanceoff]

mp You look so good today! I love love love that dress! Please tell me it's a recent purchase and please provide a link if possible.

[imalwaysme79]

Weekend was good, mostly raining. I barely slept at all last night because my stomach has been in knots with nerves. Needless to say I am dragging today. I might need to pick up some coffee on the way to school...

[cam13]

Aug 17, 2015 20:11:51 GMT -5 RamblingRose said:

Had a pretty good weekend here. It looks like TL will be moving in sometime next month. I've lived alone quite awhile, this will be quite a settling in period. And we both need to stop calling this my house, I feel like he will be more comfortable if he calls it ours? He wants to pay me some rent and take on some man chores around here, I can get behind all of that.
Any advice?

My biggest mistake in moving in with M was waiting too long to talk about money and bills. It's just so awkward so I kept putting it off! Once we sat down and decided how to split the bills, it was fine.

Also, I'm super happy for you! Moving in is awesome, I wish you both a smooth transition!

[glitzyglow]

I discovered that Target has bigger bras than just A-D on their website, so I just ordered three different kinds to try them out. They are priced really well, too, so fingers crossed they fit well!

[achase123]

Bittersweet day; P started first grade!

I get to see BFF this weekend and she's going to meet my BF so I'm excited.

Throwing a birthday dinner for BF tomorrow night and I made some kick ass chicken bacon lasagna with basil cream sauce tonight. Yum!!!!

[Mrs.Rad888]

Aug 17, 2015 23:32:17 GMT -5 achase123 said:

Bittersweet day; P started first grade!

I get to see BFF this weekend and she's going to meet my BF so I'm excited.

Throwing a birthday dinner for BF tomorrow night and I made some kick ass chicken bacon lasagna with basil cream sauce tonight. Yum!!!!

That sounds amazing! Recipe?

[Deleted]

RamblingRose he has kids right? I might be sure to talk about what space will be carved out for them and be on the same page regarding any rules for when they are there.

[pantsoffdanceoff]

mp - still waiting on the brand of that dress... Hope your flirty coworker noticed how hot you looked in it!

[jojoandleo]

Aug 18, 2015 11:56:17 GMT -5 RamblingRose said:

Aug 18, 2015 11:16:14 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

RamblingRose he has kids right? I might be sure to talk about what space will be carved out for them and be on the same page regarding any rules for when they are there.

Yes, three of them. I still haven't met them, we are being super careful of their feelings.

Wait, so, he is going to move in with you before you have met his kids!?!  Shouldn't you all know whether you are compatible with his children (who should be a major part of his life) BEFORE moving in?  I get the delay in meeting and being careful, but, don't they visit their dad?  Shouldn't they know you before they pretty much LIVE with you?

[jojoandleo]

Aug 18, 2015 17:00:55 GMT -5 RamblingRose said:

This whole thing is confusing to me. They don't know about the woman their father is considering moving in with!?! Like, don't even know you exist? If you all are THAT serious, that really shocks me. I would be very upset if my parent moved in with someone I didn't even know existed. I can't imagine either of my parents ever getting THAT serious with someone I didn't even know. I get being cautious to introduce, but once you are heading towards serious, shouldn't your interactions with his kids (especially THAT young) be important? I wouldn't want to move in with someone my children HATED.

[Deleted]

I'm with jojoandleo this is very confusing. Is a therapist helping with this? Because otherwise this seems like it would be way more harmful. Also I can't imagine caring about someone and being this serious and not knowing about literally the most important part of their lives. Why don't the kids visit them at his house? Does he spend the night at his exes house?

[1confused1]

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[Deleted]

RamblingRose while I'm childless I have experienced the repercussions of poorly managed relationships by my father so I'm not a totally uninformed source.

ETA: why hasn't he had a home base for so long? Even if you travel for work this seems odd. But then again this all seems odd and definitely flag something as being "off" here.

[1confused1]

Aug 18, 2015 21:05:30 GMT -5 RamblingRose said:

Aug 18, 2015 20:42:18 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

I wish you a ton of luck.   it's a whole new ballgame.  

[Deleted]

Ditto everyone mp and 1confused1. Also where does the mom go once a week or so when he is staying in the house? Does she have a SO?

[1confused1]

Aug 19, 2015 0:35:45 GMT -5 RamblingRose said:

Honestly, it worries me, as a parent,  is ok with all of this.

[1confused1]

Aug 19, 2015 0:59:43 GMT -5 RamblingRose said:

Aug 19, 2015 0:52:52 GMT -5 1confused1 said:

Oh no. No. No. No. 

 

[calle28]

You seem very happy with him and very much in love, I wish you the best of luck.

[1confused1]

You asked for advice about the kids. I gave it to you.

You guys need to think about them. I don't think you are.