so ds1 is depressed

meggers5 Senior Member Posts: 8,566 Likes: 17,876	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 22:52:09 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by meggers5 on Dec 9, 2015 22:52:09 GMT -5 Keeping him (and you) in my thoughts.
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candc New Member Posts: 214 Likes: 60	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 22:54:55 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by candc on Dec 9, 2015 22:54:55 GMT -5 He is in my thoughts, he is doing the right things and getting good support.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2015 22:55:42 GMT -5

I withdrew initially because of depression. It's difficult and managing at that age is hard. I also worked full time that made it more difficult. I'll keep him in my thoughts

I'm still trying to get back on track with school and I'm 30. :\ Hopefully he can find something to bring him up before then.

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Post by thinkofthesoldiers on Dec 9, 2015 22:57:12 GMT -5

I did that in college too. Withdrew for a semester. Sought help. Did what needing doing and my parents were good about it like you. He will get through. I'd make sure he knows he doesn't have to stay if he doesn't want to though. That was one of the things my parents said, and that was helpful.

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laceylaplante Full Member Posts: 1,286 Likes: 947	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 22:58:05 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by laceylaplante on Dec 9, 2015 22:58:05 GMT -5 Thinking of him. Depression really is sucky.
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underwaterrhymes Elder Rainbow Jihadist in the Final Stages of Moral Decay Posts: 37,693 Likes: 76,356	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 22:58:19 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by underwaterrhymes on Dec 9, 2015 22:58:19 GMT -5 Oh, sue. It's so hard to see your kid struggle like that. You just want them to be happy. A ton of hugs coming your way.
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Deleted Posts: 0	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:00:59 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2015 23:00:59 GMT -5 Sue Sue I am sorry ... sounds like he is getting the help he needs and with you as his mom he is sure to be okay. Thoughts and prayers xoxo
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so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:01:10 GMT -5

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Post by dianecourt on Dec 9, 2015 23:01:10 GMT -5

Hugs to you and DS1. It's tough, but he's made the right call. And that's the start, reminding him he is doing smart things in spite of feeling awful. It will take time, but with the support you will so awesomely give, he should find his spirit.

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ninjabridemom Full Member Posts: 3,235 Likes: 3,633	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:03:19 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ninjabridemom on Dec 9, 2015 23:03:19 GMT -5 Love to him and you. I will keep an eye out for things for him. I have been looking for video jobs out here for my BIL, I will pass on anything relevant.
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sugarbear Elder Posts: 11,818 Likes: 8,695	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:03:56 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sugarbear on Dec 9, 2015 23:03:56 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. So many hugs to you and your DS.
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floridakat Full Member Posts: 1,355 Likes: 1,306	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:05:20 GMT -5 via mobile julez, chevrechaud, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by floridakat on Dec 9, 2015 23:05:20 GMT -5 I hate depression almost as much as I hate cancer. Sorry about your kiddo...I hope the new meds help and he can get to a better place.
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rachers Full Member Posts: 2,657 Likes: 3,092	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:09:13 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by rachers on Dec 9, 2015 23:09:13 GMT -5 Ugh, it's so hard and I'm sorry he's having a rough time. It's great that you're so supportive. Thinking of y'all and sending good thoughts.
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sparkythelawyer Elder Posts: 14,863 Likes: 22,951	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:09:37 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sparkythelawyer on Dec 9, 2015 23:09:37 GMT -5 Aw Sue, I'm sorry. Hang in there.
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Post by lilac05 on Dec 9, 2015 23:14:21 GMT -5

I'm sorry, Sue Sue. Prayers for your son...and you, too. Watching your loved ones hurting is so, so difficult. You have raised a smart young man, who seems to be making good decisions to care for himself. Keep reminding him of that. Hopefully some quality time with mom, a med change, and all of the other steps he's taking to care for himself will help him feel like himself again soon.

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Post by Eagles on Dec 9, 2015 23:18:36 GMT -5

Oh, I'm sorry. It's so rough when you feel like you just can't get a handle on things and you're floundering. I think it sounds like he has an excellent support system and a plan, so I'm sending good thoughts that it works out smoothly.

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Deleted Posts: 0	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:22:58 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2015 23:22:58 GMT -5 I'm sorry he's struggling. I'm sure they'll find a good med/meds. I hope he enjoys his visit and is feeling good about moving forward when he goes back.
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Post by fryjack2 on Dec 9, 2015 23:25:22 GMT -5

I'm sorry that he's in a bad place right now, but glad that the steps he's taking are giving him some relief.

I think he's in the same city as I am? If he needs anything, and you can't help from where you are, I'd be happy to try.

((Sue sue))

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Post by elleblue on Dec 9, 2015 23:25:35 GMT -5

Oh that's rough, I'm sorry @cse1960. It does sound like things, while perhaps not ideal, are working out. I'm glad he was able to withdraw without having it affect his scholarship so he can go back if he so chooses. Keeping your son and your family in my thoughts. *hugs*

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styme46 Senior Member Posts: 6,065 Likes: 3,530	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:26:33 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by styme46 on Dec 9, 2015 23:26:33 GMT -5 He's in my thoughts and prayers. And so are you and the rest of your family. (((Hugs))) friend.
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pumpkin Senior Member Posts: 7,733 Likes: 3,015	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:29:48 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by pumpkin on Dec 9, 2015 23:29:48 GMT -5 Oh Sue, depression can be so hard to watch in those we love. Thoughts and prayers for your son and you
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Deleted Posts: 0	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:31:27 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2015 23:31:27 GMT -5 I'm sorry SueSue. You are a great mom and will figure out how to best help him.
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CurlyQ284 Elder Posts: 18,738 Likes: 19,412	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:51:51 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by CurlyQ284 on Dec 9, 2015 23:51:51 GMT -5 I'm so sorry I really love my wellbutrin, it's done wonders for me. Fingers crossed that he improves and starts feeling better soon. ((Hugs))
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Deleted Posts: 0	so ds1 is depressed Dec 9, 2015 23:55:28 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2015 23:55:28 GMT -5 I'm so glad you're the kind of parents he can be honest with. He will get through this. ((((HUGS)))
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Post by Deleted on Dec 10, 2015 0:00:01 GMT -5

Oh Suesue, I'm so sorry he's in such a rough place right now. Depression is such a hard thing to deal with.

You're a great mother and it sounds like he's got a good plan in place. Sometimes just taking a step back is the best thing, and I'm glad he's able and supported to do it.

Hugs. You've raised two great boys that are lucky to have the support system you provide

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missanne Full Member Posts: 1,497 Likes: 1,991	so ds1 is depressed Dec 10, 2015 0:02:16 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by missanne on Dec 10, 2015 0:02:16 GMT -5 Prayers for all of you Sue.
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fuckyourcouch Elder Posts: 18,862 Likes: 29,435	so ds1 is depressed Dec 10, 2015 0:03:24 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by fuckyourcouch on Dec 10, 2015 0:03:24 GMT -5 I'm sorry sue sue. Hoping for a quick recovery for him, and low stress for you guys.
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Serenity9 Full Member Posts: 4,364 Likes: 10,126	so ds1 is depressed Dec 10, 2015 0:07:44 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Serenity9 on Dec 10, 2015 0:07:44 GMT -5 I hope he feels better soon.
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rosiebear Senior Member Posts: 8,426 Likes: 18,797	so ds1 is depressed Dec 10, 2015 0:08:37 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by rosiebear on Dec 10, 2015 0:08:37 GMT -5 Ugh, that's so rough. I'm sorry. How lucky he is to have you in his corner.
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themoneytree Full Member Posts: 4,551 Likes: 4,053	so ds1 is depressed Dec 10, 2015 0:10:42 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by themoneytree on Dec 10, 2015 0:10:42 GMT -5 I'm so sorry SueSue. You're handling this so well.
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Post by verycontrary247 on Dec 10, 2015 0:20:18 GMT -5

Can I just take a minute to say what an awesome mom you are?

I struggled with debilitating depression around his age and I would've never been able to talk to my parents about that.

So much love and good thoughts for all of y'all.

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