Post by MarmeeNoir on Jan 25, 2016 22:54:58 GMT -5
My mom's tenth is this year as well. Some years I go a little weird around the time she died, I start to lose it and not know why until it hits me. Fucking grief. I don't know if it's normal, but you're not alone.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
I'm so sorry My brother's 5th anniversary of passing was last year and that fucking sucked. It's hard dealing with all the time that's passed and how much you miss them in your life. Big hugs.
I'm so sorry My brother's 5th anniversary of passing was last year and that fucking sucked. It's hard dealing with all the time that's passed and how much you miss them in your life. Big hugs.
This is the ducking truth right here. Hugs
I was only 21 when she died so I don't even know what to miss. I don't really know what being an adult would be like with her in my life. But ugh I don't know how to explain it but I want my mom.
Well...everything. You don't really need to know exactly what you're missing to miss its presence, you know?
So many hugs. Dude, I'm in awe of your ability to handle what you handle every day. Hippo's right to give yourself a break, dear girl. You got this. (Not at all to belittle but to show my confidence in your recognition before a legitimate mental break/ crash!)
Lots of hugs to you. Birthdays, anniversaries, your own special moments...: to go through them without your mother is really hard. 30 years later and I still mourn my mum, or want her so terribly when hard stuff happens. Of course it's normal.
Big hugs. You aren't alone - Everyone gets overwhelmed sometimes and grief is shockingly effective at doing just that. You've had a rough year and I can absolutely see why you would feel the loss of your Mom more acutely at this time. ((gracie))