You would think, but then there's a whole million page thread on GOMI about GBCN lol. It just rubs me the wrong way, as does the "I want to kick her in the teeth" statement.
There is?
::runs::
Million page was an exaggeration, it looks like it's only 2 on the thread I looked at. I thought there was more to it because I remember a thread about it here.
Bullshit like this is why I DIDN'T post any wedding pics on here. And my wedding wasn't half as nice and I ain't half as pretty as tacom. No one wants to hear super rude snark about something they worked hard for and felt proud of. Taking it off board is a special kind of inappropriate.
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Dude srsly I don't know how someone could find fault in your wedding. BTW, I meant to write you a thank you note for the veil. I got lots of compliments on it.
and of course those names are GBCNers. if memory serves, choco was the (main?) one doing the husband-picking (though I'm not 100%). feel free to clarify, ladies!
What would you like me to clarify? That I sometimes talk shit about people (usually CWs, sometimes others) who annoy me with my friends? I'll own that.
and of course those names are GBCNers. if memory serves, choco was the (main?) one doing the husband-picking (though I'm not 100%). feel free to clarify, ladies!
What would you like me to clarify? That I sometimes talk shit about people (usually CWs, sometimes others) who annoy me with my friends? I'll own that.
As do most people. Include posters on this board about their own friends and family.
If you can't see the difference between people side-eyeing bridezilla antics and making racist comments I am at a loss.
and of course those names are GBCNers. if memory serves, choco was the (main?) one doing the husband-picking (though I'm not 100%). feel free to clarify, ladies!
I can't even remember what I said back in that tweet since my history doesn't go that far back (I tried searching and can't go that far back b/c I am chatty). The last time I remember discussing your husband was actually about YOU being an ass to your husband for wanting to take a break for a month before starting his new job in NYC. You were flipping your shit about him not earning money for a month and I actually said the man deserved a break given the industry he works in and the hours he's pulled. So you can go sit somewhere with your dumb ASSumptions. And for crying out loud, tag me properly if you can tag everyone else.
I have also said that you were a bitch to Bliss and have said some condescending ass things to her. I was right there in the MMM thread when v tried to tell @kirkette that calling herself a young philanthropist was ridiculous and implying it was only so because she was black, so cilantro and @chloe77 can move on somewhere else with their shit about v not being racist. People called v out for OVER A MONTH before she quietly left the board.
I never once characterized whatever statements v did or did not make in that post. I never got to read it.
I said that bringing up a 'history of racial micro-aggressions for years' without any evidence backing it up is unfair. If you're going to say someone has such a history outside this incident, it should be supported.
I know it's public and that's why I don't post pictures and try not to post any easily identifiable info, doesn't mean I can't think it's shitty.
you can think whatever you want, but that doesn't mean that it makes any sense. These reactions are ridiculous.
the best thing about the MM exodus is that the grown ass women bent on internet bullying stopped showing up. it's weird and sad, but you do you. toodles!
at the idea of talking about GBCN anywhere other than GBCN. This place is like my Fight Club. BF knows I have "a message board" but that's it. And that's ONLY because he mentioned reading some sports message board once so I knew he would get it.
So some of you are just now figuring out this is a public message board...
lol I think everyone is aware of that. But advertising your participation here isn't something everyone feels comfortable with. If someone else wants to, cool. But for me, the thought of voluntarily doing that makes me twitch.
The off-board chatter is not remotely surprising. But it's just as "mean girl" as some of the chatter that eventually ran other GBCN posters off the board (not the racially insensitive things some posters posted, not at all, but the pure "mean girl" behavior).
I don't think GBCN should be all lalala, puppies and rainbows, but if we're going to talk shit about each other, I think it should stay on board. Or at least PMs. Everyone knows this is a public board, but I certainly don't expect people to be linking to it via twitter. I keep myself as anonymous as possible here, and I like GBCN because I can do exactly that - linking to twitter, with identifiable handles, makes me wary.
you can think whatever you want, but that doesn't mean that it makes any sense. These reactions are ridiculous.
the best thing about the MM exodus is that the grown ass women bent on internet bullying stopped showing up. it's weird and sad, but you do you. toodles!
I can't even remember what I said back in that tweet since my history doesn't go that far back (I tried searching and can't go that far back b/c I am chatty). The last time I remember discussing your husband was actually about YOU being an ass to your husband for wanting to take a break for a month before starting his new job in NYC. You were flipping your shit about him not earning money for a month and I actually said the man deserved a break given the industry he works in and the hours he's pulled. So you can go sit somewhere with your dumb ASSumptions. And for crying out loud, tag me properly if you can tag everyone else.
I have also said that you were a bitch to Bliss and have said some condescending ass things to her. I was right there in the MMM thread when v tried to tell @kirkette that calling herself a young philanthropist was ridiculous and implying it was only so because she was black, so cilantro and @chloe77 can move on somewhere else with their shit about v not being racist. People called v out for OVER A MONTH before she quietly left the board.
I never once characterized whatever statements v did or did not make in that post. I never got to read it.
I said that bringing up a 'history of racial micro-aggressions for years' without any evidence backing it up is unfair. If you're going to say someone has such a history outside this incident, it should be supported.
Do you really need someone to go back through V's history and C&P it all for you. I don't think V even denied that she was being racist, she just stopped answering questions. It is supported, there are many people that can document it if V didn't dd. It's been happening for years. If you want to support her, then fine, but don't tell people they need to prove their accusations when it's well known that it's been happening.
Wait, wait, wait! Before everyone leaves, could someone tell me the story of coke duck? By the time I got wind of it, all posts were deleted and I never knew what happened. When people would mention it, I would try and glean more info, but I couldn't figure it out. I tried to google it, and I got interesting, but less than helpful results.
Wait, wait, wait! Before everyone leaves, could someone tell me the story of coke duck? By the time I got wind of it, all posts were deleted and I never knew what happened. When people would mention it, I would try and glean more info, but I couldn't figure it out. I tried to google it, and I got interesting, but less than helpful results.
did you really try to google "coke dick"? because if so I can't even imagine the results you got
Wait, wait, wait! Before everyone leaves, could someone tell me the story of coke duck? By the time I got wind of it, all posts were deleted and I never knew what happened. When people would mention it, I would try and glean more info, but I couldn't figure it out. I tried to google it, and I got interesting, but less than helpful results.
did you really try to google "coke dick"? because if so I can't even imagine the results you got
Prob not, but "coke duck" hits are pretty spectacular.
Wait, wait, wait! Before everyone leaves, could someone tell me the story of coke duck? By the time I got wind of it, all posts were deleted and I never knew what happened. When people would mention it, I would try and glean more info, but I couldn't figure it out. I tried to google it, and I got interesting, but less than helpful results.
Wait, wait, wait! Before everyone leaves, could someone tell me the story of coke duck? By the time I got wind of it, all posts were deleted and I never knew what happened. When people would mention it, I would try and glean more info, but I couldn't figure it out. I tried to google it, and I got interesting, but less than helpful results.
did you really try to google "coke dick"? because if so I can't even imagine the results you got
Well, yes. But this time I did it again but added gbcn and now I have a question about grapefruit.
There was a time when I would have been all up in the coke and the duck, but I have to work now and have a less forgiving IT department. ;(
Wait, wait, wait! Before everyone leaves, could someone tell me the story of coke duck? By the time I got wind of it, all posts were deleted and I never knew what happened. When people would mention it, I would try and glean more info, but I couldn't figure it out. I tried to google it, and I got interesting, but less than helpful results.
And this is the kind of massive airing out I was expecting. *sheds a lone tear*
Wait, wait, wait! Before everyone leaves, could someone tell me the story of coke duck? By the time I got wind of it, all posts were deleted and I never knew what happened. When people would mention it, I would try and glean more info, but I couldn't figure it out. I tried to google it, and I got interesting, but less than helpful results.
And this is the kind of massive airing out I was expecting. *sheds a lone tear*
If you want to air it out you could always Donald Duck it.
Wait, wait, wait! Before everyone leaves, could someone tell me the story of coke duck? By the time I got wind of it, all posts were deleted and I never knew what happened. When people would mention it, I would try and glean more info, but I couldn't figure it out. I tried to google it, and I got interesting, but less than helpful results.
You are absolutely right, I did not read or participate in that situation. I don't come on here to argue; I have no interest in reading one million pages of fighting.
It doesn't matter to me what she said in that situation. I liked her posts on MM and I am sorry that she left.
Are you really this simple?
You don't have to burn crosses to be racist or to say racist things.
I don't think v sent the bag of dicks. I firmly believe that was booby.
But v did follow @kirkette around implying that it was oh so funny that @kirkette had many friends who were college educated. And that it was somehow ridiculous for Kirkette to live an existence very fucking similar to v .
On the talking shit front. My gran used to say "they talked about Jesus why wouldn't they talk about you?" That's life you deal with it.
All I have to say is when you're slinging dirt you should do it privately.
winnieandwine everybody thought you behaved ridiculously about your husband's break. Folks told you that on here, that was no secret.
The rest of y'all talking shit on Twitter for God's sake. That's like washing your panties in the break room sink at work. Y'all know better.
winnieandwine everybody thought you behaved ridiculously about your husband's break. Folks told you that on here, that was no secret.
The rest of y'all talking shit on Twitter for God's sake. That's like washing your panties in the break room sink at work. Y'all know better.
100% agree. With five minutes of perspective, I admitted as much, apologized to my husband, and we worked it out.
Just wanted to be clear that, to my knowledge, my husband's time off work incident was not publicly brought to Twitter. Choco used that to deflect/attempt to rile me up. The public off-board discussion she started about my husband revolved around what school he might have gone to, what banks he might have worked at, and whether or not I was full of shit/making it all up