I am so sorry you have to go through this. I found something similar in my XH's emails (not to this extent, though) so I know exactly how much of a gut punch you are feeling. I'm glad you have support and I know you will end up just fine. The year this happened to me ended up being one of the best years of my life, once he moved out life got pretty good, pretty quickly. I'm sure you will find the same!
Ugh, I cannot imagine seeing it and having your hunch be a reality. Your girls deserve better, YOU deserve better & im so glad you have a support system & things in place. 2016 is the year YOU did what was best for your family...think of it that way. Thinking of you.
Post by textbookcase on May 27, 2016 10:05:41 GMT -5
Thanks everyone. I really do appreciate the support. I know he's a fucking scumbag and I know my girls and I deserve a better life than letting him treat me like this. Thanks for letting me vent.
Post by pegasuskat on May 27, 2016 10:16:02 GMT -5
Even when you know, it's still hard to read proof like that. I hope you got screen shots, people like him suck! Your life just got better losing his dead weight.
I'm sorry. I vividly remember standing outside during an incident with my ex-husband and saying to myself, "Holy shit, this is my life." It was surreal. Five years later and I'm happier than ever. I know you'll get there too. Stay strong.
Post by textbookcase on May 27, 2016 10:45:30 GMT -5
Also I was going to dd this but now I'm not because I don't really give a fuck if anyone finds this. They deserve to know what a vile shit pig he is. He has a lot of people fooled.
I am so sorry. Why do men have to be such douchebags? Don't they know when they have a good thing. Obviously not. Do the right thing what ever is right for you and your girls.
Post by textbookcase on May 27, 2016 10:48:05 GMT -5
And another also, one of the women he is sexting is someone we both know, a family friend who is around at every holiday and birthday and I had no idea. Of course this is him being a douche but man I don't know how that wench can act normal around me when she has been talking to him like that. Crazy cakes.
And another also, one of the women he is sexting is someone we both know, a family friend who is around at every holiday and birthday and I had no idea. Of course this is him being a douche but man I don't know how that wench can act normal around me when she has been talking to him like that. Crazy cakes.
I'm sure the general advice is to have no contact with her, but I'd be tempted to call her up and be sugar-sweet to tell her she might want to be tested for STDs given what you know. You know, to turn the knife and make sure she knows that you know.
Look on the bright side: your lease is up, you have family support and you were mentally prepared to leave because of what happened last time. Don't hesitate this time.