So I guess S/O is still my home

[berbles]

Because I am single once more.

[compassrose]

I'm so sorry, berbles. But I definitely think you are doing the right thing.

[karenj]

Oh I am so sorry.

[jigsy]

(((hugs))) I'm sorry you are going through all of this.

[doriswe]

My heart is breaking for you and unfortunately I think too many of us know exactly how this feels.

I want to hug you so hard.

[katieido]

I hope he drowns in a port-a-potty for real.

[doglove]

Hugs berbles.

[Linie]

Lots of hugs

[Deleted]

I'm so, so sorry berbles.

[bl]

I am so sorry, you should not have to be going through this and deserve so much better.

[mommadukes]

hugs. I didn't read through the 17 pages, but I'm sorry you are going through this

[bg]

I'm so sorry that you're going through this.

[cuddlyevil]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{ berbles}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

I know it sucks hair donkey balls right now, but I am really glad that you found out before you married him.

[jellymankelly]

Jul 27, 2016 11:09:38 GMT -5 doriswe said:

My heart is breaking for you and unfortunately I think too many of us know exactly how this feels.

I want to hug you so hard.

We do, indeed. And I think many of us wish we'd found out (or not tried to explain it all away) before we got married. If there's anything good about this, which there really isn't because this is a total nightmare, it's that you found out now instead of later. I just hate to see you hurting like this.

[berbles]

I can't stop crying. My boss told me I can take time off if I need to.

[jigsy]

Can castration become a thing? Or at least some sort of permanent mark denoting a shit bagerry so all other women at least can proceed with this fuckface at their own peril. Maybe we should petition for a special fuck-face court. Where a jury of women can hear out the facts from both sides, and then judge if a person is worthy to go out in dating society. Perhaps we could then start getting some court mandated therapy happening for the not totally lost causes...and remove the dick wads who are lost causes from the dating pool of good people.

Judge Judy could preside.

[glitzyglow]

I am so, so sorry Berbles. You didn't deserve that type of treatment and deceit. No one does.

[1confused1]

Hugs

[LoveBug]

I'm so sorry. I just caught up on your other post and I am disgusted for you. On the other hand, I am so relieved you found out now and not later. Though it never should have happened. He is a disgrace. Hugs to you.

[jenstar]

I'm so sorry berbles. I can't imagine how much this sucks right now, especially finding out so soon after the excitement of your engagement. I'm glad you found out before you were married but as buckybells said in the other thread, you've still invested 3 years of your life in this person, so I know it's of little consolation. x

[winecat]

I'm so very sorry. Marriage or not, it doesn't lessen the hurt. Fuck anyone who says "at least you weren't married." That saved you some legal bills but does not negate any of the heartache or betrayal.

[nextbigthing]

I'm so sorry, you didn't deserve this!

[Deleted]

((berbles))  I think you should take your boss up on that time off.  Consider going away for a few days (alone or with friends/family) to do something you enjoy.  Be kind to yourself.  xoxo

[starburst604]

Fuck. There are no words that will lessen your pain, I know. I am so sorry, he is an utter piece of shit and completely undeserving of you.

[thedutchgirl]

I'm so sorry.

[jigsy]

Jul 27, 2016 20:37:08 GMT -5 @blueyes623 said:

((berbles))  I think you should take your boss up on that time off.  Consider going away for a few days (alone or with friends/family) to do something you enjoy.  Be kind to yourself.  xoxo

You can come here! mp and I will get you sloppy drunk and yell and rant woth you!

[sweetchix]

So many hugs berbles. I agree that you should take your boss up on his offer for time off. Go have a spa day or something just for you.

[Mrs.Rad888]

I'm so sorry, Berbles. He's obviously a worthless piece of shit, but I know that there is still heartache. Sending you thoughts of love and strength. You are a special person and don't deserve any of this.

[pinkdutchtulips]

Trying to figure out what happened hugs ! Take as much time as you need for YOU !

[asoctoberfalls]

I'm really sorry. 😥