@kirkette - I'm here. I was the one who, in an attempt to jog my memory about her old screen name shenanigans, stumbled upon the thread on the old place that included a picture of her and her alleged daughter who died.
I always found something off about her. If any other poster came on here saying my kid doesn't want to go to Disney so we are canceling the trip they would get ripped to shreds.
Yeah, I attempted to do a giveaway with her early on, and after going through all the details and lots of back and forth, backed on me, because she said bows were only for girls and she didn't think it fair to do a giveaway that would only appeal to half her customer base.
I don't have enough followers to make it worth it for you, but I would totally do a giveaway.
DD is going to wear her Skye bow at her birthday party with her amazing natariru paper products
Gah, I've almost ordered gifts from her a few times in the past and could never pull the trigger. Something has always seemed a bit off but I thought it was just general social awkwardness or something.
I'm always amazed by how much energy some people put in to being batshit crazy. how?!?! why?!?!
I always found something off about her. If any other poster came on here saying my kid doesn't want to go to Disney so we are canceling the trip they would get ripped to shreds.
LOL. I need to go workout. I can see I'm being ridiculous here, but it's so weird what is being piled on now.
HER DS SUPPOSEDLY DIDN'T WANT TO GO TO DISNEY SO SHE CANCELLED!!! HOW DARE SHE?!?!?!?!
Why would ANYONE be ripped to shreds over that? If they were, that says a lot more about the board being Disney crazy rather than anything about her.
Honestly it's the last thing I remember her writing about.
I must be super naive, because I still believe the vacations (we have seen SO MANY PICTURES) and the cookie business and the super attachment parenting. But none of that is the point!!!
The point is the vile behavior of this TK person who lied about a fake dying child to take money from people.
If everyone comes out now talking about how her cookies didn't even work I am going to hate you all. Because that should have been called out long ago. Fuck fake kindness.
I hate that I'm coming off as a defender, but she did not invent lactation cookies and I think many people can eat lactation cookies (whether made by her or not) and not have much of a response.
She may be a lying liar/borderline sociopath, but I don't think you can hold the effectiveness of her cookies against her. Unless we know that she purposefully didn't put flaxseed or oatmeal or whatever other galactologues in them, and we have no proof (or even claims) of that.
I agree. I mean they are cookies not prescription medication.
If everyone comes out now talking about how her cookies didn't even work I am going to hate you all. Because that should have been called out long ago. Fuck fake kindness.
I hate that I'm coming off as a defender, but she did not invent lactation cookies and I think many people can eat lactation cookies (whether made by her or not) and not have much of a response.
She may be a lying liar/borderline sociopath, but I don't think you can hold the effectiveness of her cookies against her. Unless we know that she purposefully didn't put flaxseed or oatmeal or whatever other galactologues in them, and we have no proof (or even claims) of that.
Oh I definitely think they can work. I swore by brewer's yeast when pregnant. I was just saying that if everyone started coming out all "her cookies didn't even work" I was going to be pissed. SaveSave
If you've ordered from her, I'd just be aware and maybe on alert for identity theft. I have zero evidence that this is possible or likely, but that would be my main concern if I had given her my payment information.
She appears to have a successful business, perhaps not as successful as she claims or to cover her spending, but she does have income and success with it. So it may all be legit, just exaggerated here.
I'm surprised she did this in the same community after being found out before. That is pretty low and shameless. I was always a bit more sympathetic to her exH than most here (if you never leave your kid alone with your H in the same room, I can see why he wouldn't get too attached), so I'm glad that some doubt has been thrown on how "trashy" (also gross, btw) he is. I mean, at the very least, there are big issues on both sides, which sucks for her son, but at least is more fair to others in her life.
Yessss!
You never let the man hold his kid. You peed and shat and showered with the kid how did you think that was going to turn out?
Also it is very possible that the ex-H wanted contact and she lied and said he didn't.
Thank you. I was always so surprised about how gentle the entire board was with her over her extreme AP views. It was all "oh, you're still nursing/cosleeping DS at 15? That's cool." I've seen others get flamed for way, way, way less extreme parenting choices
(DISCLAIMER: I nursed to 13 months/co-sleep when necessary myself, so I'm not anti-AP by any means).
I must be super naive, because I still believe the vacations (we have seen SO MANY PICTURES) and the cookie business and the super attachment parenting. But none of that is the point!!!
The point is the vile behavior of this TK person who lied about a fake dying child to take money from people.
If you go to her FB page you can see tons of vacation pics. I don't think she lied about that or the cookie business or the attachment parenting (I mean she has tons of professional photos of BFing an almost 5 year old). The rest is disgusting.SaveSave
I do not understand how people come back to this place after shit like this. Like, how?
Take your shit to mothering or babycenter or something like that.
Right? I'm willing to believe that people can change and all that, but the fact that she comes back to (almost) the same group of women that she scammed on the TK/TN suggests otherwise.
I must be super naive, because I still believe the vacations (we have seen SO MANY PICTURES) and the cookie business and the super attachment parenting. But none of that is the point!!!
The point is the vile behavior of this TK person who lied about a fake dying child to take money from people.
Yes I think she is a real person with a real cookie business and really into AP.
I think she is either a terrible person, mentally ill, or both.
In retrospect I am sorry I supported her business financially but I am not sorry that the board in general was nice to her prior to this revelation.
This is where I am at. I think the cookie business and AP is real. I also really agree with the terrible person and mentally ill part. I mean I can't see how someone could make up a story like that about their fake kid w/out being mentally ill. Which is unfortunate for her son.
I always found something off about her. If any other poster came on here saying my kid doesn't want to go to Disney so we are canceling the trip they would get ripped to shreds.
LOL. I need to go workout. I can see I'm being ridiculous here, but it's so weird what is being piled on now.
HER DS SUPPOSEDLY DIDN'T WANT TO GO TO DISNEY SO SHE CANCELLED!!! HOW DARE SHE?!?!?!?!
Why would ANYONE be ripped to shreds over that? If they were, that says a lot more about the board being Disney crazy rather than anything about her.
Because families don't (shouldn't?) generally change major expenses and family plans based on the whims of a 4 year old? What if the day after cancellation he wanted to go again- does she re-book?
I'm all about giving choices and respecting kids blah blah blah but come on. And I am not at all Disney crazy. I've been once.
I think it's awful to basically prey on a board of moms, many of the members new moms. I don't doubt that her business is legit, given the press, but it's sad that she would even come back to this community after what she did.
And her poor son. I hope that no matter what else, he isn't affected.