Post by pegasuskat on Aug 15, 2016 17:18:13 GMT -5
If there is even a .0001% chance that she is making up stuff, this is still the worst possible day to speculate. I don't think she is making up cancer, and is feeling horrible right now while having to read this argument. She found out she may have cancer about the same time I did, I was lucky - mine isn't cancer, I was so scared and turned out lucky and hate that she is reading this when she is trying to fight, she needs encouragement today! The timing sucks.
Post by jojoandleo on Aug 15, 2016 17:21:29 GMT -5
Man, I have no problem calling @lazerus24 a dick in this thread. You call out someone with a smug "I know something you don't know" and act like you have proof when you don't-DICK MOVE. Period. And I think His should see people calling that out, personally. I don't think this makes her a bad person all the time, or a dick all the time. I do think the online anonymity angle makes people say things they wouldn't to your face. And no, Laz wasn't the only dick, but she is the only one doubling down.
It's not hard to say, "Sorry, I should have kept my speculation to myself." Rather than say, "Well, nothing else overwhelmed her."
Ok I had to check and I went back and saw that Elsa and I both said we didn't think she was faking, just embellishing.
I said it twice in fact. I just said that some things amongst her stories didn't add up. This is a common feeling with his's stories, way before the cancer diagnosis.
I've felt this for awhile and a ton of people up thread who are now nowhere to be found said they did as well.
What most of you asked for, right after I said I didn't think she was faking it, was more info on what didn't add up, which is gossip, all that can be found in past threads (like I said). I never said I had insider info, I said that I noticed a pattern of things not adding up entirely when you look at the big picture.
Things I won't go into now because I see it's hurtful and honestly not necessary.
I think after seeing everything happen on mmm I was a little on edge and feeling all sorts of ways about her posts not adding up and this post started...
I'm not a soulless dick and I'm not the only one in this thread who said these things.
I'm just the only one who is manning up and answering your flames. Lol.
As much as I am truly skeptical here now after all that has happened these past few years, I don't like to hurt people and do regret that I did.
My very first post in here was that SHE WAS NOT LYING ABOUT THE CANCER, that she was embellishing and part of her stories seemed fabricated.
Why did you think I thought she was lying about cancer?
Dude, this is worse! If you don't think she lying about cancer why would you be gossiping about someone going through the worst fucking thing imaginable?
Seriously.
Okay, do you don't believe she's lying about cancer.
You're up in arms over... What? She had more guests at her daughter's baby shower than we were originally told?
At least you stuck it out Laz. The others that shared your opinion seem to have bailed on you.
Yeah. How dare they back down from accusing someone of lying without any proof when said person is going through a tough time!
This is probably something you SHOULD back down from. Your comment is like when some guy is all "You look fat." and someone is like, "Well, at least he speaks his mind!" When your mind is an asshole, maybe don't speak it.
It was lucy who made those particular accusations if i remember correctly. I'm still sad about it.
I can't remember if it was polka or little duck, but one of them said they were on the treadmill at the gym and then everyone on the treadmills spontaneously burst into song together. I do remember thinking that was BS, lol, funny BS, but still BS. I'm just trying to breathe and not fall when I'm running, and everyone has on headphones and is either watching tv or listening to music.
This happened to me! But it was just me, my friend and her son in our apartment complex gym. So...not too special, lol.
And I'll back up @lazerus24 and say I was on the skeptical about some stuff train. But yeah, it didn't need to be brought into a thread because it really doesn't matter And I don't think she's the one who did name names. Everyone begging for names is contributing to the drama just as much. Would everyone have stopped if she'd said, "Eh, I just have a feeling, don't want to say about who." Fuck no.
@lazerus24, I don't think you are a dick in general, but this post was a huge misstep (in my opinion).
However, at least you stuck around and explained your POV when the others scattered like scared mice.
I'm not scared to defend my actions, even if that defense is admitting I was wrong or posted without thinking.
I will stand by that there is a bunch of details that do not add up and one day I realized that and did some digging. But it was inappropriate for me to bring it up.
This happened to me! But it was just me, my friend and her son in our apartment complex gym. So...not too special, lol.
And I'll back up @lazerus24 and say I was on the skeptical about some stuff train. But yeah, it didn't need to be brought into a thread. And I don't think she's the one who did name names. Everyone begging for names is contributing to the drama just as much. Would everyone have stopped if she'd said, "Eh, I just have a feeling, don't want to say about who." Fuck no.
I can't remember if it was polka or little duck, but one of them said they were on the treadmill at the gym and then everyone on the treadmills spontaneously burst into song together. I do remember thinking that was BS, lol, funny BS, but still BS. I'm just trying to breathe and not fall when I'm running, and everyone has on headphones and is either watching tv or listening to music.
And I'll back up @lazerus24 and say I was on the skeptical about some stuff train. But yeah, it didn't need to be brought into a thread because it really doesn't matter And I don't think she's the one who did name names. Everyone begging for names is contributing to the drama just as much. Would everyone have stopped if she'd said, "Eh, I just have a feeling, don't want to say about who." Fuck no.
So many of the people who cry for details and names are the ones who turn around and say... That's so so wrong.
At least you stuck it out Laz. The others that shared your opinion seem to have bailed on you.
Yeah. How dare they back down from accusing someone of lying without any proof when said person is going through a tough time!
This is probably something you SHOULD back down from. Your comment is like when some guy is all "You look fat." and someone is like, "Well, at least he speaks his mind!" When your mind is an asshole, maybe don't speak it.
No. This is what always happens. One person takes the heat, while everyone else sits back and watches. It's shitty that they all let Laz get jumped on when they started with the accusations too.
Yeah. How dare they back down from accusing someone of lying without any proof when said person is going through a tough time!
This is probably something you SHOULD back down from. Your comment is like when some guy is all "You look fat." and someone is like, "Well, at least he speaks his mind!" When your mind is an asshole, maybe don't speak it.
No. This is what always happens. One person takes the heat, while everyone else sits back and watches. It's shitty that they all let Laz get jumped on when they started it too.
And look now they come running in to backpedal.
omfg what do you want?
Name names! (Someone names names) Oh you shouldn't have said that, apologize! (Someone apologizes). Backpedal!!
And I'll back up @lazerus24 and say I was on the skeptical about some stuff train. But yeah, it didn't need to be brought into a thread because it really doesn't matter And I don't think she's the one who did name names. Everyone begging for names is contributing to the drama just as much. Would everyone have stopped if she'd said, "Eh, I just have a feeling, don't want to say about who." Fuck no.
So many of the people who cry for details and names are the ones who turn around and say... That's so so wrong.
I mean... What?
I asked for details and examples because I stand by the policy of open-air confrontation. If you are going to hint that someone is lying/embellishing, don't. Say it with your chest. THIS IS A MESSAGE BOARD. WE DON'T HAVE TIME TO BE COY. lol
Because if you don't have proof, then this happens.
I never said names or for anyone apologize. Not saying they shouldn't. I asked for receipts because if there was proof that she was lying, then the board should know.