I've never been and I told H I would be willing to go. He's really trying to plan a night for us and some friends to go. He says the strippers go nuts for women there, so no I'm a little freaked out.
Yes, but not in years. I went in my early 20's a couple of times. I got a lot of attention from the females, which I've heard is standard.
I don't imagine I'd ever go back. I was a bit uncomfortable and it all felt a bit sleezy. I'm a little uptight about this sort of thing generally, for some perspective!
I went when I was 18. I'm pretty "meh" about seeing girls, it doesn't bother me. The friend I took, who wanted to go, acted as though seeing a naked female was one of the worst things to ever happen. She said "ew" to everything.
It wasn't a bad experience but it was in a really seedy part of town and the club was known for it's one legged stripper. But they had girls of all sizes there from the itty bitty to the more on the plus size side.
I'd love to take my Husband to one of the nicer clubs up here but we just haven't made it there yet.
I'd also like to go to a male strip club.
Over all, it was just a lot of drunk dudes there and some women.
I went to one for women. I cannot take the male dancers seriously and honestly, I found it more funny than a turn on.
I don't think I could ever go to a strip club with male dancers. I'm pretty sure, I would just giggle. I don't think I would get much out of it.
It was odd. I learned quickly not to make eye contact and I only tipped the guys who gave you something in return; from one I got a fake lei and another, a tootsie pop.
Post by underwaterrhymes on Sept 9, 2012 20:59:58 GMT -5
Yeah, male strippers are so cheesy. We hired one to come to the sorority house for my friend in college, and went a few times to a club that occasionally had male dancers. It was fun, but because of the hilarity.
Although I was pissed because my friends got me a lap dance and the guy gave me a hickey on my boob and gave me his phone number. I was skeeved out.
Post by pittsmcgee on Sept 9, 2012 21:05:17 GMT -5
No, but I've gotten a lap dance from a female stripper at some secret after party with people FROM WORK. It was probably the most horrifying night of my life. Yes, I realize I am capitalizing a lot of shit tonight
From what everyone describes, it's pretty much what I would expect. I'm a somewhat shy person, so I think I'll have to have a few drinks before going. I am interested in going because H gets all giddy just thinking about me going to a strip club with him. Lol.
If it's something that you think you might like, then definitely go! It might be fun for you. Regardless, it's an experience you'll probably never forget.
Post by snatchparade on Sept 9, 2012 21:51:36 GMT -5
I went to one years ago because my then-BF convinced me to go. It was in a very small town and there were apparently no requirements for someone to be a stripper there. It wasn't pretty.
I've been to suuuuper grody Bourbon St strip clubs, and a few "all male" revues in town. I'm far from being a prude, but watching cracked out girls dance & slimy guys strip down to a thong & cowboy boots is not a turn on for me.
I went to two, one with my cousin, one with an ex. Both bought me private lap dances. I talked to one about college while she akwardly girated on me, and the other killed a lot of time getting my ex to buy her an expensive drink and then tried to touch me VERY inappropriately...with her tongue. (not vag).
Post by BlackCanary on Sept 9, 2012 23:26:02 GMT -5
I've been to one. My roommate and one of her friends took me, it was really sleazy. They bought me a lap dance and it was very awkward. I laughed the entire time.
Yes. I went with some guy friends and I enjoyed hanging out, drinking, and enjoying the music. It was a classy club, but still. To watch the faces on those guys getting lap dances, you can see them thinking "Wow, this hot chick really likes me!" and then you look at the dancer and know they're making their grocery list in their head. It was kind of sad, actually. A few girls tried to smile and me so I'd want a lap dance, but I didn't want one.
Been to male strip clubs, dated a male dancer. The male dancers are a bunch of whores. Seriously. Stay far away from them.