Post by VeryViolet on Sept 10, 2012 13:37:24 GMT -5
Also, if you haven't already make sure you cancel the card he has (or just has the number for) and yours if they are two separate cards and get a new card issued with a new number. Having him not be an authorized user probably will not stop it from happening again. I use my husbands cards online and in person (with his knowledge) frequently and have never been questioned and I am not an authorized user on the account.
Also, if you haven't already make sure you cancel the card he has (or just has the number for) and yours if they are two separate cards and get a new card issued with a new number. Having him not be an authorized user probably will not stop it from happening again. I use my husbands cards online and in person (with his knowledge) frequently and have never been questioned and I am not an authorized user on the account.
This is a good point. He still has all the info he needs to use the card online (maybe in stores? I don't know) if he just puts in your name instead of his. New card!
I agree that you need to get a new card number as if your card was stolen. If he still had that card and the number remains the same, you are going to have to sift through every single bill. If you get a new number, he should be denied at the time of purchase.
Post by miniroller on Sept 10, 2012 16:08:48 GMT -5
Ok, I didn't read all the way through, but I have to remind you (just in case nobody else/ YOU haven't): How mutherF'n PISSED you're going to pay off these charges!!!! (which we all know YOU'LL very likely be doing) Screaming at yourself that you should've just handled from the beginning. Think of THAT while you're canceling.
If he has the money to give you, like he's claiming, then he can buy new airline tickets.
You know you can't trust him to reimburse you so I suggest following through with calling and cancelling the tickets. This way you can't get screwed over.
DH travels very often for work. The company booked tickets for a trip that wound up being cancelled. DH had to call to cancel. When he did they would only credit a portion back to the corporate card. The remainder they gave him in credit in his name, not the companies name. DH will do the right thing and use the credit for work, but I wouldn't trust your XH to be upstanding. If your XH knows this is a practice of some airlines and he calls before you, you could be screwed. Just get them off your cc. ASAP
point 1: you are a buttmunch point 2: it's not your card point 3: JUST EFFING DIE ALREADY point 4: so many people are going to be throwing back drinks the day your divorce comes through we might alter the rotational direction of earth.
"let's split the points in half. Then you can pay me in points for all the shit I have been paying for while you live in my house.........um I think you'll need to keep sending me points for the rest of your life asshole!"