Almost nothing bothers me, nothing but I wanted to punch everyone in the balls who said "you are so lucky to be having twins, I always wanted twins, I basically have twins as my kids are only 34 months apart, etc etc etc." Shut.the.fuck.up.
This is crazy to me. I think some people have some weird issues when it comes to twins.
I completely agree. It is weird and I know people mean well but fuck man let me get my shit and go.
You learn about everyone's family I swear. Their cousin mother' brother's milkman had twins too! Or they were pregnant with twins and lost them <--------that is mostly from the olds but people say this all the time. So weird.
Post by noodleskooze on Dec 23, 2016 13:20:13 GMT -5
farmvillelover, now that people know kid 2 is a boy, they all think we'll have a third too. It's funny--I only know one family IRL that has two boys and no more.
More than likely, we're done. We won't do anything permanent for a few years since we're both young and our minds could change. I REALLY don't like being pregnant though, so I'm pretty convinced that we'll stop at our two boys. I am SUPER excited about 1. having two boys and 2. the age gap (two months shy of 4 years).
Post by tellmesomethingood on Dec 23, 2016 13:36:26 GMT -5
We're one and done. I've heard "good thing you got a girl, since you're a girly girl" and "so DH won't have a son to carry on his name?" multiple times.
Also, major pet peeve, I cannot stand when people ask me if we know the "gender" of our child. Nope, I have no idea what his gender identity is going to be. Hard to say since I haven't even met him, let alone exposed him to anything outside of my uterus. Thanks for asking!
Yes. I'm not a mom but this has always bothered me. It's probably petty, but I hate the term "gender reveal". You find out the sex of the baby, which is the biological part.
Also, major pet peeve, I cannot stand when people ask me if we know the "gender" of our child. Nope, I have no idea what his gender identity is going to be. Hard to say since I haven't even met him, let alone exposed him to anything outside of my uterus. Thanks for asking!
Yes. I'm not a mom but this has always bothered me. It's probably petty, but I hate the term "gender reveal". You find out the sex of the baby, which is the biological part.
I have a relative who went on and on and on during her pregnancy about finding out the gender and wanting to know the gender and paying extra for an early anatomy scan so they could learn the gender and I just wanted to scream "GENDER IS A FUCKING CONSTRUCT, SEX REFERS TO THE ORGANS!"