His, you are remarkable. If you are up to it, I think you may feel more settled asking them now. I have no wisdom for you, but I do have a lot of love. I will pray for you.
All the love and light to you tonight. I want to say that I appreciate how raw and real you've been about what you're going through. It takes a great amount of courage to do so, you're a brave and special person.
hisno1girl, you are one amazing woman. You embody grace like almost no one I've ever known. I hate that you're having to go through all of this. I'm continuing to pray for you, for healing, strength, relief from pain, and for you to continue to receive that peace that passes ALL human understanding.
The only wrong thing you could do right now is to do something that makes you unhappy. If you want things arranged, but you're not comfortable asking people to assist with your service, you could write a note and give/send it to them. But if that doesn't feel right, know that having your family ask is not placing a burden on them. It may even be a blessing to them, to see/hear how honored people will be to fulfill these roles. There's just no right answer here, unless something feels "right" to you.
Post by compassrose on Mar 17, 2017 23:01:58 GMT -5
Sending you love and light. I wouldn't want to be away from my family that long either.
There's a lovely line in a Madeline L'Engle book about praying for someone really meaning that you put them in God's hands. I hope there is peace and comfort found there for you.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Post by MixedBerryJam on Mar 18, 2017 5:51:19 GMT -5
Huge hugs, his. But gentle ones that don't hurt your incision. I don't have a single word of advice, I just wanted to tell you that you cannot make a wrong decision here. However you decide is right.
Know that we will support you no matter what treatment decision you make. There is nothing right answer here. You have to do what brings you the most peace.