"He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." - Unknown
We just had my sister as MOH and we were both good friends with the BM, while we don't see the BM as often as we used to, I think we'd still include them both.
Though honestly, I think if we did it now we'd just elope with NO ONE there.
Although if I got married again I'd have no attendants. But even if I were to have them, it wouldn't be those 3. None of them would even be invited, actually.
Post by sunshineluv on Aug 8, 2017 12:59:59 GMT -5
4 out of 6.
I am bummed about one of the friendships that has faded, I miss her. She moved, and our lives have changed a lot, and we didn't keep up. I hope one day to reconnect.
Post by themysteriouswife on Aug 8, 2017 13:00:41 GMT -5
None. One is my cousin and rarely see her. She has changed in not so positive ways. My other BM and I grew apart when I moved states. She and I are still friends, not as close.
On my side, all. I had my BFF and my sister. They're still my BFF and sister. The guys were exH's deal, so none of those guys.
Well, when I said bridal party, I mean your attendants.
I don't mean the entire wedding party.
I don't care about the groomsmen. LOL.
That being said, if I were doing it again, I'd have my brother as an attendant on my own side and not a groomsman.
I would light one of the groomsmen on fire before I would invite him to my wedding again.
He flew out here to visit H while he was in the hospital in February. Then he just up and ghosted. He had promised to give me a night off from hospital sitting and to bring H dinner, but never returned with food. So H ordered hospital food, which was then misdelivered. I had to get out of bed on my night off to take H food at 10pm so he would have something to eat. Then the "friend" never showed up the next day as promised and skipped town without saying goodbye.
I am honestly not sure on my bridesmaids. I have had zero falling outs. It's just that time and geography have made us somewhat less close.
I had mostly family. But my SIL is now a ex SIL so she no longer in the family. I might lower the number groomsman but I would want to keep my brother as a groomsman.