My brother died

[formerlyak]

I just lost my dad two months ago and Monday my younger brother died unexpectedly. My dad was sick for a while. It was hard but expected. But my brother? I am just at a loss. Watching my mom ask the doctor, "I just lost my husband and now you are telling me I will lose my son?" and seeing her kiss his lifeless face was the hardest thing I have ever experienced. 

I go through cycles where I cry hysterically and then calm down and try to do "normal" things. I keep thinking this can't be real. But it is real.

I am ready for 2023. 2022 has sucked.

[dancingirl21]

I'm so incredibly sorry for your losses. Sending hugs.

[georgeharrison]

I'm so sorry

[momin2013]

I am so sorry for your loss. How absolutely awful and tragic for your family.

[mofongo]

Omg, I am so sorry. We’re here as you need to talk.

[cleo29]

I am so sorry. Happy to listen if you want to talk.

[lust2hart]

I'm so sorry.

[W.T.Faulkner]

I am so terribly sorry for your loss.

[mrsukyankee]

I'm so sad to hear this. Sending all the hugs.

[Patsy Baloney]

Oh god, I am so, so very sorry. Just devastating.

Hoping that comfort and peace come swiftly to you all, and may brighter days be ahead.

[chilerellanos]

I am so so sorry.

[Alex]

I'm so sorry. Please make sure to take care of yourself. It's important when grieving like this.

[jennistarr1]

I just went a funeral and the brother of that guy was devestated and there were several people who had also lost a brother and that had me thinking about that level of loss being so profound...I'm really really sorry

[exploding people]

I'm so sorry.

[heygrey]

I am so so sorry. Feel free to lean on us to vent or talk as much as you need.

[Deleted]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[styme46]

Oh my goodness, I am so sorry. So many hugs.

[slbride2003]

I’m so terribly sorry. I lost my brother unexpectedly 13 year ago, and the pain is something I never could have imagined. PM me if you want to talk.

[formerlyak]

Thanks. Sometimes I don't think it's real and I will just wake up and he will call me in the morning like he did every morning until this past Saturday when I was sitting at his hospital bed. I literally talked to him or texted with him every day.

I have a lot of great support, as does my mom, but I just needed to type it out.

He was also almost through a divorce, but since the court hadn't signed decree yet, I am working with his ex to settle the estate. Talk about an extra layer of stress. We are doing a good job so far of working together to try to honor what we know he would have wanted, but it is just an extra piece that adds to it all.

[rachers]

I’m so sorry for your loss.

[cville]

That is horrible. I'm so sorry. I'm at a loss.

[Nonny]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[VillainV]

I’m so very sorry. What a tragic series of loss for your family. I hope you can feel all of us holding you up as we try to offer strength through our thoughts and prayers for you.

[starburst604]

I am so very sorry.

[janegold]

I'm so incredibly sorry.

[dulcemariamar]

I am so sorry about your loss. Keeping you and your mom in my thoughts and wishing you peace.

[followyourarrow]

Im so sorry.

[pumpkin]

I’m so sorry for your loss.

[icedcoffee]

I am so sorry. Hugs to you!

[lostrn]

I'm so sorry.