Post by spitforspat on Aug 4, 2016 17:42:04 GMT -5
Margot and I have almost finished our first week at work and we are killing it! She's smiling and cooing at everyone, and even letting me get some work done.
Post by spitforspat on Jul 24, 2016 9:05:32 GMT -5
Hopping over from ML.
I'm EPing dd, she's 11 weeks. I started because she would not latch and was losing too much weight. She was tongue tied, but still never latched after we had it clipped. I tried multiple trips to the lactation consultant, the supplemental nursing system, and we just couldn't make it work. I started to see her as the enemy and dreaded every feeding time because it made me feel like a failure.
I still wish we could've made BFing work, but I'm happy with my decision now. DH can give her a bottle, I can have a few drinks and not worry about my milk (I just dilute it with other milk!). It was hard to get used to at first - it's A LOT of work, and I stressed about how much I was producing. But now it's just my normal. I've gotten good at feeding and playing while pumping.
If you do decide to EP I highly recommend a spectra s9. It's very compact and has a rechargeable battery. I just charge it up, put on my hands free bra and throw the pump in my pocket. I can walk around, make dinner, change the baby, etc, all while pumping.
Can you get a standing desk? Because then you can work with the baby strapped on you, that would actually be quite productive. My kids hated being worn when I was sitting.
It seems like a great setup. I've tried working from home with the baby here but it was a disaster. I just wanted to nap and breastfeed and cry and watch crappy TV. But going into work will force you to get up and go, and the baby should sleep quite a bit if you wear him/her.
Yes! I do have a standing desk and a carrier I love. This is encouraging!
Would they consider adding a door for you, or is that not compatible with the environment? I honestly think a door would be incredibly helpful in this situation because you won't be so stressed if the baby cries.
I don't think a door is feasible, as the curtain was added for the woman who had the space before me when she brought her baby to work 4 years ago. Ha!
Post by spitforspat on Jul 22, 2016 11:55:47 GMT -5
I'm an assistant buyer for a local retail store. It's a very crunchy/hippy environment. No dress code (most people in yoga pants everyday), and people bring their dogs to work.
I have an office space, but it's only got a curtain for a door! It will be an interesting transition.
The stroller for the bathroom is a great idea- thanks!!
Post by spitforspat on Jul 22, 2016 11:34:59 GMT -5
I'm going back to work on August 1, and I'm taking dd with me. She'll be 12 weeks old and I'll get to take her for 3 months.
Has anybody else done this? I'm extremely happy to not have to leave her just yet, but also stressed at the idea of watching her and working at the same time. Like...how will I go to the bathroom? Strap her to me with the carrier? Make someone watch her for a bit?
I plan on just running outside with her if/when she starts to cry. Haha.
Any advice or stories of a similar set up are greatly appreciated!
Post by spitforspat on Jul 14, 2016 9:30:09 GMT -5
Out of the goodness of my kind and beautiful heart I took all the night feedings last night- allowing H to sleep NINE glorious hours. When he woke up I asked him how he slept. He said "OK, she was pretty fidgety last night."
Post by spitforspat on Jul 12, 2016 13:59:17 GMT -5
Margot and Lydia were the names we went to the hospital with! We have very similar name preferences. I love your list. I'm partial to Margot and Audrey, for obvious reasons.