I just can't I think I'll literally does this make me vanilla?
Trying not to go into TMI here...it triggers my gag reflex if the cum hits the back of my throat. But if I put him under my tongue right when he cums, no problem! IF you ever decide you're interested in trying (no pressure!!!), it might help to try that, if it's the suddenness that bothers you, rather than the taste/idea/whatever.
I have known guys who have said they didn't like it, THUS the self conciousness. Yep, just cuz I know one guy who said it, I am worried every time that the guy I'm with is one of those weirdos who doesn't like it.
this could be a good way of weeding out the weak from the strong. You don't like my awww skeet skeet skeet, then get the fuck out.
LOL! That's true actually, cuz what am I gonna do, HOLD IT IN FOREVER??
I don't. I think it is a personal thing and I give him the side eye for pressuring her. I PERSONALLY swallow, I mean, less mess and I get my protein, but I would be LIVID if I said no and H was all "guilt trip" about it.
No he only mentioned it because as I was giving him head I paused and told him "don't cum in my mouth" and then that's when he said it haahaaa...I shouldn't have stopped but I'm really scared that if he had I would have barfed all over him...
In keeping with the sex theme- I'm having so much of it. Like, everyday. Actually, more like twice a day, almost everyday. It's incredible. I've never loved sex this much.
I don't. I think it is a personal thing and I give him the side eye for pressuring her. I PERSONALLY swallow, I mean, less mess and I get my protein, but I would be LIVID if I said no and H was all "guilt trip" about it.
No he only mentioned it because as I was giving him head I paused and told him "don't cum in my mouth" and then that's when he said it haahaaa...I shouldn't have stopped but I'm really scared that if he had I would have barfed all over him...
pdx no judgment girl. It's been a while for me, too, and all I want to do right now is go find my boy and jump on him.
Thanks lady! I'm normally much slower with stuff like this if I'm actually "dating" someone. I'm also not sure how much I like him, but holy hell after MONTHS of dealing with a douchebag with ED, I'm like this is AMAZING.
No he only mentioned it because as I was giving him head I paused and told him "don't cum in my mouth" and then that's when he said it haahaaa...I shouldn't have stopped but I'm really scared that if he had I would have barfed all over him...
I do NOT like the pressuring MB to swallow. it is a PERSONAL choice. I don't like sexual pressure regardless of where it comes from. it squicks me out.
Post by bullygirl979 on Dec 7, 2012 16:00:53 GMT -5
Okay, so AB and I are supposed to go out to dinner and a movie tonight. However, I am kind of thinking of inviting him over here for takeout and a movie. 1) I am tired. I drank too much yesterday and stayed out too late 2) I kind of want to make out with him on my couch like a 15 year old.
I have never NOT swallowed. I realize there are people who aren't into this, but I just can't fathom it.
this is me. No mess, BUT if it is not your thing, don't do it. Don't let others tell you you should. Sex is something you have to be comfortable with and NO ONE should tell you what you SHOULD do.
Okay, so AB and I are supposed to go out to dinner and a movie tonight. However, I am kind of thinking of inviting him over here for takeout and a movie. 1) I am tired. I drank too much yesterday and stayed out too late 2) I kind of want to make out with him on my couch like a 15 year old.
I have never NOT swallowed. I realize there are people who aren't into this, but I just can't fathom it.
this is me. No mess, BUT if it is not your thing, don't do it. Don't let others tell you you should. Sex is something you have to be comfortable with and NO ONE should tell you what you SHOULD do.
I have never NOT swallowed. I realize there are people who aren't into this, but I just can't fathom it.
this is me. No mess, BUT if it is not your thing, don't do it. Don't let others tell you you should. Sex is something you have to be comfortable with and NO ONE should tell you what you SHOULD do.
Oh, I agree with this. I'm not saying she should start!
Post by dakotadangerdog on Dec 7, 2012 16:09:03 GMT -5
LOL When cfg would do me from behind some uh air would get in there so then when we were done and I'd stand up, it would come out. I find it SOOOO embarrassing so I'd yell at him when he did it and just like keep yelling over the queef noise so he wouldn't hear it lolol
this is me. No mess, BUT if it is not your thing, don't do it. Don't let others tell you you should. Sex is something you have to be comfortable with and NO ONE should tell you what you SHOULD do.
Oh, I agree with this. I'm not saying she should start!
I know you weren't, there was just a lot of "you don't know till you try" Well, I don't REALLY know if I would enjoy a threesome unless I try, but fuck that noise! Not doing it!
Here is a flameful-I moved in with my H after dating 4 months. We (well HE, but I picked it out) bought a house together after dating a little over 9 months before we were engaged or married. If anyone on here said they were going to do that I would be all "BAD IDEA, DON'T DO IT!" I am VERY lucky it worked out for me, but, WTF were we thinking back then?
Post by udscoobychick on Dec 7, 2012 16:28:30 GMT -5
Here's a random:
In a similar vein to the swallowing debate, it used to drive me NUTS on the S&R board on the Other Place that when a woman would post about her DH not being willing to give her oral, he was immediately labeled a selfish d-bag, but when a woman would post about not wanting to give her DH oral (even though he gave it to her), she was told "You go girl! No one can make you do anything you don't want to do!"
Obviously, a woman shouldn't have to give oral if she doesn't want to. But that means it's optional for a man, too. The double standard drove me crazy.
In a similar vein to the swallowing debate, it used to drive me NUTS on the S&R board on the Other Place that when a woman would post about her DH not being willing to give her oral, he was immediately labeled a selfish d-bag, but when a woman would post about not wanting to give her DH oral (even though he gave it to her), she was told "You go girl! No one can make you do anything you don't want to do!"
Obviously, a woman shouldn't have to give oral if she doesn't want to. But that means it's optional for a man, too. The double standard drove me crazy.
I agree. i wouldn't date a man who doesn't go down, and that's fine. and if it's a deal breaker for him, that's fine. There are women who don't LIKE oral, find one of them!