I'm going to do the online dating thing again, but I can't decide if I should do OKC or POF. I've done Match in the past and didn't have any more luck than with unpaid sites. Any advice?
I've never done the online thing, but I've heard the best things about OKC. So. Do that one!
Okay, so AB and I are supposed to go out to dinner and a movie tonight. However, I am kind of thinking of inviting him over here for takeout and a movie. 1) I am tired. I drank too much yesterday and stayed out too late 2) I kind of want to make out with him on my couch like a 15 year old.
Okay, so AB and I are supposed to go out to dinner and a movie tonight. However, I am kind of thinking of inviting him over here for takeout and a movie. 1) I am tired. I drank too much yesterday and stayed out too late 2) I kind of want to make out with him on my couch like a 15 year old.
No comment on my post above? I'm STILL mortified, but maybe it's not a huge deal?
The queefer! Queefer Sutherland! Hi!!!
Any dude who gets freaked out about a queef is not worth dating. Good sex is messy and sloppy and noisy and fun, and if that's something he's all weird about, you're better off without him.
Okay, so AB and I are supposed to go out to dinner and a movie tonight. However, I am kind of thinking of inviting him over here for takeout and a movie. 1) I am tired. I drank too much yesterday and stayed out too late 2) I kind of want to make out with him on my couch like a 15 year old.
Thoughts?
Here is my damn question
I answered your damn question! Right above!
But i'll say it again. I think that sounds like an awesome evening.
No comment on my post above? I'm STILL mortified, but maybe it's not a huge deal?
The queefer! Queefer Sutherland! Hi!!!
Any dude who gets freaked out about a queef is not worth dating. Good sex is messy and sloppy and noisy and fun, and if that's something he's all weird about, you're better off without him.
Well, he didn't freak out...he was surprised at first because "WOAH HI" but then after a second, we laughed forever, he knew I was super embarrassed and made me feel OK about it. He didn't seem turned off by it, so we resumed.
And we both kept joking about it later. But still mortified.
I farted on FI during sex last week. I was completely mortified and he just laughed, then let one rip as well. I don't think I have ever laughed so hard in my life.
I used to have issues with veginal dryness before I had P, now I'm just the opposite. I don't know why but I get a little self conscious about it. When I was with C he was fine with it but he wanted to use a towel sometimes because things would be TOO wet. So I get a little paranoid when/if I'm with someone new.
I farted on FI during sex last week. I was completely mortified and he just laughed, then let one rip as well. I don't think I have ever laughed so hard in my life.
Yup. Classy.
Haha this reminds me of a story. I really hate poopin' with people nearby. A few months into my relationship with my boyfriend, I really had to go. We were sharing a hotel room and I just flat out told him how uncomfortable I was with him being in the room and hearing me.
To make the situation better and more comfortable, he let out a bunch of farts right there in front of me. He then let me know it's ok now because "he broke the ice."
At first I was kind of grossed out but it did work and I really appreciated him doing that!! Haha. A sign of true love in my book.
The date I was supposed to have last night didn't happen to a series of unfortunate events that led to my friend who set us up apologizing to me. Date has been rescheduled to tonight.
The date I was supposed to have last night didn't happen to a series of unfortunate events that led to my friend who set us up apologizing to me. Date has been rescheduled to tonight.
The date I was supposed to have last night didn't happen to a series of unfortunate events that led to my friend who set us up apologizing to me. Date has been rescheduled to tonight.
What's the story? I'm intrigued.
He was supposed to pick me up at 6pm to go see the Festival of Lights at the Cincinnati Zoo. I get a text at 5 "I will be a little late. Errands are running longer than expected." He was borrowing a mutual friend's car so he needed to wait for them to finish errands.
At 7, I text him asking how late he will be. He is still waiting for them to get back. Mind you, it is a half hour drive from my house to the Zoo. It closes at 9 pm.
He texts me back a little later saying that he should be able to come get me between 8 and 830. I told him the Zoo closes at 9, so he suggested we see a movie instead, my pick. The only movie in theaters that I really want to see is Rise of the Guardians so I suggested that. He said sounds great.
At 9, our friend says he just left. At 9:30, I text my date to say that we should just call the night a bust since the last showing had just started. He texts me to say he is on his way, just trying to find the main street I live off of. Half an hour later, I get a text asking if he should have turned at [local community college]. I am very confused because that is 30 minutes south of me. I call him and yea, he is incredibly lost. I find where he is on my map, and get him back on the highway and tell him to go back to friend's house. He apologizes and asks if we can reschedule. I say sure.
The friend then calls me and apologizes, promising to make it up to me because it was his fault my date was late. I tried to say "It is what it is" but my friend knows me too well and could tell I was ready to cry. I was really looking forward to the date. It was especially disappointing since I can't go see another friend tonight that I was supposed to because my car is acting up.
So my date is taking me to the movies tonight to make up for it. We'll see how it goes. I'm not really getting excited about it given how much of a failure last night was.
It's also a matter of TIME. Your check may be small, but if you sit there chatting for so long, you have kept me from getting other tables and making more money.
It's also a matter of TIME. Your check may be small, but if you sit there chatting for so long, you have kept me from getting other tables and making more money.
But what if they didn't take much of your time? No one said she was chatting up the waitress did they? So what should people go by if not the 15-20% rule? Just curious, I've never worked in a position where I got tips more than rarely.
It's also a matter of TIME. Your check may be small, but if you sit there chatting for so long, you have kept me from getting other tables and making more money.
But what if they didn't take much of your time? No one said she was chatting up the waitress did they? So what should people go by if not the 15-20% rule? Just curious, I've never worked in a position where I got tips more than rarely.
If it is a quick turn over and i make $3, no big deal, there is something about $2, if you aren't just getting a drink at a bar, that seems...insulting? i don't know. A table from start to finish even when I worked at a super fast Mexican restaurant is about 30 minutes, so $2, I dunno. it just FEELS insulting. I don't know if I can explain it unless you have worked in a restaurant. i rarely tip less than $4, but I don't expect it out of everyone. BUT if it is a $15 tab and you tip $2, it seems insulting. Just leave $3. It's 20% and just $1 more.
I will add-everyone who tipped that little on a bill was also generally INCREDIBLY demanding and rude. I doubt that is the case here, but that is the negative association as well. Cheap people are generally the WORST and HARDEST to wait on. Ranch dressing girl, anyone?
I will add-everyone who tipped that little on a bill was also generally INCREDIBLY demanding and rude. I doubt that is the case here, but that is the negative association as well. Cheap people are generally the WORST and HARDEST to wait on. Ranch dressing girl, anyone?
hahah I get you. I typically tip 20% unless it's something REALLY cheap, like coffee, I always tip a dollar. I will keep the time thing in mind though!