I had a first date this week.....and I slept with him on the first date (I have NEVER done this before)....and it was a lunch date ...and I am still not sure how I feel about it.....most likely wont ever do that again (sleep with a guy on the first date)....but he asked me out again for the same day (date at night).
Feel free to flame me....i am flaming myself since this is not normal behavior for me.
Last week, my sister posted something on my fb wall like "hey, bf and I would like to buy a house, but we want you to pay for it and we'll live there." My other sister replied along the same lines, and they went back and forth a few times about how everyone can just live off of me and I'll support them all.
I feel like it's trashy, and I'd normally cringe at having my shit all public, but I've reached my limit and don't feel bad about it at all.
Last week, my sister posted something on my fb wall like "hey, bf and I would like to buy a house, but we want you to pay for it and we'll live there." My other sister replied along the same lines, and they went back and forth a few times about how everyone can just live off of me and I'll support them all.
I feel like it's trashy, and I'd normally cringe at having my shit all public, but I've reached my limit and don't feel bad about it at all.
I cannot get excited about wedding planning. I want to hire someone who will do it all for me.
I'LL DO IT FOR FREEE! I love wedding planning. I did not find it stressful AT ALL. Although, things did seem to just fall into my lap. I even planned my wedding in Dallas while living in OK!
Last week, my sister posted something on my fb wall like "hey, bf and I would like to buy a house, but we want you to pay for it and we'll live there." My other sister replied along the same lines, and they went back and forth a few times about how everyone can just live off of me and I'll support them all.
I feel like it's trashy, and I'd normally cringe at having my shit all public, but I've reached my limit and don't feel bad about it at all.
Is this because your ex lives in a house YOU pay for? If so, FUCK THEM! Want me to shank them for you? Doris probably knows some good shanking tips from prison life and I correspond with inmates for my job, together, we could be the Shanking machine!
Wait, I think I read that wrong, Bern...I'm confused. They were making fun of your EX, not YOU? I thought they were making fun of you. If the former, Then Doris and i will just focus on shanking your ex. Am I stupid today?
Wait, I think I read that wrong, Bern...I'm confused. They were making fun of your EX, not YOU? I thought they were making fun of you. If the former, Then Doris and i will just focus on shanking your ex. Am I stupid today?
No, no, they're making fun of my ex! Like, weeeeee, let's everyone live off of Bern, since xh and the family of five int he house seem to think that's ok!
Wait, I think I read that wrong, Bern...I'm confused. They were making fun of your EX, not YOU? I thought they were making fun of you. If the former, Then Doris and i will just focus on shanking your ex. Am I stupid today?
Think they are making fun of her
No, they're making fun of him. Bern's close with her sisters.
Post by starburst604 on Jan 4, 2013 10:42:32 GMT -5
I think berns sisters are making fun of her ex. She's saying she left what they said on there because she doesn't care to keep quiet and protect him and her privacy anymore.
I cannot get excited about wedding planning. I want to hire someone who will do it all for me.
I'LL DO IT FOR FREEE! I love wedding planning. I did not find it stressful AT ALL. Although, things did seem to just fall into my lap. I even planned my wedding in Dallas while living in OK!
Sounds good to me!
I think part of it is that we are starting to save up for it now, so I'm having a hard time thinking about spending all that money when we don't have it yet. And I know me--I have expensive tastes, to be sure.
I know the vision that I want--basically a several (like 5 or 6) course, sit-down meal with different wine pairings for every course...and I'm worried about how much it will cost. I'm also torn because FI and I go wine tasting a lot, so I want that incorporated, but I don't really want it at a vineyard because XFI and I were supposed to get married at a vineyard, were going to do cork placecard holders, grape motif on the invitations, etc. And I don't know that a caterer will be able to make that wine pairing happen. I know some vineyards that can, but I feel like I've been there, done that with respect to a vineyard wedding.
I'LL DO IT FOR FREEE! I love wedding planning. I did not find it stressful AT ALL. Although, things did seem to just fall into my lap. I even planned my wedding in Dallas while living in OK!
Sounds good to me!
I think part of it is that we are starting to save up for it now, so I'm having a hard time thinking about spending all that money when we don't have it yet. And I know me--I have expensive tastes, to be sure.
I know the vision that I want--basically a several (like 5 or 6) course, sit-down meal with different wine pairings for every course...and I'm worried about how much it will cost. I'm also torn because FI and I go wine tasting a lot, so I want that incorporated, but I don't really want it at a vineyard because XFI and I were supposed to get married at a vineyard, were going to do cork placecard holders, grape motif on the invitations, etc. And I don't know that a caterer will be able to make that wine pairing happen. I know some vineyards that can, but I feel like I've been there, done that with respect to a vineyard wedding.
Basically, I'm overthinking and stressing lol.
There are some farms in your area that may give off the vibe you're looking for but aren't vineyards. A caterer can execute wine pairings if you supply the wine and pay for the waiter service. I'd keep the guest list small though.
Have you been to Style Me Pretty yet? They feature a lot of weddings local to you.
I'LL DO IT FOR FREEE! I love wedding planning. I did not find it stressful AT ALL. Although, things did seem to just fall into my lap. I even planned my wedding in Dallas while living in OK!
Sounds good to me!
I think part of it is that we are starting to save up for it now, so I'm having a hard time thinking about spending all that money when we don't have it yet. And I know me--I have expensive tastes, to be sure.
I know the vision that I want--basically a several (like 5 or 6) course, sit-down meal with different wine pairings for every course...and I'm worried about how much it will cost. I'm also torn because FI and I go wine tasting a lot, so I want that incorporated, but I don't really want it at a vineyard because XFI and I were supposed to get married at a vineyard, were going to do cork placecard holders, grape motif on the invitations, etc. And I don't know that a caterer will be able to make that wine pairing happen. I know some vineyards that can, but I feel like I've been there, done that with respect to a vineyard wedding.
Basically, I'm overthinking and stressing lol.
If you can find a place that will let you bring in your OWN wine, it will be cheaper! My sister got married in Austin, and the place doesn't have it's own liquor, but lets you bring in wine/beer/a signature cocktail. Then you won't be paying the huge mark up, either.
I'm disappointed in myself that I don't have anything especially flameful today. But it's early yet.
Flame me instead. I emailed you. Please knock some sense into me.
I wrote back, but I couldn't flame you!!!
I guess it's a tiny bit flameful that, even though I've been grousing about my weight and talking about getting into shape, I'm pretty dead-set on getting McDs or Wendy's for lunch.
No, they're making fun of him. Bern's close with her sisters.
Yeah they're making fun of HIM and being all WTF, xh is a mooch douchebag so lets not say that on the Internet but instead be passive aggressive and say that bern should pay for everyone! Yippee! And everyone on fb knows xh is a douche. Get it?
Yes, I get it now. I am SLOW! Okay, I'll shank your ex. Doris, you in?
My flameful-I am pissed at H. I went to dinner with friends for a few hours and he took a shower and didn't crate the puppy so he pooped in the room. I get it was a mistake, but when I tell you "you have to watch him or else crate him/put him outside" that include showering!!!! GAAAAAHHHHHH!!!! On the drive home from dinner I was thinking of what mean things to say if he was pissed about the dog pooping, but then he was all sweet and like, "yeah, I should have crated him." I WASTED ALL THAT TIME THINKING OF COMEBACKS!!!
There are some farms in your area that may give off the vibe you're looking for but aren't vineyards. A caterer can execute wine pairings if you supply the wine and pay for the waiter service. I'd keep the guest list small though.
Have you been to Style Me Pretty yet? They feature a lot of weddings local to you.
I will check out Style Me Pretty! I think we'll need to have it inside because even in April, it can get pretty cool in the evenings, but perhaps some of the farms can accomodate that.
We're capping the guest list at 75 and thinking that it will end up being more like 50-60 who actually come (it's OOT for both of our families).
If you can find a place that will let you bring in your OWN wine, it will be cheaper! My sister got married in Austin, and the place doesn't have it's own liquor, but lets you bring in wine/beer/a signature cocktail. Then you won't be paying the huge mark up, either.
We definitely want to feature local wines, beers, and maybe hard ciders. We're going to skip the liquor all together to keep it cheaper. I've heard that you just have to be wary of corking fees if you bring in your own, so I'll need to ask potential venues about that.
Flame me instead. I emailed you. Please knock some sense into me.
Or flame me....ugh so disappointed in myself
I don't find it flameful, but I am a sex on the first date kind of girl. It seems you are not comfortable with it, why? Because you think it is "slutty" or just because it is so out of character for YOU personally? In which case, you may want to ask WHY you did it? Was it a strong connection with this guy? I wouldn't beat yourself up for that. Or was it something else? For a self-esteem boost (that's not a great way to get it), because you want him to like you (also not a good way to do it)? Everyone does something out of character every now and again, it's not necessarily bad. I'm sorry you feel bad about it. *Hugs*
Flame me instead. I emailed you. Please knock some sense into me.
I wrote back, but I couldn't flame you!!!
I guess it's a tiny bit flameful that, even though I've been grousing about my weight and talking about getting into shape, I'm pretty dead-set on getting McDs or Wendy's for lunch.
Well I have no problem flaming you Bully. Check your email.
I had a first date this week.....and I slept with him on the first date (I have NEVER done this before)....and it was a lunch date ...and I am still not sure how I feel about it.....most likely wont ever do that again (sleep with a guy on the first date)....but he asked me out again for the same day (date at night).
Feel free to flame me....i am flaming myself since this is not normal behavior for me.
Was it after lunch or after dinner? Because if it was after dinner I think that counts as a second date. lol
If it was after lunch I'd say it much have been one hell of a date.
I had a first date this week.....and I slept with him on the first date (I have NEVER done this before)....and it was a lunch date ...and I am still not sure how I feel about it.....most likely wont ever do that again (sleep with a guy on the first date)....but he asked me out again for the same day (date at night).
Feel free to flame me....i am flaming myself since this is not normal behavior for me.
I guess it's a tiny bit flameful that, even though I've been grousing about my weight and talking about getting into shape, I'm pretty dead-set on getting McDs or Wendy's for lunch.
Well I have no problem flaming you Bully. Check your email.