You know what's funny is I feel like guys have this reputation (whether true or not) for talking about sex and girls but I really feel like I talk far more about sex with my girlfriends and on here than any guy probably ever has. And the dirty details we share are ridiculous.
Guys do it too, we just don't know about it... just like they don't know we do it. Or some of us do. Some of us had sex this morning and know better than to share details.
Is this a passive agressive way to calling someone out or for you to say you had sex this morning? This confuses me.
Hmm. I haven't done anything flameful this week, but flame me for this: I think I am going to marry the QB. Crazy? Yep. But this is so different than any relationship I've ever had, and maybe I've been searching for him for the past 16 years since we lost contact and didn't realize it.
Also, no flames from me, Starry. Sometimes a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do.
As long as you don't start pinning wedding dresses and clipping ring advertisements to sneak into his jean pockets, you are fine. Just, be careful. it is still VERY new and anything could happen. I don't want you to get your heart broken.
But yeah for having a good dating experience thus far! I am glad you are excited about someone!
My FFC: I feel like I got involved in a relationship wayyyyyy too soon, but I am ridiculously happy with Sam. He is seriously the most gentle soul I have ever met, he's kind, he's handsome, he's successful, he's all that and a bag of potato chips. We never argue (we don't always agree on things, but usually that just involves a friendly and respectful debate).
But I can't help but think in the back of my mind, "Girl, you are soooo stupid for jumping in with both feet and your heart." I think it's too late for me and my heart to bail now and I AM really happy, but I am afraid it will come back to bite me in the ass.
I think we're all a little more aware about this than most people who enter a relationship. We're used to the bad, waiting for the other shoe to drop, etc. I think we get scared when things go so well based on our past experiences.
All of the things you posted about him sound like you're paying attention to the right things.
jojo - I'm down for shanking any day gozf - cliques are most definitely funny! jm - if that's the best you can do for a confession, we need to hang out!!
mine....I'm going to j's to have sex....he lives 15 miles from the airport so why not? also, and this is the flammable part, I don't think I'm going to tell him I had sex in Mexico even though when we hung out last week I asked that we be totally honest if we hook up with anyone else. we even pinky promised....this is shitty on my part.
also, and this is the flammable part, I don't think I'm going to tell him I had sex in Mexico even though when we hung out last week I asked that we be totally honest if we hook up with anyone else. we even pinky promised....this is shitty on my part.
Since it's flame free, I'll be nice and say I honestly believe in dating karma and you get back what you put out there.
also, and this is the flammable part, I don't think I'm going to tell him I had sex in Mexico even though when we hung out last week I asked that we be totally honest if we hook up with anyone else. we even pinky promised....this is shitty on my part.
Since it's flame free, I'll be nice and say I honestly believe in dating karma and you get back what you put out there.
we're not dating though....we are established fwbs. if we were dating Mexico shenanigans would have never happened
Since it's flame free, I'll be nice and say I honestly believe in dating karma and you get back what you put out there.
we're not dating though....we are established fwbs. if we were dating Mexico shenanigans would have never happened
Still I think if you make a promise to someone you should own up to it. I think it's fine to totally have hooked up in Mexico for sure. But if you guys agreed to tell each other I still think it's the right thing to do.
Still I think if you make a promise to someone you should own up to it. I think it's fine to totally have hooked up in Mexico for sure. But if you guys agreed to tell each other I still think it's the right thing to do.
I agree, not because of the commitment issue, but because of the health issue. He has a right to know (IMO) if the candy jar is being double-dipped if you guys have that agreement. Even if you are safe, there are still possibilities. But you know what, this is just an opinion and I think you have every right to live your life the way you like.
I agree, not because of the commitment issue, but because of the health issue. He has a right to know (IMO) if the candy jar is being double-dipped if you guys have that agreement. Even if you are safe, there are still possibilities. But you know what, this is just an opinion and I think you have every right to live your life the way you like.
Oh I totally agree....hence the flammable part.
Ha! Just out of curiosity, what's holding you back from telling him?
jojo - I'm down for shanking any day gozf - cliques are most definitely funny! jm - if that's the best you can do for a confession, we need to hang out!!
mine....I'm going to j's to have sex....he lives 15 miles from the airport so why not? also, and this is the flammable part, I don't think I'm going to tell him I had sex in Mexico even though when we hung out last week I asked that we be totally honest if we hook up with anyone else. we even pinky promised....this is shitty on my part.
I know I am not supposed to flame you because you are a regular and I like you and I am supposed to have a double standard, but I agree that this is shitty. WHY aren't you going to tell him?
jojo - I'm down for shanking any day gozf - cliques are most definitely funny! jm - if that's the best you can do for a confession, we need to hang out!!
mine....I'm going to j's to have sex....he lives 15 miles from the airport so why not? also, and this is the flammable part, I don't think I'm going to tell him I had sex in Mexico even though when we hung out last week I asked that we be totally honest if we hook up with anyone else. we even pinky promised....this is shitty on my part.
I know I am not supposed to flame you because you are a regular and I like you and I am supposed to have a double standard, but I agree that this is shitty. WHY aren't you going to tell him?
lol...no worries....my ass should be flamed for this! the honest answer is I'm worried he won't be dtf....we have a good deal set up and generally I'm such a prude I didn't think it would be me banging someone else first.
I know I am not supposed to flame you because you are a regular and I like you and I am supposed to have a double standard, but I agree that this is shitty. WHY aren't you going to tell him?
lol...no worries....my ass should be flamed for this! the honest answer is I'm worried he won't be dtf....we have a good deal set up and generally I'm such a prude I didn't think it would be me banging someone else first.
fuck....I''ll tell him and let him make the call.
AHHH! I thought it was more a just be open thing, not a, he may end the FWB stuff if you did someone else. I just never agreed to talk about it but made a "ALWAYS WEAR PROTECTION" statement. LOL
I have another FFC. PLEASE don't judge... Sam and I have introduced our kids to each other. It is freaking hard not to when both dating parents have custody and rarely have time without the kids. My older son is always with me and younger son is only gone every other weekend and Sam's kids live with him 8 days out of every 14 and sometimes more, so we just finally intro'd them so we could actually spend time together. We also live an hour apart, so combining that with crazy work schedules, kids, etc. sometimes we could only see each other when our kids were around.
The first time they met was actually an accident. We both ended up at the same restaurant with our kids. It was one he had recommended to me because of a play area they have and I went the night he told me about it. He walked in with his kids 30 minutes later. It was awkward and I hightailed it out of there pretty quick. But then we just threw our hands in the air and said screw it.
Post by leslieknope on Jan 4, 2013 18:10:13 GMT -5
These aren't flame worthy, but my life is pretty dull, it's all I got.
I am one horny bitch. I feel like Carrie in SATC - I need to feel the weight of a man on me. Stat! I am so tempted to contact my former FWB. Things didn't really end well with us, he got his poor little feelings hurt. But damn he was GOOD!
I am "doing" this whole weight loss challenge thing and have a long way to go. Instead of working out last night I met BAA1981 for drinks and ate way too many chips. And queso. Lots of queso.
lol...no worries....my ass should be flamed for this! the honest answer is I'm worried he won't be dtf....we have a good deal set up and generally I'm such a prude I didn't think it would be me banging someone else first.
fuck....I''ll tell him and let him make the call.
AHHH! I thought it was more a just be open thing, not a, he may end the FWB stuff if you did someone else. I just never agreed to talk about it but made a "ALWAYS WEAR PROTECTION" statement. LOL
The he might not be dtf was my paranoia.....I tend to over think things!!
And for an update....went to J's and told him I had sex with a dude and he's all "good for you" and we went upstairs and humped a couple of times. All is well in the world....
And thanks for flaming my ass....I was being a stupid!
These aren't flame worthy, but my life is pretty dull, it's all I got.
I am one horny bitch. I feel like Carrie in SATC - I need to feel the weight of a man on me. Stat! I am so tempted to contact my former FWB. Things didn't really end well with us, he got his poor little feelings hurt. But damn he was GOOD!
I am "doing" this whole weight loss challenge thing and have a long way to go. Instead of working out last night I met BAA1981 for drinks and ate way too many chips. And queso. Lots of queso.
Me too! Hence the reason to start up with the 27 yr old again. There is nothing else going on.
These aren't flame worthy, but my life is pretty dull, it's all I got.
I am one horny bitch. I feel like Carrie in SATC - I need to feel the weight of a man on me. Stat! I am so tempted to contact my former FWB. Things didn't really end well with us, he got his poor little feelings hurt. But damn he was GOOD!
I am "doing" this whole weight loss challenge thing and have a long way to go. Instead of working out last night I met BAA1981 for drinks and ate way too many chips. And queso. Lots of queso.
Me too! Hence the reason to start up with the 27 yr old again. There is nothing else going on.
I'd like to just hop underneath a guy and let him make me feel better. I know that's stupid to do right now, since I'm such a mess so I won't but damn, I so wish I could.
I'm also scared to sleep with someone, I've never been with anyone but STBX and I'm scared I suck in bed.
The he might not be dtf was my paranoia.....I tend to over think things!!
And for an update....went to J's and told him I had sex with a dude and he's all "good for you" and we went upstairs and humped a couple of times. All is well in the world....
And thanks for flaming my ass....I was being a stupid!
I didn't have time to flame you but I was in my head and glad you got some sex! Now I wanna have vacation sex. My friend just texted me that there's a hot tub, so bring a suit...or not....
Glad you think enough of me to flame me in your head!!
I guess I think guys would think of a girl as dirty if she was boning multiple dudes in a week, where it's more the "norm" for dudes to get away with that crap. Yes, I realize how stupid that sounds out loud!!
I'm also scared to sleep with someone, I've never been with anyone but STBX and I'm scared I suck in bed.
I was like this after XH and I split up....and the longer I went without it, the worse it got. Now, I had been with others before, but it was a total mindfuck. Thankfully, I had a guy friend willing to take one for the team and we hooked up. No stress, no worries and when it was all over he assured me I was still damn good!!
AHHH! I thought it was more a just be open thing, not a, he may end the FWB stuff if you did someone else. I just never agreed to talk about it but made a "ALWAYS WEAR PROTECTION" statement. LOL
The he might not be dtf was my paranoia.....I tend to over think things!!
And for an update....went to J's and told him I had sex with a dude and he's all "good for you" and we went upstairs and humped a couple of times. All is well in the world....
And thanks for flaming my ass....I was being a stupid!
YAY! Doris gets a (*) and is allowed back in the clique of no flaming because you are an awesome regular.
The he might not be dtf was my paranoia.....I tend to over think things!!
And for an update....went to J's and told him I had sex with a dude and he's all "good for you" and we went upstairs and humped a couple of times. All is well in the world....
And thanks for flaming my ass....I was being a stupid!
YAY! Doris gets a and is allowed back in the clique of no flaming because you are an awesome regular.
Um. And she admitted she was wrong. I was even going to flame her for this one, haha! And she is the peanut butter to my jelly!